This is my imagination;
This is how it looks and sounds -
But I gotta go so much bigger,
So they can never shut me down
I'm kinda scared of graduation
Cause who am I when this is done?
I wanna be next up forever,
So the best is always yet to come[1]
basic labels
Aka the labels I use publicly (depending on where I'm at)
current stuff
- Name; Anon
- Auxiliary name; Violet
- Pronouns; void/void/voids/voids/voidself ("Wow, void looks great! I wonder what voids secret is!")
- Auxiliary pronouns; --
- Gender; Intangigender
other labels - pronouns & stuff
Aka I'm a termcollector
- Anesigender - one knows a certain gender is correct, but identifies as something else (generally to avoid confusion or having to explain their identity)
- Genderhoarder - a fluid identity one can't describe easily, thus one "hoards" a bunch of labels that fit
- Kinfluid - one's kins are fluid, just like genderfluidity
- Kiwihoarder - one's orientation is fluid, but can't be described in few terms, thus one "hoards" a bunch of labels that fit
- Multipronominal - one who goes by multiple sets of pronouns
- Mutopronounal - one whose pronouns change in different situations or contexts
- Namehoarder - one who "hoards" many names that fit
- Objectum - attraction to inanimate objects
- Polyamorous - the capability or desire to be in a relationship with more than one person
- Pronoun ambivalent - one who has mixed feelings about their pronouns
- Pronoun Hoarder - one who uses many sets of pronouns
- Pronounfluid - one who switches between different sets of pronouns
- Many spiritual crushes - I really can't explain this one in short
- Syllrubru - a type of gender collecting where one collects genders they feel they might be in the future, so they collect those genders 'just in case'
- Turkeyhoarder - same as pronoun hoarder
- Webpronounswap - one who uses different pronouns online & in person
orientation labels
I don't think anyone needs to "justify" their labels, but I'm an exception from my own rule, as always. I don't really know how to define my sexuality, so I use multiple labels, some of which are contradictory. Proceed at your own discretion.
romantic orientation labels
- Causaromantic - one experiences romantic attraction, but partially or entirely loses it after they start thinking of reasons a romantic relationship wouldn't be enjoyable (linked it to the sexuality cause a romantic equivalent hasn't been coined)
- Eligereromantic - one can choose if they feel romantic attraction to certain people or not
- Laimoromantic - one is unsure if they're aro-spec cause one's not sure what romantic attraction is
- Lithromantic - one experiences romantic attraction, but doesn't want it reciprocated
- Post Rubor - one feels attraction quickly, but it fades after the excitement of having attraction disappears
- Quoiromantic - inability to identify romantic attraction
sexuality labels
- Abrosexual - fluctuating orientation
- Aceallo-unsure - one doesn't know if they're asexual or allosexual
- Ametoric - one might feel sexual attraction, but for the time being chooses not to have sex
- Cogitarisexual - one only experiences attraction in their own head and doesn't try to act on it
- Greysexual - for me specifically it's relating to aspects of asexuality, even if it isn't a perfect fit
- Iamvanosexual - one enjoys sexual acts being performed on them, but doesn't want to perform sexual acts on others
- Implasexual - one is never satisfied with their orientation, no matter how well a label fits
- Kaitasexual - attraction to both fictional and real people
- Novisexual - a complicated attraction or lack thereof that is difficult or impossible to fit into one term
- Omniflux - attraction to all genders with varying intensity
- Omnisexual - attraction to all genders, but gender plays a role in attraction
- Pansexual - attraction regardless of gender; gender doesn't play a role in attraction
- Parosexual - one experiences different forms of sexual attraction to different genders
- Polysexual - attraction to many genders, but not all
- Postsexual - a feeling that one's identity has been shaped by an orientation that they no longer experience (links to a gender cause the sexuality counterpart hasn't been coined)
- Proculsexual - sexual attraction exclusively or near-exclusively to people one knows they can never be in a relationship with
- Quoisexual - inability to identify sexual attraction
- Voideric - an orientation that is always shifting an never moving; it's contradictory and confusing
past orientation labels
I'm pretty sure I used to be ace-spec for a long time, but that has, for the most part, changed.
