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[[Inkongender]] - Is characterised by having a vague and inconsistent relationship with gender. An inkogender person may sometimes feel as if gender does not apply to them at all, while other times they may feel as if they have a gender but are unable to describe the gendered experience they’re having. Despite the vague connection to or general disconnect from gender, they may still use gender labels that fit them best and/or collect genders that they have a connection to. Inkongender can be considered a [[neurogender]], but it doesn’t have to be. |
[[Inkongender]] - Is characterised by having a vague and inconsistent relationship with gender. An inkogender person may sometimes feel as if gender does not apply to them at all, while other times they may feel as if they have a gender but are unable to describe the gendered experience they’re having. Despite the vague connection to or general disconnect from gender, they may still use gender labels that fit them best and/or collect genders that they have a connection to. Inkongender can be considered a [[neurogender]], but it doesn’t have to be. |
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[[Intensiflux]] - An identity under the [[genderfluid]] and [[genderflux]] umbrella. Someone who is intensiflux has very, very intense changes in intensity of gender. They will go from feeling intensely [[agender]] to feeling intensely gendered all at once. This identity is similar to but not the same as [[agenderflux]]. |
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[[Caedogender]] - A gender that has been "cut away" or damaged by trauma. At one point one may have experienced a certain gender at one point, but one feels that their connection to that gender has been damaged, altered, or completely cut away after a traumatic event. |
[[Caedogender]] - A gender that has been "cut away" or damaged by trauma. At one point one may have experienced a certain gender at one point, but one feels that their connection to that gender has been damaged, altered, or completely cut away after a traumatic event. |
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Revision as of 11:15, 6 May 2021
This is where I list everything I identify with! I tend to hoard identities so there's probably going to be a lot.
Pronouns
Primary:
They/them/their/theirs/theirself
Secondary:
he/him/his/himself/himself
it/it/it/its/itself
bug/bug/bugs/bugs/bugself
hy/hym/hys/hys/hymself
bite/bite/bites/bites/biteself
Do not use any other pronouns for me. It is okay to refer to me with masculine terms such as "brother" or "Boyfriend" though.
Do not use any feminine terms when referring to me. Do not call my by any name that isnt Bug.
Sexual Orientations
Aceflux - A sexual orientation on the asexual spectrum. It is defined as someone whose sexual orientation fluctuates but generally stays on the asexual spectrum. An aceflux person may feel very strongly asexual one day and less asexual another day, they might feel demisexual or greyasexual at times. Some aceflux people may feel like they are allosexual at times.
Caedsexual - An orientation on the asexual spectrum, defined as someone who feels that they were, at one point allosexual, but that has been taken or “cut away” from them due to past trauma.
Inactsexual - When one experiences sexual attraction and desires a sexual relationship despite being Sex-repulsed.
Requisexual - Someone who has limited or no sexual attraction, interest, or activity due to some form of emotional exhaustion. This emotional exhaustion may be the result of previous sexual endeavors or past experiences dealing with sex, or from something else that is emotionally draining.
Acorsexual - An identity on the asexual spectrum that refers to someone who experiencing sexual attraction that one wants to act on, but at the same time has a strong aversion to engaging in it due to bad experiences, apprehension, or other misgivings about being involved in sexual relationships or sexual activity, etc.
Dysphorsexual - An identity on the asexual spectrum where one feels sexual attraction, but doesn’t want to participate in a sexual relationship, due to dysphoria or other mental health issues. They may feel repulsed by the idea of being in a sexual relationship. When one transitions or starting feeling happy with their body, one may feel like participating in a sexual relationship, but until then, they don’t want to participate.
Dysphosexual - An orientation that fluctuates in intensity based on how strong or intense ones dysphoria is at the moment or at the time.
Romantic Orientations
Panromantic - The romantic attraction to people regardless of gender, and as a result, one is attracted to all genders. Panromantic people may be described as being "gender blind" showing that gender is not a factor in their attraction to a person.
Ambivaic - A term for people on the multisexual spectrum who have no preference towards any gender, they may or may not by gender blind.
Ideromatic (A page has yet to be created) - The romantic attraction to people individually where gender is not a factor. The “idea” of a person, their abstract qualities, character or, as many would describe,“personality.” Usually defined by a lack of physical preferences or not experiencing/comprehending gendered attraction.
Requisromantic - A romantic orientation on the aromantic spectrum. It is defined as someone who has limited or no romantic attraction, interest, or activity due to some form of emotional exhaustion. This emotional exhaustion may be the result of previous romantic endeavors or past experiences dealing with romance, or from something else that is emotionally draining.
Genders
Deminonbinary - A gender in which one is partially, but not fully non-binary.
Demiboy - A non-binary gender in which one is partially, but not fully, a boy or man.
