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''Note: Please refer to our DNI list and do '''not''' interact if you fall under our list bulletpoints.'' |
''Note: Please refer to our DNI list and do '''not''' interact if you fall under our list bulletpoints.'' |
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== Our DNI List (Updated! |
== Our DNI List (Updated! 11/26/22) == |
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<small>''TW For a few swears and mentions of the following: abuse, queerphobia, transphobia, gatekeeping, Trump, fetishization, paraphilia, p/dophilia (e), incest, ableism, racism, anti-shippers, climate change, “cringe”, food, animals, d//th threats (ea), s//c/de (ui, i), problematic figures, reclaimed identities, unreclaimed slur (not explicitly said)'' |
<small>''TW For a few swears and mentions of the following: abuse, queerphobia, transphobia, gatekeeping, Trump, fetishization, paraphilia, p/dophilia (e), incest, ableism, racism, anti-shippers, climate change, “cringe”, food, animals, d//th threats (ea), s//c/de (ui, i), problematic figures, reclaimed identities, unreclaimed slur (not explicitly said)'' |
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* Neopronouns, xenopronouns, using no pronouns, men who don't use he/him pronouns, women who don't use she/her pronouns, non-binary folks who don't use they/them pronouns, [[Name Non-Conforming|name non-conforming]] identities (including not identifying with any name), etc. |
* Neopronouns, xenopronouns, using no pronouns, men who don't use he/him pronouns, women who don't use she/her pronouns, non-binary folks who don't use they/them pronouns, [[Name Non-Conforming|name non-conforming]] identities (including not identifying with any name), etc. |
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* LGBTQ+ folks who are straight-passing, monogamous-passing, masculine men(-aligned) who are LGBTQ+, feminine women(-aligned) who are LGBTQ+, etc., or instead believe that pronouns equal gender |
* LGBTQ+ folks who are straight-passing, monogamous-passing, masculine men(-aligned) who are LGBTQ+, feminine women(-aligned) who are LGBTQ+, etc., or instead believe that pronouns equal gender |
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* AAVE words (African American Vernacular English), or think that they’re just “Gen Z slang”, or instead using them if you're racist or ignorant to black culture and issues |
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* Climate change or global warming |
* Climate change or global warming |
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* Those into anime, kpop, jpop, etc., especially hating on groups like BTS and Vocaloid for no reason |
* Those into anime, kpop, jpop, etc., especially hating on groups like BTS and Vocaloid for no reason |
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* School drop outs in general |
* School drop outs in general |
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* Adults who cry or like child-like or teen-like things |
* Adults who cry or like child-like or teen-like things |
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* Geminis, Scorpios, or any other zodiac sign and think that they’re all toxic, liars, cheaters, etc. That or instead believing that specific traits apply to all Cancers, Leos, or whatever else zodiac sign (we’re not ''all'' the |
* Geminis, Scorpios, or any other zodiac sign and think that they’re all toxic, liars, cheaters, etc. That or instead believing that specific traits apply to all Cancers, Leos, or whatever else zodiac sign (we’re not ''all'' the same, please stop /vsrs /vu). The same goes for types based off of sites like 16personalities |
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* The idea of DNI lists in general |
* The idea of DNI lists in general |
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* Exclusionary groups (ex: TERFS/Radfems, SWERFS, ace/aro-spec exclusionists, transmedicalists/truscum, anti-MOGAI, "battle axe bi", "longsword lesbian", pluralphobe, sysmedicalists, etc.) |
* Exclusionary groups (ex: TERFS/Radfems, SWERFS, ace/aro-spec exclusionists, transmedicalists/truscum, anti-MOGAI, "battle axe bi", "longsword lesbian", pluralphobe, sysmedicalists, etc.) |
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* Believing that certain non-harmful LGBTQ+ terms are "weird", "an excuse", "fake", or "looking for attention" (ex: believing that autosexual/autoromantic is narcissism) |
* Believing that certain non-harmful LGBTQ+ terms are "weird", "an excuse", "fake", or "looking for attention" (ex: believing that autosexual/autoromantic is narcissism) |
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* Not believing or gatekeeping non-harmful users of harmful originated terms or terms that were not supposed to be problematic ('''[[Queer|queer]]''' as a reclaimed term, an '''anime/[[Animatesexual|animatesexual]]''' who is genuinely ace-spec and attracted to anime characters, a cis user identifying as [[Ceterosexual|ceterosexual]], etc.) Similarly, calling users or labels homophobic, racist, sexist, intersexist, etc. when there is no proof, or using reclaimed slurs that you have no right to use. |
* ''>>>>>>>>>>'' Not believing or gatekeeping non-harmful users of harmful originated terms or terms that were not supposed to be problematic ('''[[Queer|queer]]''' as a reclaimed term, an '''anime/[[Animatesexual|animatesexual]]''' who is genuinely ace-spec and attracted to anime characters, a cis user identifying as [[Ceterosexual|ceterosexual]], '''pangender''' individuals who identify as a vast/infinite/all genders ''only'' in one's culture etc.) Similarly, calling users or labels homophobic, racist, sexist, intersexist, etc. when there is no proof, or using reclaimed slurs that you have no right to use. |
