Offbeatgender

Offbeatgender is a xenogender that feels like a marcher whose beat isn't like the rest of the marchers when one is questioning, but quickly goes back to a steady beat when they have found their gender again. It can also mean a gender that is like a slightly offbeat rhythm of a drum.

This is not an audiogender or a musicgender, but rather a metaphor for one's identity when questioning and not questioning.