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    ''Note: Please refer to our DNI list and do '''not''' interact if you fall under our list bulletpoints.''
    ''Note: Please refer to our DNI list and do '''not''' interact if you fall under our lists bulletpoints.''


    == Our DNI List ==
    == Our DNI List ==
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    I know that this list is long because it's in two parts, so I apologize in advance. However, I think that it is proper for us to put this down just to be safe and clear and after leaving the discussion pages. If any of the situations below describe you, then please ''do not interact.'' /gen /srs
    I know that this list is long because it's in two parts, so I greatly apologize in advance. However, it is proper for us to put this down just to be safe and clear and after leaving the discussion pages. If any of the situations below describe you, then please ''do not interact.'' /gen /srs
    - Danni (he/they/it+) - [[User:Systeroamia|Systeroamia]]
    - Danni (he/they/it+) - [[User:Systeroamia|Systeroamia]]


    === If you mock, don’t believe, or hate on: ===
    === If you mock, don’t believe, or hate on: ===
    * ''Any'' good-faith LGBTQ+ sexualities, including any [[a-spec]] identities and [[objectum]] identities (attraction to inanimate objects), hetero-aligned identities, or believe that they're not LGBTQ+, or instead believe in harmful stereotypes (ex: all gay men are feminine, trans women are just cis men trying to attack women, nonbinary individuals should all be androgynous, etc.)
    * ''Any'' good-faith LGBTQ+ sexualities, including any [[a-spec]] identities and [[objectum]] identities (attraction to inanimate objects), hetero-aligned identities, or instead believe that they're not LGBTQ+, or instead believe in harmful stereotypes (ex: all gay men are feminine, trans women are just cis men trying to attack women, non-binary individuals should all be androgynous, etc.)
    * [[Aplatonic]]([[Aplatonic Spectrum|-spectrum]]), [[Aqueerplatonic|aqueerplatonic]]([[Aqueerplatonic Spectrum|-spectrum]]), [[Loveless Romantic|loveless romantics]], [[Loveless Aromantic|loveless aromantics]], etc. individuals
    * [[Aplatonic]]([[Aplatonic Spectrum|-spectrum]]), [[Aqueerplatonic|aqueerplatonic]]([[Aqueerplatonic Spectrum|-spectrum]]), [[Loveless Romantic|loveless romantics]], [[Loveless Aromantic|loveless aromantics]], etc. individuals
    * Ace/Aro positivity
    * Ace/Aro positivity
    * Transgender, intersex, nonbinary, genderqueer, xenogender, neurogender, aesthetigender, etc., multi-spec lesbian, or [[lesboy]] identities
    * Transgender, intersex, non-binary, genderqueer, xenogender, neurogender, aesthetigender, etc., multi-spec lesbian, or [[lesboy]] identities
    * Gender non-conforming men/women/nonbinary folks, [[Drag Performers|drag artists]] (queens, kings, monarchs/queers, things), or believe that only men should do drag
    * Gender non-conforming men/women/nonbinary folks, [[Drag Performers|drag artists]] (queens, kings, monarchs/queers, things), or instead believe that only men should do drag
    * Polyamorous, ambiamorous, queerplatonic/alterous relationships, or any other non-monogamous relationship identities
    * Polyamorous, ambiamorous, queerplatonic/alterous relationships, or any other non-monogamous relationship identities
    * [[Microlabel|Microlabels]] or the use of multiple, or lack of, labels
    * [[Microlabel|Microlabels]] or the use of multiple, or lack of, labels
    * Neopronouns, xenopronouns, using no pronouns, etc.
    * Neopronouns, xenopronouns, using no pronouns, etc.