I used to be apothisexual and at one point alicosexual. I also used aegosexual for a brief time & I'm still somewhat attached to the label.
gender labels
Keep in mind I'm fluid between these genders. I use the genderfluid version of a system if I shift every gender in it.
multigenders
- Alexi-Xenoflux \this comes in waves (for a period of time I'll be alexi-xenoflux & then it goes away & then it comes back again some months or weeks later) - one knows what genders they're fluid between, but can't tell what they're shifting at a given moment
- Cavrumgender - connected to black holes; feels all-consuming but never complete
- Colligogender - one feels they're collecting genders
- Dustbunnygender - one collects more labels for their gender over time
- Genderdox - a paradox where one has multiple genders yet none or experience emptiness at the same time
- Genderfluid - fluctuation between multiple genders over time
- Polygender - two or more genders
- Outersystem with a Worldgender as the 'base' - one has so many genders which correlate in such a complex way it can best be described as a solar system/galaxy. Worldgender is the 'smaller' version of this, where one's genders make up a world/planet
- Pangender - infinitely many genders
- Potengender - when one is listening to a song, their gender identity changes to mirror the vibe of the song
- Scorpifluid - fluidity between unknown/hard to understand genders
- Shifterfluid - fluidity between fluid identities
- Textgender \usually in a pangender shift - one begins to identify with a gender the more they read about it
non-genders
- Agender \sometimes kingender - a lack of gender
- Apogender \sometimes kingender - one feels completely removed from the concept of gender
- Cloudgender - one's gender cannot be fully understood due to derealization and/or depersonalization (neurogender)
- Errgender - inability to get a hold of one's gender or to fully understand it
- Genderless \sometimes kingender - an absence of gender; I personally use this when I feel total detachment from gender
- Gendervoid - a blank space or void where a gender might be
- Intangigender - a hard-to-inspect gender that feels cold and shadowy
- Slithgender - a gender that feels as though it slips from your grasp & you need to find it or seek it out
I kinda have a personal scale for some of these, from least removed from gender to most removed from gender;
agender (whoops there's no gender) -> gendervoid (even the idea of having a gender feels distant) -> genderless (not completely removed from the concept of gender, but detached) -> apogender (the entire concept of gender feels foreign) -> gender non-existent (gender simply doesn't exist in my mind; it can't be comprehended) (this last one is self-coined, as far as I know)
"other" genders (/labels)
- Abimegender - best described by mirrors reflecting into one another, creating an infinite reflection
- Aporagender \sometimes kingender - a strong gendered feeling that is completely removed from masculinity, femininity, or androgyny
- Gender- (Genderminus) - one's gender can be described as approximately a certain label, but one doesn’t quite fit every aspect of said label
- Ludosgender - a strong connection to playing cards, dice, and the like
- Toastgender - one's gender feels akin to metal, fluctuating between feeling warm and cold (kingender)
- Non-Binary - one who doesn't fit into the binary of man & woman
- Proxangi - a non-binary gender derived from androgyny, but different from androgyne
- Xeminine \kin related - one who's both xenine & feminine (or attached to femininity)
- Xenic \sometimes kin related - one who isn't male or female aligned, but instead aligned with animals, plants, things, or concepts
stellargenders
- Astronomique - a gender in some way related to astronomy (umbrella term, can be used on its own)
- Aethergender \usually kingender - a gender that is wide, commanding, breathtaking & powerful
- Astralgender - a gender connected to space, stars & the universe
- Astrumgender \sometimes kingender - a gender connected to stars and/or constellations; one may feel like their gender is bursting from within them
- Aurorian \sometimes kingender - fluid gender of the galactian alignment system, which is an alignment system to describe certain gendered feelings in non-gendered terms
- Brunstjernen \usually kingender - stargender connected to brown dawrfs, space, coffee & planets; it feels small and distant
- Caelgender \sometimes kingender - a gender that shares quality with outer space and/or shares the aesthetic of space, stars, nebulae etc.
