Hello! Our system name is The Starlets / Starlets Sys / Raining Stars Collective! Our collective tag is ☆˚🌙
About Us
We're a multi-Indigenous Native and multi-Celtic WPBIPOC bodied system of 30+! We coin terms, create flags and make pronoun sets. We also hoard genders, orientations and pronouns. We are multi-neurodivergent and disabled.
About Our System
We are a OSDD-1b Mixed Origin/Multigenic Mixed Gateway Dreamway system! We are a TraumaEndo system, as we originated as Protogenic and likely Paragenic/Neurogenic but later developed trauma.
We have Alters/Headmates, Facets and Walk-Ins.
Here's a list of our headmate origins:
Before You Interact
We reclaim the following slurs:
Racial slurs are a trigger for us. Please refrain from using racial slurs around us, even if you can reclaim.
Do not interact if you (are):
- Say slurs that you can't reclaim.
- Support 10+ year age gap romantic relationships
- Racist, Anti-Indigenous, Anti-Asian, Antisemitic, Islamophobic, Witchphobic, Paganphobic
- Identify as any "sexuality" that fetishizes BIPOC or aestheticizes our cultures
- Militant Vegan
- Think that white passing = white
- Neurotypical and use ND terminology (i.e. hoarder)
- Exclusionist / Gatekeep
- Transmedicalist/Truscum
- Exclusionist: Anti-Neopronouns, Anti-M-Spec Lesbians, Anti-M-Spec Vincians, Anti-Transmasc Lesbians, XEP / Xenogender Exclusionist
- Anti-MOGAI, Anti-LGBTQIA2+
- TERF, BLERF, SWERF
- Sexist, Exorsexist, Intersexist, Transmisogynist, Transmisandrist
- Otherkin / Alterhuman gatekeeper
- Pluralphobic, Sysmed/Anti-Endo
- Are Ableist/Sanist & use the words "delusional," "psychotic," "narcissistic," and "anti-social" incorrectly
- Classist and invalidate well informed/educated self-dx
- Stigmatize Mental Health Disorders and are Anti-Addict
- Anti-Hemp Products
- Anti-Agere/Anti-Petre
- Have "triggers" against groups of people (especially marginalized groups)
PSA:
Do not speak over groups of which you are not a part of. We have run into issues of non-Celtics, non-Indigenous people, non-Two Spirit people and singlets speaking over us. Sharing information and supporting us with the sources that we provide you with is fine. You may not coin exclusive genders or orientations of minority groups of which you do not belong to.
Disabilities
We have the following Disabilities:
- Epilepsy
- HoH
- Visually Impaired
- Chronic Pain
Neurodivergencies
We have the following Neurodivergencies:
- ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder)
- SPD (Sensory Processing Disorder)
- ODC
- ADHD
- Tourette's
- Synesthesia
- ARFID (Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder)
- Schizoaffective Type 1
- MaDD (Maladaptive Daydreaming Disorder)
- OSDD-1b
- DPDR (Derealization Depersonalization Disorder)
- Covert NPD (Quiet Narcissistic Personality Disorder)
- AVPD (Avoidant Personality Disorder)
- C-PTSD
Ethnic Background & Religion
We are primarily multi-Indigenous Native and multi-Celtic. We belong to the Cherokee, Creek and Croatoan tribes, along with the Celtic nations of Ireland, Scotland and Wales. We also have some German, French and Spanish bloodline.
We are Animistic, Omnist and Wiccan/Witch. We primarily practice Celtic Paganism as well as Hellenism.
Guidelines Regarding Our Terms
- You may not coin alternate flags for our terms without express permission.
- We worked very hard to coin these terms and flags. Coining alternatives without our permission is extremely disrespectful and disregards the hard work we put in.
- If an alternate flag is added into our pages without our permission, it will be removed without warning.
- If we do allow you to add an alternate flag to our page, it must be put into an image gallery at the bottom of the page.
- If we do grant you permission to coin alternatives and you are discovered to meet any of our DNI criteria, we will revoke your permission and remove your flags.
- Feel free to request terms to fill the gaps of which our previous terms do not currently fill.
- You may also coin your own separate terms in relation to ours to fill the gap, however please add that it is a variation of one of our terms.
- If we haven't added your term into our page, we probably haven't seen your term so please shoot us a message or add it into the page yourself.
- Absolutely do not change the definitions of any of our terms in any manner.
- You may not add definitions into our terms, not even to make it more wordy.
- You may not remove or shorten the definitions of our terms.
- The only cases of which our definitions may be touched is if it's to fix grammatical mistakes. We would prefer if you asked us to fix the grammatical mistakes or wording ourselves.
Terms We Coined
LGBTQIA2+ Terms
SAAGMTQI2+
An alternate acronym to LGBTQ+ for Sapphic, Achillean, A-Spec, Gay, Multisexual/Multiromantic, Trans, Queer, Intersex and Two-Spirit.
Plural/System Terms
Addictigenic
When a system and/or system member(s) are formed from substance addiction related trauma. This may be caused by ones own addiction or by the impact of another's addiction. (e.g. Alc*holism in Family)