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* Gatekeeping those who identify as womxn from using womxn, or speaking for all women to use or not use “womxn” |
* Gatekeeping those who identify as womxn from using womxn, or speaking for all women to use or not use “womxn” |
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* Gatekeeping those who do conform to LGBTQ+ stereotypes, or gatekeeping things such as aesthetic pride boards, all to "prevent promoting stereotypes" (why /vneg) |
* Gatekeeping those who do conform to LGBTQ+ stereotypes, or gatekeeping things such as aesthetic pride boards, all to "prevent promoting stereotypes" (why /vneg) |
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* Donald Trump and/or his ideologies or any other far-right or far-conservative ideologies |
* Donald Trump and/or his ideologies or any other far-right or far-conservative ideologies |
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* Shane Dawson, Snowy Joe, Keemstar, Sia, or anyone similar (the “a part of” doesn’t count here because you can still enjoy their stuff while not supporting them /g) |
* Shane Dawson, Snowy Joe, Keemstar, Sia, or anyone similar (the “a part of” doesn’t count here because you can still enjoy their stuff while not supporting them /g) |
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* Anti-feminism, sexism, cissexism, catcalling, anti-abortion, slut-shaming, touching without their permission, sexual assault (SA), rape, blaming any rape/SA victims for being raped/SA (if this is you, you are a horrible piece of sh*t. I should '''not''' have to write this /vneg), etc. |
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* Use the term "snowfl/ke (a)" to describe someone negatively |
* Use the term "snowfl/ke (a)" to describe someone negatively |
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* Tradwives who believes that every woman(-aligned) should also be one and submit to their partners |
* Tradwives who believes that every woman(-aligned) should also be one and submit to their partners |
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* “Feminism" while getting angry/mock/disliking women(-aligned) and womxn who like doing things deemed as feminine |
* “Feminism" while getting angry/mock/disliking women(-aligned) and womxn who like doing things deemed as feminine |
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* Anti-shippers, fandom-police, etc. or just gatekeeping/harassing ships in general. Yes, I said it. '''It's fiction.''' |
* Anti-shippers, fandom-police, etc. or just gatekeeping/harassing ships in general. Yes, I said it. '''It's fiction.''' This is disgusting. |
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* “All Lives Matter”, "White Lives Matter", and/or "Blue Lives Matter" instead of “Black Lives Matter” |
* “All Lives Matter”, "White Lives Matter", and/or "Blue Lives Matter" instead of “Black Lives Matter” |
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* Cultural appropriation if you're ignorant or unknowledgeable to others' issues and cultures, or find them "trendy", or if you force your opinions on cultural appropriation down everyone's throats, especially if they are mixed |
* Cultural appropriation if you're ignorant or unknowledgeable to others' issues and cultures, or find them "trendy", or if you force your opinions on cultural appropriation down everyone's throats, especially if they are mixed |
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* Ableism towards any mental illnesses/disorders/disabilities, believing they need a cure, faking it, exaggerating, believing they need a professional diagnosis, etc. Demonizing paraphilic disorders, anger disorders, and narcissistic personality disorders also count because they can’t control how they feel |
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* Seeing paraphilic disorders or incest as LGBTQ+ |
* Seeing paraphilic disorders or incest as LGBTQ+ |
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* Against incest when it's '''fictional''' or when it's not blood-related |
* Against incest when it's '''fictional''' or when it's not blood-related |
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* Disregarding the fact that not all autistic individuals are comfortable seeing their autism as a disability/disorder/syndrome (many hate their autism being labeled as such, including I), or if you believe that it is caused by vaccines |
* Disregarding the fact that not all autistic individuals are comfortable seeing their autism as a disability/disorder/syndrome (many hate their autism being labeled as such, including I), or if you believe that it is caused by vaccines |
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* Blaming those with swear words or other offensive gestures as tics for having those tics, or assuming that offensive things said by an individual with tics are an accurate reflection of themself/true opinions. |
* Blaming those with swear words or other offensive gestures as tics for having those tics, or assuming that offensive things said by an individual with tics are an accurate reflection of themself/true opinions. |
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* Purposely being rude or traumatizing others and using your trauma, neurodivergency, and/or disabilities as an excuse (''no.'' /vneg) |
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* Pretending to have any neurodivergencey or disability for attention/money |
* Pretending to have any neurodivergencey or disability for attention/money |