- Cavrumgender - connected to black holes; feels all-consuming but never complete
- Eclipsique - a gender connected to solar and/or lunar eclipses
- Exoplanique \sometimes kingender - a gender related to exoplanets & rogue planets
- Galacticgender \sometimes kingender - a gender disconnected from this world/reality that's strongly connected to space things such as planets, stars, moons, nebulas, and the like
- Galaxxin / Galaksene \sometimes kingender - a gender connected to star clusters, galaxies, distant planets, earth-like planets, and nebulae; also feels as if it's an infinite void, akin to space
- Linnutgender - a gender connected to all planets, celestial bodies & astronomical objects in the solar system
- Neagender - a gender connected to the void with (a) gendered component/s inherently tied to it; a connection to an actual void, like space; connection to space itself or to ocean depths; connection to liminal spaces; a gender that is a void; feeling somewhat gendered, but distorted; a haze, fog, or vast feeling; any other connection to the void
- Royalgalaxic \kingender - a gender in the Royal system related to being space royalty; it's connected to space, galaxies, stars, space aesthetics, royal aesthetics, and being non-binary (I linked it to the princess system equivalent cause this doesn't exist but it's basically the same without the femininity)
- Kuiperian \sometimes kingender - fluid gender of the celestial gender system, which is a system of genders with a soft, celestial energy; they're gendered, but only softly; linked but not aligned
- Mnioct \sometimes kingender - a gender that encompasses the void but is filled with all
- Pulsargendervoid \usually kingender - fluid form of spacegendervoid; a gender connected to space, stars, and the universe as a whole, with the feeling of genderlessness while also being vaguely gendered
- Spacecoric \sometimes kingender - a coric gender related to the aesthetic of spacecore/space/astronomy
- Stargender \sometimes kingender - has three definitions; a gender that is or is like a star / an otherworldly, non-human gender which can't be described in earthly terms & originates from beyond Earth / a gender which can't be described, no matter how many terms are coined
- Svarthulline - a gender connected to black holes, infinity, nothingness, the void, space & unknown objects
skygenders
- Caegender \sometimes kingender - a gender connected to the sky
- Eventidal \usually kingender - a gender connected to the night sky, moon, starlight, and clouds; it's cold, clear & majestic
- Moongender \usually kingender - a gender connected to the moon, lunar activity, or the zodiac
- Noctisgender - a gender connected to the night (sky or otherwise)
elemental genders
- Aecorfluid - fluid gender in the Aecor System, which is a system of genders connected to water
Demiaecor - a gender that's partially aecoric
Arroyan [demi] - a gender that feels like a small creek or stream
Flitzan [demi] - a gender that feels like a cup of water
Cascadan [demi] - a gender that feels like a waterfall
Charcon [demi] - a gender that feels like a puddle
Hielon [demi] - a gender that feels like ice
Lochen [demi] - a gender that feels like a lake
Neptunun [demi] - a gender that feels like the ocean or sea
Rion [demi] - a gender that feels like a river
\usually kingender - Eilumescian - a gender from the sylvian system (a system of genders related to forests); it's connected to forests, with a specific connection to otherworldly and/or mythical forests
- Fervian \sometimes kingender - masculine gender of the element system; a masculine gender represented by fire
- Hadogender \sometimes kingender - a gender connected to the deep ocean & the eldrich secrets they hide
- Roseian - a gender from the fleurian system (a system of genders connected to flowers); it's connected to nature and flowers, with a specific connection to roses
electric genders
- Audiowavegender \self-coined, can't quite put into words well enough to add a page
- Exploigender - a gender in the techno-gender system; it's best described as finding a hidden glitch in a game that lets you progress, giving a feeling of euphoria
- Hardwaregender \demi - a gender connected to computer hardware such as circuit boards, wires & CPUs
soft genders
Most of these are repeated in other segments; I just wanna list them together as well
- Alicorngender - a gender connected to mythical creatures
- Cozycoric \demi - a gender connected to cozycore
- Dollgender - a gender that's fragile with a soft feminine energy, or a gender connected to a doll-related kintype
