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-I know that this list is long because it's in two parts, so I apologize in advance. However, I think that it is proper for us to put this down just to be safe and clear and after leaving the discussion pages. If any of the situations below describe you, then ''do not interact.'' /gen /srs
+I know that this list is long because it's in two parts, so I apologize in advance. However, I think that it is proper for us to put this down just to be safe and clear and after leaving the discussion pages. If any of the situations below describe you, then please ''do not interact.'' /gen /srs
 - Danni (he/they/it+) - [[User:Systeroamia|Systeroamia]]
 === If you mock, don’t believe, or hate on: ===
-* ''Any'' LGBTQ+ sexualities, including any [[a-spec]] identities and [[objectum]] identities (attraction to inanimate objects), hetero-aligned identities, or believe that they're not LGBTQ+, or instead believe in harmful stereotypes (ex: all gay men are feminine, trans women are just cis men trying to attack women, nonbinary individuals should all be androgynous, etc.)
+* ''Any'' good-faith LGBTQ+ sexualities, including any [[a-spec]] identities and [[objectum]] identities (attraction to inanimate objects), hetero-aligned identities, or believe that they're not LGBTQ+, or instead believe in harmful stereotypes (ex: all gay men are feminine, trans women are just cis men trying to attack women, nonbinary individuals should all be androgynous, etc.)
-* Aplatonic(-spectrum), aqueerplatonic-(spectrum), loveless (a)romantic etc. individuals
+* [[Aplatonic]]([[Aplatonic Spectrum|-spectrum]]), [[Aqueerplatonic|aqueerplatonic]]([[Aqueerplatonic Spectrum|-spectrum]]), [[Loveless Romantic|loveless romantics]], [[Loveless Aromantic|loveless aromantics]], etc. individuals
 * Ace/Aro positivity
-* Transgender, intersex, nonbinary, genderqueer, xenogender, neurogender, aesthetigender, etc. multi-spec lesbian, or [[lesboy]] identities
+* Transgender, intersex, nonbinary, genderqueer, xenogender, neurogender, aesthetigender, etc., multi-spec lesbian, or [[lesboy]] identities
 * Gender non-conforming men/women/nonbinary folks, [[Drag Performers|drag artists]] (queens, kings, monarchs/queers, things), or believe that only men should do drag
 * Polyamorous, ambiamorous, queerplatonic/alterous relationships, or any other non-monogamous relationship identities
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 * Artists, entrepreneurs, etc, or believe that they are not real jobs or should get "real" jobs
 * Alterhumans/otherkin/etc identities
-* Systems/plurals/medians, endogenic or non-traugmetic systems, [[System-Partnership|system-partnerships]], or treat members/headmates/alters, or even fictives, factives, or introjects like they are not real individuals
+* Systems/plurals/medians, endogenic/non-traugmetic systems, [[System-Partnership|system-partnerships]], or treat members/headmates/alters, or even fictives, factives, or introjects like they are not real individuals
 * Vaccines or masks, therapy, mental health, basically anti-primitivism
 * ''All'' pedophiles (please say ''child molesters'' instead, pedophile is not the right word you’re thinking of /nm)
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 * Exclusionary groups (ex: TERFS/Radfems, SWERFS, ace/aro-spec exclusionists, transmedicalists, truscum, anti-MOGAI, "battle axe bi", "longsword lesbian", pluralphobe, sysmeds, etc.)
 * Believing that certain non-harmful LGBTQ+ terms are "weird", "an excuse", "fake", or "looking for attention" (ex: believing that autosexual/autoromantic is narcissism)
-* Not believing or gatekeeping non-harmful users of harmful originated terms or terms that were not supposed to be problematic ('''[[Queer|queer]]''' as a reclaimed term, an '''anime/[[Animatesexual|animatesexual]]''' who is genuinely ace-spec and attracted to anime characters, etc.) Similarly, calling them homophobic, racist, sexist, intersexist, etc. when there is no proof, or using reclaimed slurs that you do not have to right to use.
+* Not believing or gatekeeping non-harmful users of harmful originated terms or terms that were not supposed to be problematic ('''[[Queer|queer]]''' as a reclaimed term, an '''anime/[[Animatesexual|animatesexual]]''' who is genuinely ace-spec and attracted to anime characters, etc.) Similarly, calling them homophobic, racist, sexist, intersexist, etc. when there is no proof, or using reclaimed slurs that you have no right to use.
