Hello! Our system name is The Starlets / Starlets Sys / Raining Stars Collective! Our collective tag is ☆˚🌙
About Us
We are a system comprised of 60+ headmates. We are Pluralpunk and fully embrace all aspects of our plurality in a radically accepting way. We collectively identify as Two-Spirit and prefer to use our acronym SAAGMTQI2+, LGBTQIA2+ or MOGAI. We're collectively Pluralqueer. We're all collectively Animist, Omnist and witches.
We coin MOGAI and plural terms, make flags, create pronoun sets and edits.
About Our Body
Our body's astrological signs are Solar Aquarian, Lunar Geminian and Ascending Cancerian. Our body's age is 21.
We're WPBIPOC mixed multi-Native and multi-Celtic. Our tribes are Cherokee, Creek and Croatoan and we belong to the Celtic nations of Ireland, Scotland and Wales.
We are Intersex by hormonal variation (Hyperandrogenism) and CAFAB.
About Our System
We are a OSDD-1b Mixed Origin/Multigenic Mixed Gateway Dreamway system! We are a TraumaEndo system, as we originated as Protogenic and Paragenic/Neurogenic but later developed trauma.
We have Alters/Headmates, Facets and Walk-Ins.
Here's a list of our headmate origins:
Before You Interact
We reclaim the following slurs:
Boundaries
- Do not call us white or treat us as if we are white. Our skin tone does not make us any less Native or Indigenous. It only assimilates us from our culture further and erases our intergenerational trauma as well as the anti-Native racism that our body has faced.
- Do not tone check us. It makes us incredibly uncomfortable and we have every right to express all of our emotions, including negative.
- Do not treat us as if we are all just "parts" of one person. We are our own individual people and our individual identities and experiences are all valid.
- Please do not treat us as if we are our sources. We may have similarities or be exactly the same, but we are our own individual people and would like to be treated as such.
- We will not censor our existences for anyone. Not for discomforts nor triggers against our sources or names. We are people and we deserve to exist no less than you do.
Do not interact if you (are):
- Say slurs that you/your body can't reclaim.
- Support large age gap romantic relationships
- Racist, Anti-Indigenous, Anti-Asian, Antisemitic, Islamophobic, Witchphobic, Paganphobic
- Think that White Western Christians are oppressed
- Identify as any "sexuality" that fetishizes BIPOC or aestheticizes our cultures
- Militant Vegan
- Think that white passing = white
- Neurotypical and use ND terminology (i.e. hoarder)
- Exclusionist / Gatekeep
- Transmedicalist/Truscum
- TERF, BLERF, SWERF, Exclusionist: Anti-Neopronouns, Anti-M-Spec Lesbians, Anti-M-Spec Vincians, Anti-Transmasc Lesbians, Anti-Transfeminine Gay, XEP / Xenogender Exclusionist, Anti-Split Attraction Model, Aphobic
- Anti-MOGAI, Anti-LGBTQIA2+
- Sexist, Exorsexist, Intersexist, Transmisogynist, Transmisandrist
- Gatekeep Otherkin / Alterhuman
- Pluralphobic, Sysmed/Anti-Endo
- Are Ableist/Sanist & use the words "delusional," "psychotic," "narcissistic," and "anti-social" incorrectly, Anti-Self Diagnosis
- Stigmatize Mental Health Disorders and are Anti-Addict
- Classism in any form (This includes but is not limited to Militant Veganism, Anti-Self Diagnosis done under extensive research, Anti-Immigration, etc.)
- Anti-Hemp Products
- Anti-Agere/Anti-Petre
- Have "triggers" against groups of people (especially marginalized groups)
Disabilities & Neurodivergencies
We have the following Disabilities:
- Epilepsy
- Dissociative Seizures
- HoH
- Visually Impaired
- Chronic Pain
We have the following Neurodivergencies:
- ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder)
- SPD (Sensory Processing Disorder)
- ODC
- ADHD
- Tourette's
- Synesthesia (Grapheme-Color, Lexical-Gustatory)
- ARFID (Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder)
- Schizoaffective Type 1
- MaDD (Maladaptive Daydreaming Disorder)
- OSDD-1b
- DPDR (Derealization Depersonalization Disorder)
- Covert NPD (Quiet Narcissistic Personality Disorder)
- AVPD (Avoidant Personality Disorder)
- C-PTSD
Guidelines Regarding Our Terms
- You may not coin alternate flags for our terms without express permission.
- We worked very hard to coin these terms and flags. Coining alternatives without our permission is extremely disrespectful and disregards the hard work we put in.
- If an alternate flag is added into our pages without our permission, it will be removed without warning.
- If we do allow you to add an alternate flag to our page, it must be put into an image gallery at the bottom of the page.
- If we do grant you permission to coin alternatives and you are discovered to meet any of our DNI criteria, we will revoke your permission and remove your flags.
- Do not upload our terms to other websites without asking first.
- Feel free to request terms to fill the gaps of which our previous terms do not currently fill.
- You may also coin your own separate terms in relation to ours to fill the gap, however please add that it is a variation of one of our terms.
- If we haven't added your term into our page, we probably haven't seen your term so please shoot us a message or add it into the page yourself.
- Absolutely do not change the definitions of any of our terms in any manner.
- You may not add definitions into our terms, not even to make it more wordy.
- You may not remove or shorten the definitions of our terms.
- The only cases of which our definitions may be touched is if it's to fix grammatical mistakes. We would prefer if you asked us to fix the grammatical mistakes or wording ourselves.
Terms We Coined
LGBTQIA2+ Terms
SAAGMTQI2+
An alternate acronym to LGBTQ+ for Sapphic, Achillean, A-Spec, Gay, Multisexual/Multiromantic, Trans, Queer, Intersex and Two-Spirit.
Plural/System Terms
Addictigenic
When a system and/or system member(s) are formed from substance addiction related trauma. This may be caused by ones own addiction or by the impact of another's addiction. (e.g. Alc*holism in Family)