- Esolcesse \usually kingender - a gender connected to being a princess of light; sunshine, stars, deep empathy, optimism, love, princess aesthetics & non-binary girlhood
- Kuiperian \sometimes kingender - fluid gender of the celestial gender system, which is a system of genders with a soft, celestial energy; they're gendered, but only softly; linked but not aligned
- Lovecoric \demi - a gender connected to lovecore
- Plushgender - a gender connected to plushies/soft toys, or a gender that feels soft, comforting & almost nostalgic in a way
- Squishyic - an aesthetigender connected to squishies
- Xenosoft - a soft xenogender / a connection to soft xenity
aesthetigenders
Aesthetigender - xenogenders connected to an aesthetic or sensory experience
general
- Bellusgender - a gender connected to anything the user finds beautiful
- Cosmetian \usually kingender - a combination gender in the astrian system, which is a system of aesthetigenders based on stereotypical gender presentation; cosmetian is the mixture of masc, fem & xenine
princess / prince / royal systems
The Princess System - a system of non-binary princess-related aesthetigenders
The Prince System - a system of non-binary prince-related aesthetigenders
The Royal System - a system of non-binary royalty-related aesthetigenders
- Academicesse \usually kingender - a gender connected to being an academic princess; dark academia, books, vintage/antique aesthetics, princess aesthetics & non-binary girlhood
- Angelicesse \usually kingender - a gender connected to being an angel princess; harmony, princess aesthetics, non-binary girlhood & angelcore/angelkin/being an angel
- Esolcesse \usually kingender - a gender connected to being a princess of light; sunshine, stars, deep empathy, optimism, love, princess aesthetics & non-binary girlhood
- Laviecesse - a gender connected to being a princess of life; life, plants, animals, nature aesthetics, princess aesthetics & non-binary girlhood
- Lusiencesse \sometimes kingender - a gender connected to being a sunflower princess; sunflowers, princess aesthetics, non-binary girlhood & joy
- Mortcesse - a gender connected to being a princess of death; death, darkness, dark/death-related aesthetics & non-binary girlhood
- Priangelic \usually kingender - a gender connected to being an angel prince; harmony, prince aesthetics, non-binary boyhood & angelcore/angelkin/being an angel
- Royalgalaxic \kingender - a gender connected to being space royalty; it's connected to space, galaxies, stars, space aesthetics, royal aesthetics, and being non-binary (I linked it to the princess system equivalent cause this doesn't exist but it's basically the same without the femininity)
- Sleepycesse \kingender - a gender connected to being a sleepycoric princess; sleepycore, bedtime, sleepiness, princess aesthetics & non-binary girlhood
colorgenders
- Neonic - a gender connected to neon colors
- Pastelgender - a gender connected to pastel colors
coric genders
- 80scoric - a gender connected to 80score
- Angelcoric \demi - a gender connected to angelcore
- Arcadegender - a gender connected to arcadecore & flashy colors
- Chaoscoric - a gender related to chaoscore
- Cloudcoric - a gender connected to cloudcore
- Cozycoric \demi - a gender connected to cozycore
- Crowcoric - a gender connected to crowcore
- Fairycoric \demi - a gender connected to fairycore
- Flowercoric \demi - a gender connected to flowercore
- Ghostcoric - a gender connected to ghostcore
- Gloomcoric - a gender connected to gloomcore
- Honeycoric - a gender connected to honeycore
- Kenochoric - an umbrella term that is centered around the idea of kenopsia (the eerie atmosphere of a place that's been abandoned), has many meanings; a gender connected to | liminal spaces, the void, darkness, vast concepts, distortion, emptiness & the like | a feeling of kenopsia, loneliness or autophobia | a disconnect from gender in some way | hard-to-define relationship with one's gender | one's relationship with gender feels eerie, strange, nostalgic, and/or foggy
- Lovecoric \demi - a gender connected to lovecore
- Piratecoric \demi - a gender connected to piratecore
- Sciencecoric - a gender connected to sciencecore
- Warmcoric \demi - a gender connected to warmcore
kingedners
- Kingenderfluid - a change in gender whilst in a kin shift
therian kingenders
- Crowgender - a gender connected to crows
- Raccogender - a gender connected to raccoons
fictionkingenders
The uncategorized ones
- Capriogender - a gender connected to the sign Capricorn