Non-Binary - Someone whose gender does not fall strictly within the category of the binary genders
Illusogender - when someone knows they're a certain gender, but experiences a feeling of "fakeness" present, either due to neurodivergency or due to outside pressure, such as from parents, society, etc. These feelings and/or pressures can be part of the gender experience.
Inkongender - Is characterised by having a vague and inconsistent relationship with gender. An inkogender person may sometimes feel as if gender does not apply to them at all, while other times they may feel as if they have a gender but are unable to describe the gendered experience they’re having. Despite the vague connection to or general disconnect from gender, they may still use gender labels that fit them best and/or collect genders that they have a connection to. Inkongender can be considered a neurogender, but it doesn’t have to be.
Intensiflux - An identity under the genderfluid and genderflux umbrella. Someone who is intensiflux has very, very intense changes in intensity of gender. They will go from feeling intensely agender to feeling intensely gendered all at once. This identity is similar to but not the same as agenderflux.
Caedogender - A gender that has been "cut away" or damaged by trauma. At one point one may have experienced a certain gender at one point, but one feels that their connection to that gender has been damaged, altered, or completely cut away after a traumatic event.
Funny DogGender - An exclusive gender and the feeling of it can be quite complex, as one can feel like they have no gender or all genders at the same time or be somewhere in between. (which is somewhat similar to agender and pangender) This is often characterized by feelings of tiredness and or contentment.
Transmasculine - A gender identity where one was assigned female at birth (AFAB), but identifies fully or partially as a man or another gender(s) with significant amounts of masculinity.
Gendersatyr - A form of genderfluidity that never encompasses female or feminine genders.
Autigender - A neurogender which can only be understood in the context of being autistic or when one's autism greatly affects one's gender or how one experiences gender. Autigender is not autism as a gender, but rather is a gender that is so heavily influenced by autism that one's autism and one's experience of gender cannot be unlinked.
Gendervir - An umbrella term for all genders that are male, male-aligned, male-adjacent, or male-related in some way.
Implagender - The state of never being satisfied with ones gender no matter how well it fits due to self-doubt. This causes one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits even better- to find "the gender" or "the one truth"- though one will never be found due to a) Words will never be able to describe one's gender. b) One's gender is paradoxical. This inability to find a "one true gender" frequent causes self-doubt and can even cause the label implagender to feel imperfect to the individual.
Gxnderfluix - A gender identity that is both genderfluix and agender. One has no gender while simultaneously switching/fluctuating between multiple genders.
Devilgender/Devilboy - A gender identity for neurodivergent people that are connected to devils, demons, and evil itself. It is also the opposite of Angelgender. It can be a gender based in religion or based in media, as long as it's based around devils or anything evil.
Demongender - An exclusive neurogender that is connected with anything demonic related. This does not include devils. This applies for those who identify as some kind of theological or fictional demon.
Agender Man - Someone who is agender and a man or man-aligned.
Hoodiegender - A neurogender defined as "a gender that feels safe, especially to those with mental illnesses, and comforting. But also can be hiding something “underneath”, or feel mysterious."
Gendervoid - A gender which is an absence, a blank space or void where a gender might otherwise be.
Singularian - A non-binary gender that is part of the galactian alignment system, however it is completely separate from from all the other gender alignments, because singularians reject all forms of alignment.
Kenpchoric - An umbrella term that is centered around the idea of kenopsia: the eerie atmosphere of a place that's has been abandoned.
Gendermolasses - It is fluid very slowly, changing over the course of weeks, months, or even years at a time, while genderfluid is a broader term which also covers gender that change every hour, minute, or even second.
Genderslow - A form of genderfluidity in which your gender changes, but at a very slow pace.
Endergender - Also known as endrien, is a gender defined by its connection to endermen from Minecraft. It is a xenogender that can be used by those who experience a strong connection with endermen and for those who have a difficult relationship with gender and often fluctuating identity. It was made with neurodivergent people in mind, but it can be used by anyone.
Other Identities
Polyamorous - The capability or desire to be in a relationship with more than one person at once.
Phrahmaic (Platonic and romantic) - An orientation where someone can experience attraction extremely fast for people. One who is phragmaic will experience attraction extremely fast and hard and love in a way that would take other people years to feel.
Cedural Attraction - A form of potential and tertiary attraction that revolves around wanting to feel protected, covered, understood, tutored, and supported by someone else.
Exteramo Attraction - A form of attraction that is neither romantic nor platonic nor anywhere in between them. It exists entirely outside of platonic and romantic attraction.
Fluitic - An identity for someone who desires a wavership. Alternately it can refer to someone who is unsure of what one desires from the object of their attraction, due to the fact that the nature of their attraction is frequently shifting from one type of attraction to another.