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A '''they/them gay''' is a specifically tailored identity that refers to a gay man or nonbinary person who uses they/them pronouns. The term can be used by any men who are mlm ([[achillean]]) and use they/them [https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Pronouns pronouns]. Those pronouns can be exclusive or one can be [[Multipronouns|multipronoun]] or [https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Pronoun_Non-Conforming pronoun non-conforming]. |
A '''they/them gay''' is a specifically tailored identity that refers to a gay man or nonbinary person who uses they/them pronouns. The term can be used by any men who are mlm ([[achillean]]) and use they/them [https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Pronouns pronouns]. Those pronouns can be exclusive or one can be [[Multipronouns|multipronoun]] or [https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Pronoun_Non-Conforming pronoun non-conforming]. |
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[[File:Tumblr p9ruddoISL1xvyeh0o1 400.png|thumb|220x220px|The they/them gay flag.]] |
[[File:Tumblr p9ruddoISL1xvyeh0o1 400.png|thumb|220x220px|The they/them gay flag.]] |
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[[Neopronoun Gay|Neopronoun gays]], [[Neopronoun Lesbian|neopronoun lesbians]], [[He/Him Lesbian|he/him lesbians]], [[She/Her Gay|she/her gays]], [[They/Them Lesbian|they/them lesbians]], [[It/Its Lesbian|it/its lesbians]], and [[It/Its Gay|it/its gay]] identities also exist through the same principle. They/them gays are also sometimes referred to as they/them [[Vincian|vincians]], they/them patroclians, they/them cintheans, they/them wildeans, or they/them achilleans. |
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== Comparisons with Non-Binary identities == |
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⚫ | It is a common misconception that they/them gays "make the [https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Transgender transgender] and [https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Non-Binary non-binary] community look bad", which is often due to many people forgetting to recognise the sheer diversity represented in the LGBTA+ community. This includes, as described above, pronouns not being equal to gender and conformity to a specific gender not being regarded as a strict necessity for such an identity. In the same way some [[Non-Binary|non-binary]] individuals are more comfortable using pronouns other than they/them, some [[Binary_Genders|binary]] individuals can feel more comfortable using pronouns other than the ones typically associated with their [[gender]]. |
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They/them gays are also sometimes referred to as they/them [[Vincian|vincians]], they/them patroclians, they/them cintheans, they/them wildeans, or they/them achilleans. |
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== They/Them Gays vs Nonbinary People == |
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== Flag == |
== Flag == |
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The they/them gay flag was designed an unknown Tumblr user on June 11th, 2018 following Wuvsbian's he/him lesbian and she/her gay flag. |
The they/them gay flag was designed an unknown Tumblr user on June 11th, 2018 following Wuvsbian's he/him lesbian and she/her gay flag. |
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# https://wuvsbian.tumblr.com/post/174794639147/detectivgay-theythem-lesbian-theythem-gay |
# https://wuvsbian.tumblr.com/post/174794639147/detectivgay-theythem-lesbian-theythem-gay |
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Latest revision as of 07:21, 22 June 2023
A they/them gay is a specifically tailored identity that refers to a gay man or nonbinary person who uses they/them pronouns. The term can be used by any men who are mlm (achillean) and use they/them pronouns. Those pronouns can be exclusive or one can be multipronoun or pronoun non-conforming.
Neopronoun gays, neopronoun lesbians, he/him lesbians, she/her gays, they/them lesbians, it/its lesbians, and it/its gay identities also exist through the same principle. They/them gays are also sometimes referred to as they/them vincians, they/them patroclians, they/them cintheans, they/them wildeans, or they/them achilleans.
Comparisons with Non-Binary identities
A they/them gay doesn't necessarily identify as non-binary - they may acknowledge they are male, but because pronouns do not always equal gender identity, as a they/them gay is simply a more specific form of pronoun non-conforming gay men.
It is a common misconception that they/them gays "make the transgender and non-binary community look bad", which is often due to many people forgetting to recognise the sheer diversity represented in the LGBTA+ community. This includes, as described above, pronouns not being equal to gender and conformity to a specific gender not being regarded as a strict necessity for such an identity. In the same way some non-binary individuals are more comfortable using pronouns other than they/them, some binary individuals can feel more comfortable using pronouns other than the ones typically associated with their gender.
Flag
The they/them gay flag was designed an unknown Tumblr user on June 11th, 2018 following Wuvsbian's he/him lesbian and she/her gay flag.