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* Believing that suicide, or getting help is selfish, or that suicidal folks are just attention-seeking (stay |
* Believing that suicide, or getting help is selfish, or that suicidal folks are just attention-seeking (stay away if this is you /vsrs) |
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* Hating on ''all'' men(-aligned), white folks, cis or hetero individuals (or both), singlets, abled, thin/slim folks, and/or neurotypicals, or use any slurs against them (this is '''not''' feminism. That's just being an a**hole /vsrs) |
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* “Cringe culture”, watch or make "cringe" or "unfunny" videos/compilations for fun, or use the word “cringe” to describe others or things a lot (using it in a reclaiming way doesn’t count) |
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* Extreme music-purists (hating on those who use autotune, accusing many singers for lip-singing, etc.) |
* Extreme music-purists (hating on those who use autotune, accusing many singers for lip-singing, etc.) |
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* Pro-gun, pro-violence, riots, support the death penalty, support domestic abuse, child abuse, and/or animal abuse, etc. |
* Pro-gun, pro-violence, riots, support the death penalty, support domestic abuse, child abuse, and/or animal abuse, etc. |
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* Giving death threats, suicide-baiting, or otherwise cyberbullying towards anyone, even to those who are problematic or may seem “problematic” but really aren't (Seriously. '''Stop.''' /vsrs /vneg) |
* Giving death threats, suicide-baiting, or otherwise cyberbullying towards anyone, even to those who are problematic or may seem “problematic” but really aren't (Seriously. '''Stop.''' /vsrs /vneg) |
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* Kinkshaming, especially on those who have obscure or "weird" fetishes, or telling them that it's "cancerous" because of their kinks/fetishes/coping mechanisms, or if you’re one of those folks who post opinions, surveys, or polls about hating or disliking a fetish, especially if it’s solely just to let the world know (no one freaking said that you have to '' like'' any of them -_- /srs) |
* Kinkshaming, especially on those who have obscure or "weird" fetishes, or telling them that it's "cancerous" because of their kinks/fetishes/coping mechanisms, or if you’re one of those folks who post opinions, surveys, or polls about hating or disliking a fetish, especially if it’s solely just to let the world know (no one freaking said that you have to '' like'' any of them -_- /srs) |
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* Participating in MAP, pedophilic/grooming, zoophilic, "pedosexual", etc. behaviors on ''real'' children, animals, etc. (please stop and ''seek help''. If you refuse, go f**k yourself and I hope you suffer /vsrs). |
* Participating in MAP, pedophilic/grooming, zoophilic, "pedosexual", etc. behaviors on ''real'' children, animals, etc. (please stop and ''seek help'' if you can. If you refuse to stop, go f**k yourself and I hope you suffer /vsrs). |
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* Being highly critical of TV shows, movies, books, games, aesthetics, or trends (in a bad way), or quick to calling them bad or dumb, especially in modern times and remakes (calling out ''actual'' problematic bits such as racism, sexism, etc. doesn't count) |
* Being highly critical of TV shows, movies, books, games, aesthetics, or trends (in a bad way), or quick to calling them bad or dumb, especially in modern times and remakes (calling out ''actual'' problematic bits such as racism, sexism, etc. doesn't count) |
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* Gatekeeping aesthetics and subcultures (example: gatekeeping pop-punk, gatekeeping those who are a part of punk who still like or are used to popular/fancy restaurants and/or mainstream music (such as pop), but still hold beliefs such as anti-establishment and anti-capitalism, supporting small businesses, equality, etc. This should '''not''' have to be said. /vsrs) |
* Gatekeeping aesthetics and subcultures (example: gatekeeping pop-punk, gatekeeping those who are a part of punk who still like or are used to popular/fancy restaurants and/or mainstream music (such as pop), but still hold beliefs such as anti-establishment and anti-capitalism, supporting small businesses, equality, etc. This should '''not''' have to be said. /vsrs) |
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* “Money actually buys happiness because…” how about we just… um… not.. do that, okay? |
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* Being annoyed at typing quirks or stuttered text (like “I-I am s-sorry”). Unless it’s genuinely a trigger or a discomfort… it pisses me off that someone is genuinely annoyed at this, wtf?? /vneg |
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* Honestly if you’re just mean, ignorant, judgmental, a troll, a manipulative liar, get overly jealous (especially for no reason), or snobby in general |
* Honestly if you’re just mean, ignorant, judgmental, a troll, a manipulative liar, get overly jealous (especially for no reason), or snobby in general |
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* And lastly, '''excusing anything on this DNI list. And yes, calling me an SJW or the "L Slur" behind my or others' back or making sh*t-posts, including of how long this DNI list is, counts.''' |
* And lastly, '''excusing anything on this DNI list. And yes, calling me an SJW or the "L Slur" behind my or others' back or making sh*t-posts, including of how long this DNI list is, counts.''' |
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