Xoy is a gender in which one identifies as a non-binary boy. This can take many different forms depending on the person. It can refer to someone who identifies in some way as a non-binary boy, non-binary boy-adjacent, or is in some way related to masculinity. It can also refer to someone who identifies with some part of manhood/boyhood but who wants a more non-binary or neutral sounding word because they aren’t entirely a boy or don’t want to be associated with the typical ideas brought up by the word “boy.”
This is similar to Demiboy and Enboy. The feminine equivalent is Xirl.
Flag
The greenish-blue represents the connection and closeness of this identity to man/boyhood without quite being boy. Green represents how it is a non-binary identity and how it can be an entirely off-binary/binary-adjacent thing for some people. White is there as a reminder of the genderqueer flag. The grey represents the entire spectrum of possible meanings for this gender and how it’s a grey area with a lot of room for individual meaning.
Alternate Flag
The red represents a rejection or disconnect from the gender binary. The orange represents a detachment from binary masculinity or boyhood. The white represents behind non-binary or an abinary interpretation of masculinity. The green represents a partial connection to boyhood/masculinity. The blue represents the general connection to boyhood/masculinity.