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I'm not sure what I did to make the chat option not pop up anymore, so I apologize. So here is the text below if you're looking for replies.

(talk)

Just copy and paste it in the editor, or I can do it for you if you're unable to, it's no biggie! /g

If you're also looking for timestamps, go in the editor and click on the signature and timestamp option (the third on the top right) next to or below your message!

-Danni (he/they/it+)--Systeroamia (talk) 19:31, May 20, 2022 (UTC)

Sexuality Questions

Questions regarding sexuality go here.

➤ Sexuality

Is there a term for experiencing different sexualities for different genders at the same time? /genq

-Danni (he/they+ neos) Systeroamia (talk) 02:09, March 16, 2022 (UTC)

If I'm understanding the question, novosexual seems to fit. Oculusleviathan (talk) 16:28, April 19, 2022 (UTC)

Gender Questions

Questions regarding gender identity go here.

➤ Is there a term for

Is there something similar to gendervoid except your gender’s neutral (or in my case aporagender) but feel that genders should be there but aren’t? Or can gendervoid still be used for that? /genq

-Vennola (she/they/it?) (talk)

Relationship Questions

Questions regarding monogamous and non-monogamous relationships go here.

Coining Terms

Proof of coined terms from Systeroamia go here.

➤ Coining Idiosexual and Idioromantic

Idiosexual is a term for multigender individuals who experience different sexual attractions for each gender or each category of genders that they experience at the same time. This can also include different m-spec, ace-spec, fluid, and/or flux identities as well. (meee)

Idioromantic is a term for multigender individuals who experience different romantic attractions for each gender or each category of genders that they experience at the same time. This can also include different m-spec, aro-spec, fluid, and/or flux identities as well.

Etymology

The prefix idio is a Latin word meaning “own, personal, distinct”.

(unfortunately, I can't seem to post flags on here so I'll have to do it through the new pages) Systeroamia (talk) 19:41, March 22, 2022 (UTC)

- Danni (he/they+ neos) Systeroamia (talk) 22:03, March 22, 2022 (UTC)

Wiki Questions

Questions that are related to the wiki go here.

➤ Question for Mods

Are we allowed to make edits on the FAQ page?

I'm thinking of changing the usage of people to individuals since individuals is more accepted and inclusive to use for everyone especially for alterhumans and otherkin like me. please don't be mad

/genq /npa /nm

- Danni (he/they+ neos) Systeroamia (talk) 22:43, March 23, 2022 (UTC)

That is fine.

Jeb_CC, Co-Bureaucrat | (xe/xem/xir) (talk) 00:41, March 25, 2022 (UTC)

➤ Another question

Idk, I feel like I need to ask permission for this. For blogs such as System, Regression, and Part 1, 2, and 3 of finding your orientation.. is it okay to edit those? I'm sorry, I'm nervous because of the fact that it's under Blog Posts and I felt like I needed to ask permission. /genq

-Danni (he/they +neos) Systeroamia (talk) (4/23/22 - 13:37 CST) (I don't know what I did to make the time not work anymore, so sorry

➤ Request to put trigger warnings in articles

Hi, I was wondering if editors can put trigger warnings for some passages (perhaps in a smaller text?) in articles such as Travesti, which mentions about hate crimes and discrimination, and Transine, which mentions about being seen as fakeclaiming. /genq - Danni (he/they/it+) --Systeroamia (talk) 23:29, May 26, 2022 (UTC)

Mod Notice: Hey Systeroamia, I've moved your DNI to this page. Your creation of https://lgbta.miraheze.org/wiki/Our_DNI_List is not suitable for its own wiki article, and more suitable for your own user page. I have hence deleted the page. Jeb_CC, Co-Bureaucrat | (xe/xem/xir) (talk) 00:41, March 25, 2022 (UTC)

I understand, and thanks /g /npa

- Danni (he/they+ neos) Systeroamia (talk) 07:09, March 25, 2022 (UTC)

Request

Hey, could y’all please change the headers to not be of a special font? It may be difficult for screen reader users to understand what the screen reader is saying. /nm /grq -Marie

Oh that's true, sorry about that! - Danni (he/they/it+)

Hello, I noticed you have coined a term on this page. Unfortunately, on-wiki pages are not acceptable sources for term coining. Could you post your term on a separate site and link to that using proper citation formatting instead please? --VoxelDraqon (talk) 10:31, September 30, 2022 (UTC)

Oh, I had no idea that they were no longer acceptable.