 * Gatekeeping those who do conform to LGBTQ+ stereotypes, or gatekeeping things such as aesthetic pride boards, all to "prevent promoting stereotypes" (why /vneg)
 * Purposefully misgendering or deadnaming someone, ''even'' when they're problematic or make you upset (it's so childish and disappointing /vneg)
-* Fetishizing or infantilizing others based off of their race, ethnicity, being transgender, being non-binary, gender non-conforming appearance, or sex characteristics, or seeing us as (sexual) objects or entertainment
+* Fetishizing or infantilizing others based off of their race, ethnicity, being transgender, being non-binary, gender non-conforming, or sex characteristics, or seeing us as (sexual) objects or entertainment
 * Fatophobia/fat shaming, or any other kind of body shaming
 * Donald Trump and/or his ideologies or any other far-right or far-conservative ideologies
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 * Racism, xenophobia towards any race, using racial slurs against others, comparing a race to the virus, etc.
 * “All Lives Matter”, "White Lives Matter", and/or "Blue Lives Matter" instead of “Black Lives Matter”
+* Cultural appropriation if you're ignorant or unknowledgeable to others' issues and cultures, or find them "trendy", or if you force your opinions on cultural appropriation down everyone's throats, especially if they are mixed
 * Ableism towards any mental illnesses/disorders/disabilities, thinking they need a cure, faking it, exaggerating, thinking they need a professional diagnosis, etc. Paraphilic disorders also count because they can’t control how they feel
 * Seeing paraphilic disorders as LGBTQ+
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 * Pretending to have any neurodivergencey or disability for attention/money
 * Believing that suicide, or getting help is selfish, or that suicidal folks are just attention-seeking (stay the f**k away if this is you /vsrs)
-* Hating on ''all'' men(-aligned), white folks, cishets, singlets, abled, thin/slim folks, and/or neurotypicals, or use any slurs against them such as "yt" for whites (please '''stop''' /vsrs /vu)
+* Hating on ''all'' men(-aligned), white folks, cishets, singlets, abled, thin/slim folks, and/or neurotypicals, or use any slurs against them such as "yt" for whites (to that one troll who thinks we're all like that, you're so wrong lol)
 * “Cringe culture”, watch or make "cringe" or "unfunny" videos/compilations for fun, or use the word “cringe” to describe others or things a lot
 * Extreme music-purists (hating on those who use autotune, accusing many singers for lip-singing, etc.)
-* Pro-gun, pro-violence, riots, support the death penalty, support domestic abuse, child abuse, and/or animal abuse, etc. (I didn’t phrase it right the last time, so I apologize /gen)
+* Pro-gun, pro-violence, riots, support the death penalty, support domestic abuse, child abuse, and/or animal abuse, etc.
 * Parents hitting their children in any way or fashion for “discipline” ('''why?''' it gives me trauma from that stupid super Mario logan video I ran into (clearly for the far-right). And plus, it’s scientifically stated that it doesn’t work! /vsrs /neg)
 * Giving death threats, suicide-baiting, or otherwise cyberbullying towards anyone, even to those who are problematic or may seem “problematic” but really aren't (Seriously. '''Stop.''' /vsrs /vneg)
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 You don't have to ''like'' their fetishist drawings, ships, etc. (I don't, I'm not a fan, and plus it's illegal here in the US), but unless they're doing it in '''reality''', just leave them alone, period. /vsrs /vu
 * Making anything saying if an identity is valid or about deleting a term in the beware section (it’s there for a reason /lu)
-* Not giving anyone who ''accidentally'' came off as problematic and genuinely didn’t mean to a chance (instantly DNIing them, refusing to forgive them, etc.)
+* Not giving anyone who ''accidentally'' came off as problematic and genuinely didn’t mean to a chance (instantly DNIing them, refusing to forgive them, etc.) This also counts if someone used to be problematic but is no longer problematic and has genuinely apologized. (I guess it depends on what they did, but for the love of god just please recognize that the individual(s) changed for the better. Change exists /vsrs)
 * Arguing over trivial things ''too'' seriously (in a non-light-hearted way) (ex: saying to a cat lover “dogs are so much better, get a dog, you’re a loser if you don’t like dogs”. And yes, taking pineapple on pizza seriously or saying "why watch it if you can just play it?" with mocking/serious intentions also counts)
 * Extreme grammar policing, sentence policing, things that nobody asked for non-lightheartedly (paragraphs don’t count. Editing pages or correcting someone for using outdated terminology that is or can be potentially harmful also don’t count)