- Dollgender - a gender that's fragile with a soft feminine energy, or a gender connected to a doll-related kintype
- Exaltgender - a gender connected to royalty, nobility & the like; it's often connected to a feeling of elegance and gracefulness
- Libra-gender - a gender connected to the sign Libra
- Miraigender - a gender that's in some way connected to the future; either to something that can predict the future (tarot cards, fortune cookier etc.), future related media (books, TV shows etc.), or anything connected to the future; can also be an aesthetigender connected to futuristic aesthetics
magic kingenders
- Alicorngender - a gender connected to mythical creatures
- Leafian & Sylvian - two genders in the Eevelutiogender System, which is a system of genders connected to the eevelution pokemon; leafian is a gender that feels quiet, sweet & kind, is connected to nature & the pokemon leafeon | sylvian is a gender that feels flowy and mysterious, strange and not quite of this world, very friendly and mischievous & is connected to the pokemon sylveon
- Fablegender - a gender connected to mythical beings (I think this is an exclusive kingender)
- Fairygender \fairy-demiboy - a gender connected to fairies
- Unicorngender - a gender connected to any type of unicorn, with an etherealness to it; it can feel delicate, magical, soft, and/or almost inhuman
creepy kingenders
- Crypgender - a gender connected to cryptids; one who identifies with or groups themself with cryptids
- Endergender - a gender connected to endermen from Minecraft
- Hadesgender - a kingender connected to dead and/or undead beings
- Nightmaregender - a gender connected to nightmares, illusions & any other sleep terrors
- ostómasculine - a gender that feels like a skeleton with a slight aura of masculinity
- Zertexios - a gender in the spectral gender system, which is a system of genders for ghostkin and/or other spectral kintypes; it's a ghostly unaligned & feminine gender
alien kingenders
Kingenders I generally shift when shifting alien kins; the genders themselves aren't necessarily alien-related
- Aitherogender - an ethereal, otherworldly gender that feels as if it originated from beyond Earth & thus is hard or impossible to explain through written or spoken medium
- Beorgender - a gender that is extremely hot or burning (in terms of temperature)
- Estrialgender - one doesn't identify with a human gender because one's from a different planet
- Kindligender - a gender connected to fire (can be both an umbrella term or a lone term)
- Androidgender - a gender connected to an android from or based off D:BH
- Bsodgender - a gender in the techno-gender system, which is a system of genders related to electricity, technology & the like; it feels like a computer that's been blessed with the blue screen of death, feeling exhausted & confused towards one's gender
- Digigender - a gender connected to an application or electronic entity; can be broad or a specific digital thing or file
- Electrigender - a gender connected to electricity, a gender that feels electrified, or a gender that feels out of control
- Errorgender - a gender relating to errors, as if it's a glitch and not meant to exist
- Loragender - a gender connected to Ballora from FNAF: Sister Location
- Rogogender - a gender in the exemgenders system, which is a system of genders that uses Pokemon types as a theme (& can be fictogenders or kingenders); it feels animalistic & otherworldly, with a connection to glitches
angelic kingenders
- Angelcoric \demi - a gender connected to angelcore
- Angelicesse - a gender in the princess system, which is a system of non-binary princess-related aesthetigenders; it's connected to being an angel princess; harmony, princess aesthetics, non-binary girlhood & angelcore/angelkin/being an angel
- Auroral - a gender connected to the morning sky, sunlight & clouds; it's cold, clear & majestic
- Powelian - a gender in the ophanian gender system, which is a system of genders for angelkin; it's a masculine & unaligned angelic gender
- Priangelic - a gender in the prince system, which is a system of non-binary princess-related aesthetigenders; it's related to being an angel prince; harmony, prince aesthetics, non-binary byhood & angelcore/angelkin/being an angel
- Princelian - a gender in the ophanian gender system, which is a system of genders for angelkin; it's a feminine angelic gender
- Virtelian - a gender in the ophanian gender system, which is a system of genders for angelkin; it's a feminine & unaligned angelic gender
source genders
Genders connected to source rather than a specific kin.