I’ll make the coining on Wakelet, although I’ve already coined the pages before. /nm - Danni (he/they/it+) Systeroamia (talk) 17:09, September 30, 2022 (UTC)

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-''Note: Please refer to our DNI list at the bottom and do not interact if you fall under our list bulletpoints.''
+''Note: Please refer to our DNI list and do '''not''' interact if you fall under our list bulletpoints.''
-== Sexuality ==
+== Chat Option Text ==
+I'm not sure what I did to make the chat option not pop up anymore, so I apologize. So here is the text below if you're looking for replies.
+([[User talk:Systeroamia|talk]])
+Just copy and paste it in the editor, or I can do it for you if you're unable to, it's no biggie! /g
+If you're also looking for timestamps, go in the editor and click on the signature and timestamp option (the third on the top right) next to or below your message!
+-Danni (he/they/it+)--[[User:Systeroamia|Systeroamia]] ([[User talk:Systeroamia|talk]]) 19:31, May 20, 2022 (UTC)
+== Sexuality Questions ==
+Questions regarding sexuality go here.
+=== ➤ Sexuality ===
 Is there a term for experiencing different sexualities for different genders at the same time? /genq
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 -Danni (he/they+ neos) [[User:Systeroamia|Systeroamia]] ([[User talk:Systeroamia|talk]]) 02:09, March 16, 2022 (UTC)
+:If I'm understanding the question, [[novosexual]] seems to fit. [[User:Oculusleviathan|Oculusleviathan]] ([[User talk:Oculusleviathan|talk]]) 16:28, April 19, 2022 (UTC)
-== Coining Idiosexual and Idioromantic ==
+== Gender Questions ==
-Idiosexual is a term for multigender individuals who experience different sexual attractions for each gender or each category of genders that they experience at the same time. This can also include different m-spec, ace-spec, fluid, and/or flux identities as well. (meee)
+Questions regarding gender identity go here.
+=== ➤ Is there a term for ===
+Is there something similar to [[gendervoid]] except your gender’s neutral (or in my case [[aporagender]]) but feel that genders should be there but aren’t? Or can gendervoid still be used for that? /genq
+-Vennola (she/they/it?) ([[User talk:Systeroamia|talk]])
+== Relationship Questions ==
+Questions regarding monogamous and non-monogamous relationships go here.
+== Coining Terms ==
+Proof of coined terms from Systeroamia go here.
+=== ➤ Coining Idiosexual and Idioromantic ===
+Idiosexual is a term for multigender individuals who experience different sexual attractions for each gender or each category of genders that they experience at the same time. This can also include different m-spec, ace-spec, fluid, and/or flux identities as well. (meee)
 Idioromantic is a term for multigender individuals who experience different romantic attractions for each gender or each category of genders that they experience at the same time. This can also include different m-spec, aro-spec, fluid, and/or flux identities as well.
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 The prefix idio is a Latin word meaning “own, personal, distinct”.
 (unfortunately, I can't seem to post flags on here so I'll have to do it through the new pages) [[User:Systeroamia|Systeroamia]] ([[User talk:Systeroamia|talk]]) 19:41, March 22, 2022 (UTC)
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 :- Danni (he/they+ neos) [[User:Systeroamia|Systeroamia]] ([[User talk:Systeroamia|talk]]) 22:03, March 22, 2022 (UTC)
-== Question for Mods ==
+== Other Questions ==
+Questions that are outside of sexuality, gender, and relationships go here.
+== Wiki Questions ==
+Questions that are related to the wiki go here.
+=== ➤ Question for Mods ===
 Are we allowed to make edits on the FAQ page?
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 [[User:Jeb CC|Jeb_CC, Co-Bureaucrat &#124; (xe/xem/xir)]] ([[User talk:Jeb CC|talk]]) 00:41, March 25, 2022 (UTC)
+=== ➤ Another question ===
+Idk, I feel like I need to ask permission for this. For blogs such as System, Regression, and Part 1, 2, and 3 of finding your orientation.. is it okay to edit those? I'm sorry, I'm nervous because of the fact that it's under Blog Posts and I felt like I needed to ask permission. /genq
+-Danni (he/they +neos) [[User:Systeroamia|Systeroamia]] ([[User talk:Systeroamia|talk]])
+''(4/23/22 - 13:37 CST) (I don't know what I did to make the time not work anymore, so sorry''
+=== ➤ Request to put trigger warnings in articles ===
