Offbeatgender is a xenogender that feels like a marcher whose beat isn't like the rest of the marchers when one is questioning, but quickly goes back to a steady beat when they have found their gender again. It can also mean a gender that is like a slightly offbeat rhythm of a drum.
This is not an audiogender or a musicgender, but rather a metaphor for one's identity when questioning and not questioning.
History
Offbeatgender was made by user CaseySeal11 on May 10, 2021 to better describe their experience with gender. The flag was created on the same day. This term was coined through this page, and had no outside resources.