Femme Bear

The femme bear flag.

Femme bear, also known as bear femme, is a term used by some non-binary people to describe their relationship with gender or gender expression, and sometimes one's sexual orientation as well. It is a combination of the terms femme and bear. This can sometimes be used as a gender identity and/or sexual orientation on its own.

Examples of femme bear experiences may include:

• Having a non-normative gender expression or being gender non-conforming. One may present androgynously and have connections to both femininity and masculinity or be lingender. One may want to be perceived as both a masculine man and a feminine woman (but not a feminine man or masculine woman). They may present both ways simultaneously or be fluid between presentations. They may also be pronoun non-conforming.
• Having a connection to both womanhood and manhood, either through being liaspec, multigender, genderfluid, cusper, both girlprox and boyprox, or through some other way.
• Relating to or identifying with both achillean and sapphic communities, labels, or culture. This could be because one is multisexual, omnigay, gai, or other identities.
• Being a femme person who is heavy-set and hairy and identifies with bear culture.

Not all femme bears experience their identities in the same way. The traits listed above are only examples, and they do not apply to every femme bear.

The counterpart to femme bear is butch twink.

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The femme bear flag was created by an anonymous wiki user on March 28, 2021. The top three stripes represent connection to femme culture. The white stripe represents nonbinary identity. The bottom three strips represent connection to bear culture. The heart paw represents a combination of femme and bear culture.