Hello! I’m Dandelion/Mitch/Itchy/Simba/Bernard/Perry (I have a few names and I love them all so take your pick)
My pronouns are he/him
Neurodivergence
I’m currently coming to terms with being demiplural/an empty system. I didn’t have the terminology to explain/understand it back when we were properly plural. I only ever had one headmate, a protector called Mal who I loved very dearly and miss every day of my life since she went dormant six years ago. You will probably see me use the tone tag /uil a lot, meaning ‘Using I loosely’ because with a dormant headmate it doesn’t make a lot of sense to use ‘we’ but I also feel weird using ‘I’ when I know there’s someone else back there, even if she’s not available.
I’m autistic, I have BPD, and I also suspect that I might have ADHD. I age regress involuntarily due to trauma.
Attraction Terms/Labels
General Terms (Pansexual, Queer)
Diamoric/Gender Loving Gender Terms (Achillean, Romeric, Astroidian, Trixic, Toric, Enbian, Opalian, Pluralian, T4T)
Gender Terms/Labels
Transgender, Non-Binary, Transmasculine, Solarian, Juparian, Proxvir, Lionmasc, Gendersatyr, Genderfaun, Luxian, Gendercollector, Cosmicgender, Patchworkhoarder, Gendercurator, Collecthyperfix, Anarchogender, Genderpunk
(Note: All of my masculine genders are through the lense of queer masculinity. I do not consider myself to have the same gender as a straight man.)
Xenogenders
Neurogender, Autigender, Bordergender, Ageregender, Achilleangender, Floragender, Dandelinian, Fictigender, Simbagender, Undergender, Friskgender, Genderhope, Faunagender, Liongender, Feragender, Pupgender, Kingender, Noiribean, Komorebian, Leanaic, Pienecampic, 90scoric, Arcadecoric, Kidcoric, Babycoric, Neoncoric, Trashcoric, Incubian
Mal’s Terms
Due to Mal being mostly dormant I have no idea how she feels about these terms, but I’m finding it helpful to collect terms that apply to her. Back when she was active and I asked her about human things like gender and sexuality she’d always say she was ‘just malachite’. She always told me that she didn’t have a ‘form’ per se as she is an introject of the gemstone malachite itself, but she always said that I could imagine her as a person/animal etc. if I found it useful, so by that logic I think she’d be okay with me doing this.
Attraction: Aroace, Templatonic
Gender: Agender, Malachitinic, Genderbeyond, Genderseraph
System Roles: Daromate, Conceptive, Age Constant, Adaptive, Comforter.