    * LGBTQ+ folks who are straight-passing, monogamous-passing, masculine men(-aligned) who are LGBTQ+, feminine women(-aligned) who are LGBTQ+, etc., or believe that pronouns equal gender
    * LGBTQ+ folks who are straight-passing, monogamous-passing, masculine men(-aligned) who are LGBTQ+, feminine women(-aligned) who are LGBTQ+, etc., or instead believe that pronouns equal gender
    * AAVE words (African American Vernacular English), or using them if you're racist or ignorant to black culture and issues
    * AAVE words (African American Vernacular English), or instead using them if you're racist or ignorant to black culture and issues
    * Climate change or global warming
    * Climate change or global warming
    * Those into anime, kpop, jpop, etc., especially hating on groups like BTS and Vocaloid for no reason
    * Those into anime, kpop, jpop, etc., especially hating on groups like BTS and Vocaloid for no reason
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    * Pacifism, anarcho-pacifism, etc. (the “don’t believe” part doesn’t count here either, just don’t be a jerk about it /nm)
    * Pacifism, anarcho-pacifism, etc. (the “don’t believe” part doesn’t count here either, just don’t be a jerk about it /nm)
    * Kink pride at pride (''not'' to be confused with sex and nudity /srs)
    * Kink pride at pride (''not'' to be confused with sex and nudity /srs)
    * Cops at pride (looking at you, NYC staff /neg)
    * Cops at pride
    * Children at pride or believe that they're "too young" to figure themselves out
    * Children at pride or instead believe that they're "too young" to figure themselves out
    * Age regressors and/or species regressors, littlespace
    * Age regressors and/or species regressors, littlespace
    * Furries, or believe that they are zoophiles
    * Furries, or instead believe that they are zoophiles or into beastality
    * Artists, entrepreneurs, etc, or believe that they are not real jobs or should get "real" jobs
    * Artists, entrepreneurs, etc, or instead believe that they are not real jobs or should get "real" jobs
    * Alterhumans/otherkin/etc identities
    * Alterhumans/otherkin/etc identities
    * Systems/plurals/medians, endogenic/non-traugmetic systems, [[System-Partnership|system-partnerships]], or treat members/headmates/alters, or even fictives, factives, or introjects like they are not real individuals
    * Systems/plurals/medians, endogenic/non-traugmetic systems, [[System-Partnership|system-partnerships]], or instead treat members/headmates/alters, or even fictives, factives, or introjects like they are not real individuals
    * Vaccines or masks, therapy, mental health, basically anti-primitivism
    * Vaccines or masks, therapy, mental health, basically anti-primitivism
    * ''All'' pedophiles (please say ''child molesters'' instead, pedophile is not the right word you’re thinking of /nm)
    * ''All'' pedophiles (please say ''child molesters'' instead, pedophile is not the right word you’re thinking of /nm)
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    * Vegans or vegetarians
    * Vegans or vegetarians
    * School drop outs
    * School drop outs
    * Geminis, Scorpios, or any other zodiac sign and think that they’re all toxic, liars, cheaters, etc. That or just believing that specific traits apply to all Cancers, Leos, or whatever else zodiac sign (we’re not ''all'' the f**king same, please stop /vsrs /vu)
    * Geminis, Scorpios, or any other zodiac sign and think that they’re all toxic, liars, cheaters, etc. That or instead believing that specific traits apply to all Cancers, Leos, or whatever else zodiac sign (we’re not ''all'' the f**king same, please stop /vsrs /vu)
    * Honestly, the idea of DNI lists in general
    * The idea of DNI lists in general


    === If you support or are a part of: ===
    === If you support or are a part of: ===
    * Exclusionary groups (ex: TERFS/Radfems, SWERFS, ace/aro-spec exclusionists, transmedicalists, truscum, anti-MOGAI, "battle axe bi", "longsword lesbian", pluralphobe, sysmeds, etc.)
    * Exclusionary groups (ex: TERFS/Radfems, SWERFS, ace/aro-spec exclusionists, transmedicalists/truscum, anti-MOGAI, "battle axe bi", "longsword lesbian", pluralphobe, sysmedicalists, etc.)
