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===Should I come out? / How should I come out?===
# Only come out if you are safe. If you feel like it would be unsafe in any way to come out in your current situation then do not come out.
# You can sometimes test a
# Take your time. You do not need to come out right away.
# You do not have to come out to everyone at once. There are some
# Come out to
# If you are uncomfortable with talking face-to-face you can write a letter, or do it through text or email.
# If you think it could go badly, avoid doing it before you have to spend a lot of time with the other
# You don't ever have to come out if you don't want to.
===Where can I find a list of ''
There are infinitely many pronoun sets. There are as many pronoun set as there are possible combinations of letters and symbols. There is no way to keep track of them all. Literally anyone can make a pronoun set and there are no “rules” for what that pronoun set can be.
If what you're actually asking for is a comprehensive list of many pronouns sets, then: https://pronoun-provider.tumblr.com/pronouns
===I want to make a list of ''
Don't.
You will not succeed. I guarantee it.
There isn't for over ruling authority that keeps track of this stuff, and who
This wiki is a testament to my attempt to do exactly this and I am literally no closer to finishing than I was when I started. For every page that is added five new identities are spontaneously created. I am Sisyphus and this is my rock.
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==Sexuality/Orientation FAQ==
===What is my orientation?/Is there a word for...?===
Please read my three part masterpost for
* [[User blog:Chaoticcylinder/"I'm Questioning My Sexuality, Is There A Term For..." (Part 1)|Part 1: For gender based attraction.]]
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* [[:Category:Fia/Fin Attraction|Attraction to women, feminine genders, and/or feminine presentation.]]
* [[:Category:Mia/Min Attraction|Attraction to men, masculine genders, and/or masculine presentation.]]
* [[:Category:Nia/Nin Attraction|Attraction to non-binary
* [[:Category:M-Spec|Attraction to multiple genders.]]
* [[:Category:Fluid Sexuality|Attraction that changes.]]
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Yes. That is the point of sapphic/achillean.
===Can I be sapphic/achillean if I'm attracted to
Yes. That is the point of sapphic/achillean.
===What's is called when I'm attracted to feminine
[[Finsexual]].
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Not all preferences need a label. Though, if you feel it's neccessary see [[finic]], [[minic]], [[ninic]]. You may also consider identifying as a [[Gender-Loving-Gender|gender-loving-gender]] term like achillean, sapphic, enbian, etc, as these are non-exclusive and are show that you prioritize your attraction to a particular gender.
===What's it called when I'm attracted to trans
Nothing. Anyone of any sexuality can be attracted to trans people because "trans" is not a gender on it's own. If you're attracted to trans men you are attracted to men. If you're attracted to trans women you are attracted to women. To claim otherwise is transphobic.
===What's it called when I'm attracted to non-binary
It depends.
Non-binary
Though, if you wish you can try [[ceterosexual]], [[triasexual]], or [[enboric]].
===I'm attracted to non-binary
Yes, but also it depends.
All orientations include non-binary
===I'm ''not'' attracted to non-binary
Yes.
Just because non-binary
===Can I be [insert orientation here] if I'm transgender?===
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===Can I use trixic/toric if I am [insert non-binary gender here]?===
Yes. Trixic and toric can be used by ''any'' non-binary
===Do I ''have'' to use trixic/toric or feminamoric/viramoric if I'm non-binary/[insert non-binary gender here]?===
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===Am I intersex if...===
Unless the second part of that question is "I was born with a chromosomal, hormonal, gonadal, and/or genital, variation that causes my sex to not fall into the traditional classification of
Intersex is not a gender identity. It is a physical, sex variation which is present in one's chromosomes, naturally produced hormones, gonads, genitals, or combination of those things, that you are born with. If you were not born with such a variation then you are not intersex. And no, if you go on HRT you are not intersex. No, if you have surgery you are not intersex. No, you cannot "transition to intersex".
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Yes.
===Can I be [insert gender here] if I like to be called sister/brother/daughter/son/
Yes.
===What's the difference between non-binary and genderqueer?===
Non-binary
* Anyone whose gender is not strictly
Genderqueer
* Anyone who has a non-normative (queer) experience with gender. Which can include:
* Anyone whose gender is not strictly
* Anyone who is gender non-conforming.
The two are often used interchangeably to refer to someone whose gender is not strictly
===What's the difference between bigender and androgyne?===
[[File:Androgyne bigender.png|thumb]]I think this is best explained with an example. See the image for the visual example.
In this example I have used a simplified gender spectrum with male or masculine on one side and female or feminine on the other side.
===As someone with [insert disorder/neurodivergency here], [insert neurogender here] offends me.===
Neurogenders are
Not everybody with a neurodivergency identifies with a neurogender. Just because you have [insert disorder here] does
Neurogenders are used to say that ones experience with [insert disorder here] it
It is not "glorifying" or "downplaying" [insert disorder here]. Recognizing that one's gender is affected by something doesn't mean that it's "glorifying" it.
Examples include:
* Autism leads to
* Someone may feel apathetic about their gender because they have a disorder that makes them feel apathetic about many things.
* Someone who is unable to define their gender due to mental exhaustion caused by [insert disorder here].
===Can you explain xenogenders?===
If you ask a man to describe
Now, imagine that words like "man", "woman", "masculine", or "feminine" didn't exist. These
The only reason why words like masculine or feminine "make sense" to us is because we have been socialized since birth to recognize masculinity and femininity. If you were to actually stop and try to explain exactly what masculinity or femininity is, you'd find that you can only describe them through metaphor and abstract qualities, just like how xenogenders are described.
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Whichever pronouns you feel comfortable with.
===Can I use [insert pronouns here] if I like to be called sister/brother/daughter/son/
Yes.
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