- Gamegender - umbrella term for genders connected to games or only felt when playing games
- Sislogender - a gender connected to FNAF: Sister Location
- Minecraftgender - a gender related to Minecraft
- Eastgender \Until Dawn - a compassgender related to the direction east & its symbolism, such as the future, air, communication & trust
- custofenaf & fenafseite - fnafgenders connected to FNAF: Ultimate Custom Night & FNAF: Help Wanted
syllrubru genders
- Aistralic - one's gender is influenced by doing something one's passionate about
- Alienicesse - a gender in the princess system connected to being an extraterrestrial or not Earth princess; it's connected to aliens, space, space aesthetics, alien aesthetics, princess aesthetics and non-binary girlhood
- Amphiterae - one's gender is small, mischievous and sneaky; it collects/hoards terms & often fluctuates between their favourite terms
- Butterflygender - a gender connected to butterflies
- Contigender - a gender which flows through space and time, always changing; is of space and time or related to space and time
- Cosmicgender - a gender so vast and complex one is only able to process a piece of it at a time
- Diregender - a gender connected to dire wolves & fossils
- Exosphenic - a term to describe how close or far one is from the gender binary; it's completely or almost completely removed from the gender binary
- Onerogender - an enigma; both constantly moving and staying still at the same time, both full and empty, as well as in the middle
- Paingender - one's gender causes mental and/or physical pain
- Schrodigender - either a gender one can feel but also not feel, or a single gender that exists as if it were multiple genders
- Suesscoric - a gender related to the Dr. Seuss aesthetic (yes, the name is misspelled)
- Sparklefurgender - a gender connected to sparklefurries, brightly colored animals, rainbows & internet nostalgia
- Sparklegender - a gender that feels sparkly
- Suckletgender - a gender connected to Sucklet. I have never heard of this creature until 2 minutes ago & I already love it
- Supernovae - a gender that is or is like a supernova; it erupts and hundreds of genders are created, destroyed & fused together into new genders
- Stellaene - a gender best described as a rogue planet spiraling out of control
- Urvogender - a gender connected to archaeopteryx
syllrubru orientations
Basically same as syllrubru genders
- Abrisexual - the sexuality doesn't change, but the labels do
- Nullumsexual - a label for non-allo people who don't wanna use ace or ace-spec
about me ig
- I think of myself as the little red frame on the calendar, with the way I constantly change
- My current hyperfixations are h2g2, DGHDA (the books), FNAF & Undertale
- I used to be rly into BMC, Heathers & Hamilton
- I'm slowly shedding my podcast phase (TAZ, Fun City, IDEOATV, TEOTAOB)
- TMA is a trigger tho >_>
- I used to read a lot, but now am unable af
- I either daydream constantly for weeks on end, or am completely unable to daydream & suffer
- I love animated & soft things
- I have trouble connecting with live-action stuff hahah
- I'm also a huge kinnie, obv (spiritual kin; I've a lot of kins)
- I will literally develop a crush on you 20 minutes after meeting
- I write poetry & short stories (& also cursed fanfiction), none of it publicly
- Hope u have a great day <3