    * Believing that certain non-harmful LGBTQ+ terms are "weird", "an excuse", "fake", or "looking for attention" (ex: believing that autosexual/autoromantic is narcissism)
    * Believing that certain non-harmful LGBTQ+ terms are "weird", "an excuse", "fake", or "looking for attention" (ex: believing that autosexual/autoromantic is narcissism)
    * Not believing or gatekeeping non-harmful users of harmful originated terms or terms that were not supposed to be problematic ('''[[Queer|queer]]''' as a reclaimed term, an '''anime/[[Animatesexual|animatesexual]]''' who is genuinely ace-spec and attracted to anime characters, etc.) Similarly, calling them homophobic, racist, sexist, intersexist, etc. when there is no proof, or using reclaimed slurs that you have no right to use.
    * Not believing or gatekeeping non-harmful users of harmful originated terms or terms that were not supposed to be problematic ('''[[Queer|queer]]''' as a reclaimed term, an '''anime/[[Animatesexual|animatesexual]]''' who is genuinely ace-spec and attracted to anime characters, etc.) Similarly, calling them homophobic, racist, sexist, intersexist, etc. when there is no proof, or using reclaimed slurs that you have no right to use.
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    * Use the term "snowfl/ke (a)" to describe someone negatively
    * Use the term "snowfl/ke (a)" to describe someone negatively
    * Tradwives who believes that every woman(-aligned) should also be one and submit to their partners
    * Tradwives who believes that every woman(-aligned) should also be one and submit to their partners
    * “Feminism" while getting angry/mock/disliking women(-aligned) who like doing things deemed as feminine
    * “Feminism" while getting angry/mock/disliking women(-aligned) and womxn who like doing things deemed as feminine
    * Anti-shippers, fandom-police, etc. or just gatekeeping/harassing ships in general. Yes, I said it. '''It's fiction.''' Y'all f**king disgust me.
    * Anti-shippers, fandom-police, etc. or just gatekeeping/harassing ships in general. Yes, I said it. '''It's fiction.''' Y'all f**king disgust me.
    PSA: A cishet liking BL or LGBTQ+ stories or ships doesn't mean that they're fetishizing gay men. Boyfriends and Heartstopper are wholesome pieces of art. Just because someone started being supportive of or figured out that they're LGBTQ+ through fictional works of arts doesn't mean that they're terrible. Y'all need to stop being so freaking hateful about the art styles and what these characters wear or whatever the f**k. Not only that, but it's extremely similar to homophobia and transphobia - you know, things that '''we''' struggle with!
    PSA: A cishet liking BL or LGBTQ+ stories or ships doesn't automatically mean that they're fetishizing gay men. Boyfriends and Heartstopper are wholesome pieces of art. Just because someone started being supportive or figured out that they're LGBTQ+ through fictional works doesn't mean that they're terrible. Y'all need to stop being so freaking hateful about the art styles and what these characters wear or whatever. Not only that, but it's extremely similar to homophobia and transphobia - you know, things that '''we''' struggle with!


    Unless someone is shipping ''real'' individuals without considering their feelings, unless someone believes that gay men or anyone LGBTQ+ are just entertainment or sexual objects, or unless their intentions was to be problematic or queerphobic, then just look away and go look at stuff that you like. Stop going around and hating on others' work or threaten them to go through some horrible sh*t just so "they'll understand". '''Stop. You're not heroes.''' /vsrs /vneg
    Unless someone is shipping ''real'' individuals without considering their feelings, unless someone believes that gay men or anyone LGBTQ+ are just entertainment or sexual objects, or unless their intentions was to be problematic or queerphobic, then just look away and go look at stuff that you like. Stop going around and hating on others' work or threaten them to go through some horrible sh*t just so "they'll understand". '''Stop. You're not heroes.''' /vsrs /vneg
    * Believing that ''all'' representation doesn’t matter at all in fiction
    * Believing that ''all'' representation doesn’t matter at all in fiction
    * Racism, xenophobia towards any race, using racial slurs against others, comparing a race to the virus, etc.
    * Racism, xenophobia, using racial slurs against others, comparing a race to viruses, using AAVE words or any other language on someone just because of their race, asking questions based off of stereotypes or assume that everyone of that race know each other, etc.
