Rubian is a term that refers to someone who is nblm and wlm, meaning someone who is non-binary and a woman who is attracted to men. Being "non-binary and a woman" includes A) People who are genderfluid, and are sometimes non-binary and sometimes women. B) Bigender or multigender people who are women or woman aligned and non-binary at the same time. C) Feminine aligned non-binary person who feels connected to womanhood as well as being non-binary. A rubian person is attracted to men and/or prioritizes their attraction to men over other attractions they may have. Rubian is an umbrella term, like diamoric, though it can also be used as an identity by itself.
History and Flag
The rubian flag was designed by ultravioletfyre and was submitted to the blog beyond-mogai-pride-flags on July 1, 2018.[1] The term was coined by the Tumblr users Arco-pluris and Mogaiflagswithbenton.[1]
The alternative flag was made by a Wikia FANDOM user who wished to remain anonymous on June 14, 2021. The flag's colors are color-picked from an image of rubies; the pinkish-red colors at the top symbolize women or feminine genders, the black color in the center and the blue around it symbolize attraction to men or masculine genders, and the red colors at the bottom symbolize non-binary or neutral genders.
The second alternative flag was made by JuliQP, a Wikia FANDOM user on August 27, 2021. It's based on the first alternative flag made by an anonymous person.