Benitoitic refers to someone who is wlw, wlnb, mlnb, and mlw, meaning someone who is a woman and a man who is attracted to women and non-binary people. Being "a women and a man" includes A) People who are genderfluid and are sometimes women and sometimes men. B) Bigender or multigender people who are men or man-aligned and women/woman-aligned at the same time. C) Androgyne aligned non-binary person who feels connected to femininity and masculinity at the same time. A benitoitic person is attracted to women and/or prioritizes their attraction to women and non-binary people over other attractions they may have. Benitoitic is an umbrella term, like sapphic and achillean, though it can also be used as an identity by itself.
Flag
The benitoitic flag was designed by an anonymous user on beyond-mogai-pride-flags on July 6, 2018[1].
An alternate flag was made on July 24th, 2021, by FANDOM user TheNelsonSystem. It is a mix between the bigender and neptunic colour palettes blended together and rearranged.