    * “All Lives Matter”, "White Lives Matter", and/or "Blue Lives Matter" instead of “Black Lives Matter”
    * “All Lives Matter”, "White Lives Matter", and/or "Blue Lives Matter" instead of “Black Lives Matter”
    * Cultural appropriation if you're ignorant or unknowledgeable to others' issues and cultures, or find them "trendy", or if you force your opinions on cultural appropriation down everyone's throats, especially if they are mixed
    * Cultural appropriation if you're ignorant or unknowledgeable to others' issues and cultures, or find them "trendy", or if you force your opinions on cultural appropriation down everyone's throats, especially if they are mixed
    * Ableism towards any mental illnesses/disorders/disabilities, thinking they need a cure, faking it, exaggerating, thinking they need a professional diagnosis, etc. Paraphilic disorders also count because they can’t control how they feel
    * Ableism towards any mental illnesses/disorders/disabilities, believing they need a cure, faking it, exaggerating, believing they need a professional diagnosis, etc. Demonizing paraphilic disorders also count because they can’t control how they feel
    * Seeing paraphilic disorders as LGBTQ+
    * Seeing paraphilic disorders as LGBTQ+
    * Seeing incest alone as LGBTQ+
    * Seeing incest alone as LGBTQ+
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    * Pretending to have any neurodivergencey or disability for attention/money
    * Pretending to have any neurodivergencey or disability for attention/money
    * Believing that suicide, or getting help is selfish, or that suicidal folks are just attention-seeking (stay the f**k away if this is you /vsrs)
    * Believing that suicide, or getting help is selfish, or that suicidal folks are just attention-seeking (stay the f**k away if this is you /vsrs)
    * Hating on ''all'' men(-aligned), white folks, cishets, singlets, abled, thin/slim folks, and/or neurotypicals, or use any slurs against them such as "yt" for whites
    * Hating on ''all'' men(-aligned), white folks, cishets, singlets, abled, thin/slim folks, and/or neurotypicals, or use any slurs against them
    * “Cringe culture”, watch or make "cringe" or "unfunny" videos/compilations for fun, or use the word “cringe” to describe others or things a lot
    * “Cringe culture”, watch or make "cringe" or "unfunny" videos/compilations for fun, or use the word “cringe” to describe others or things a lot
    * Extreme music-purists (hating on those who use autotune, accusing many singers for lip-singing, etc.)
    * Extreme music-purists (hating on those who use autotune, accusing many singers for lip-singing, etc.)
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    * Arguing over trivial things ''too'' seriously (in a non-light-hearted way) (ex: saying to a cat lover “dogs are so much better, get a dog, you’re a loser if you don’t like dogs”. And yes, taking pineapple on pizza seriously or saying "why watch it if you can just play it?" with mocking/serious intentions also counts)
    * Arguing over trivial things ''too'' seriously (in a non-light-hearted way) (ex: saying to a cat lover “dogs are so much better, get a dog, you’re a loser if you don’t like dogs”. And yes, taking pineapple on pizza seriously or saying "why watch it if you can just play it?" with mocking/serious intentions also counts)
    * Extreme grammar policing, sentence policing, things that nobody asked for non-lightheartedly (paragraphs don’t count. Editing pages or correcting someone for using outdated terminology that is or can be potentially harmful also don’t count)
    * Extreme grammar policing, sentence policing, things that nobody asked for non-lightheartedly (paragraphs don’t count. Editing pages or correcting someone for using outdated terminology that is or can be potentially harmful also don’t count)
    * Accusing every single company or celebrity you run into for pink capitalism, even if they are actually really supportive (please stop, it's ''really'' annoying and unfair /vsrs /neg)
    * Accusing every single company or celebrity you run into for pink capitalism or "supporting for attention", even if they are actually really supportive (please stop, it's ''really'' annoying and unfair /vsrs /neg)
    * Shaming others for not going by “person” and instead “individual”, “folk”, etc.
    * Shaming others for not going by “person” and instead “individual”, “folk”, etc.
    * Shaming others for not liking horror or for looking scary, such as on Halloween
    * Shaming others for not liking horror or for looking scary, such as on Halloween
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