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[[File:Bi-gay.png|thumb|General bi gay flag]] |
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[[File:Bi-gay flag.png|thumb|Bi gay flag by neopronouns]] |
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A '''bi gay''' or '''bi-oriented gay''' is someone who is both [[bisexual]]/[[biromantic]]/[[tertiary attraction|etc]]. and [[gay]]. |
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| ⚫ | This term can be used by [[men]] and others who use the [[Split Attraction Model (SAM)|split attraction model]] and are bisexual and [[homoromantic]], [[Biromantic Homosexual|homosexual biromantic]] or those who experience gay or bi [[Tertiary Attraction|tertiary attraction]]. They have [[sexual attraction]] to two or more [[gender]]s but are only [[Romantic Attraction|romantically attracted]] to their own/similar gender(s). They may find themselves sexually attracted to dissimilar genders, but could never picture themselves in a sexual relationship with them, putting more emphasis on their attraction to their own/similar genders, though this varies from person to person. Or they could be romantically attracted to any gender but only sexually attracted to the same/similar gender or are only willing to be with the same/similar gender(s) sexually. |
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It can also be used by people who identify as both bisexual and gay, either due to changing attraction (such as [[abrosexual]]ity), or due being part of a [[plural:System|plural system]], such as [[Pluric Attraction Model|having a different sexuality when fronting]], or being in a median system where one member somewhat experiences their [[plural:Headmate|headmate(s)]]' attraction(s). |
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A more controversial use of the label is to describe a bisexual who isn’t on the SAM, with a lean in their attraction toward men. |
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[[File:Bi-Gay Flag (My design).png|alt=|thumb|220x220px|An alternative bi-gay flag, coined by @trixicfuchs on Instagram.]] |
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==Controversy== |
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Many people see the label as “contradicting” or both homophobic and biphobic. Many exclusionists (and some Inclusionists) feel that Gay isn’t an umbrella term, and that treating it like such hurts the community and contributes to gay mlm erasure.<br /> |
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Additionally, the term can apply to individuals who are bisexual and prioritize attraction to or have a strong preference for their own/similar gender(s), or for people who are reclaiming the historical definition of gay alongside identifying as bisexual. |
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==Resources== |
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<references />(None stated as of late) |
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This identity could be combined with any m-spec identity, i.e. [[ply]] gay, [[Multisexual|multi]] gay, [[pan]] gay, or [[omni]] gay. Bi gay may be used as an [[umbrella term]] for bi [[stellian]]s (including [[Bi-Lesbian|bi lesbians]]/bi [[lunian]]s and [[Bi-Veldian|bi veldians]]/bi [[solian]]s). |
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== Flags == |
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The general bi gay flag was designed by Tumblr user bi-lesbian on January 26, 2021.<ref>{{Archive|Site=web|URL=https://bi-lesbian.tumblr.com/post/641427317680455680/bi-gay-pan-gay}}</ref> |
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Another bi gay flag was designed by Tumblr user neopronouns on July 9, 2020.<ref>https://neopronouns.tumblr.com/post/623179743873859584/mspec-gay-flags-for-anon-unlike-my-mspec-gay-man</ref> |
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==See also== |
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* [[Homoflexible]] |
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== References == |
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[[Category:Combination Identities]] |
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Latest revision as of 16:56, 16 November 2023
A bi gay or bi-oriented gay is someone who is both bisexual/biromantic/etc. and gay.
This term can be used by men and others who use the split attraction model and are bisexual and homoromantic, homosexual biromantic or those who experience gay or bi tertiary attraction. They have sexual attraction to two or more genders but are only romantically attracted to their own/similar gender(s). They may find themselves sexually attracted to dissimilar genders, but could never picture themselves in a sexual relationship with them, putting more emphasis on their attraction to their own/similar genders, though this varies from person to person. Or they could be romantically attracted to any gender but only sexually attracted to the same/similar gender or are only willing to be with the same/similar gender(s) sexually.
It can also be used by people who identify as both bisexual and gay, either due to changing attraction (such as abrosexuality), or due being part of a plural system, such as having a different sexuality when fronting, or being in a median system where one member somewhat experiences their headmate(s)' attraction(s).
Additionally, the term can apply to individuals who are bisexual and prioritize attraction to or have a strong preference for their own/similar gender(s), or for people who are reclaiming the historical definition of gay alongside identifying as bisexual.
This identity could be combined with any m-spec identity, i.e. ply gay, multi gay, pan gay, or omni gay. Bi gay may be used as an umbrella term for bi stellians (including bi lesbians/bi lunians and bi veldians/bi solians).
Flags
The general bi gay flag was designed by Tumblr user bi-lesbian on January 26, 2021.[1]
Another bi gay flag was designed by Tumblr user neopronouns on July 9, 2020.[2]