Hecatolic refers to someone who is nblnb and wlnb, meaning someone who is non-binary and a women who is attracted to non-binary people. Being "non-binary and a women" includes A) People who are genderfluid, and are sometimes non-binary and sometimes women. B) Bigender or multigender people who are women or woman aligned and non-binary at the same time. C) Feminine aligned non-binary person who feels connected to womanhood as well as being non-binary. A hecatolic person is attracted to non-binary people and/or prioritizes their attraction to non-binary people over other attractions they may have. Hecatolic is an umbrella term, like diamoric, though it can also be used as an identity by itself.
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The term hecatolic was coined by Tumblr user Imsureitsalltrue, through an ask to the user Nbandproud on July 14, 2018[1]. The flag was designed by Saturnic-vapour, some time around September 7, 2018[2]. The colors are based off the gemstone hecatolite, also known as a moonstone.