+Hi, I was wondering if editors can put trigger warnings for some passages (perhaps in a smaller text?) in articles such as [[Travesti]], which mentions about hate crimes and discrimination, and [[Transine]], which mentions about being seen as fakeclaiming. /genq - Danni (he/they/it+) --[[User:Systeroamia|Systeroamia]] ([[User talk:Systeroamia|talk]]) 23:29, May 26, 2022 (UTC)
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 :- Danni (he/they+ neos) [[User:Systeroamia|Systeroamia]] ([[User talk:Systeroamia|talk]]) 07:09, March 25, 2022 (UTC)
-== Our DNI List ==
+== Request ==
+Hey, could y’all please change the headers to not be of a special font? It may be difficult for screen reader users to understand what the screen reader is saying. /nm /grq -Marie
-<small>''TW For a few swears and mentions of the following: ab//e, queerphobia, transphobia, gatekeeping, Trump, fetishization, paraphilia, p/dophilia (e), ableism, racism, “cringe”, food, animals, d//th threats (ea), s//c/de (ui, i), problematic figures, reclaimed identities, unreclaimed slur (not explicitly said)''
-''CW For bold text''</small>
+Oh that's true, sorry about that! - Danni (he/they/it+)
-I know that this list is long because it's in two parts, so I apologize in advance. However, I think that it is proper for us to put this down just to be safe and clear and after leaving the discussion pages. /gen /srs
-- Danni (he/they+ neos) - [[User:Systeroamia|Systeroamia]]
+Hello, I noticed you have coined a term on this page. Unfortunately, on-wiki pages are not acceptable sources for term coining. Could you post your term on a separate site and link to that using proper citation formatting instead please? --[[User:VoxelDraqon|VoxelDraqon]] ([[User talk:VoxelDraqon|talk]]) 10:31, September 30, 2022 (UTC)
-=== If you mock, don’t believe, or hate on: ===
-* Any LGBTQ+ sexualities, including [[a-spec]] identities
-* Transgender, intersex, nonbinary, genderqueer, or lesboy identities
-* Gender non-conforming nonbinary folks, [[Drag Performers|drag artists]] (queens, kings, monarchs/queers, things), or believe that only men should do drag
-* Polyamorous, ambiamorous, queerplatonic/alterous relationships, or any other non-monogamous relationship identities
-* [[Microlabel|Microlabels]] or the use of multiple, or lack of, labels
-* Xenogenders, neurogenders, aesthetigenders, etc.
-* Neopronouns, xenopronouns, using no pronouns, etc.
-* Those into anime, kpop, jpop, etc., especially hating on groups like BTS and Vocaloid for no reason
-* Religious folks, agnostic folks, or atheists (the “don’t believe” part doesn’t count here as anyone can have different beliefs /nm)
-* Pacifism, anarcho-pacifism, etc. (the “don’t believe” part doesn’t count here either, just don’t be a jerk about it /nm)
-* Kink (not to be confused with sex and nudity) at pride
-* Cops at pride (looking at you, NYC staff /neg)
-* Age regressors and/or species regressors, littlespace
-* Furries
-* Alterhumans/otherkin/etc identities
-* Systems/plurals/medians, endogenic systems, or treat members/headmates/alters, or even fictives, factives, or introjects like they are not real individuals
-* Vaccines or masks, therapy, mental health, basically anti-primitivism
-* All pedophiles (please say ''child molesters'' instead, pedophile is not the right word you’re thinking of /nm)
-* NSFW ageplay (it’s '''not''' child molesting if they’re consenting adults /vsrs)
-* Certain triggers or putting down trigger warnings or tone tags, or lacking them overall
-* Those who don’t like or use social media for many reasons (ex: to avoid drama)
-* Vegans or vegetarians (you don’t have to be either of them)
-* School drop outs
-* Geminis, Scorpios, or any other zodiac sign and think that they’re all toxic, liars, or cheaters (we’re not ''all'' the f**king same, please stop /vsrs /vu)
-* Honestly, the idea of DNI lists in general
+:Oh, I had no idea that they were no longer acceptable.
-=== If you support or are a part of: ===
+:I’ll make the coining on Wakelet, although I’ve already coined the pages before. /nm - Danni (he/they/it+) [[User:Systeroamia|Systeroamia]] ([[User talk:Systeroamia|talk]]) 17:09, September 30, 2022 (UTC)
-* Exclusionary groups (ex: TERFS, SWERFS, transmedicalists, truscum, "battle axe bi", "longsword lesbian", sysmeds, etc.)
-* Believing that certain non-harmful LGBTQ+ terms are "weird", "an excuse", or "looking for attention" (ex: believing that autosexual/autoromantic is narcissism)
-* Not believing or gatekeeping non-harmful users of harmful originated terms or terms that were not supposed to be problematic ('''[[Queer|queer]]''' as a reclaimed term, an '''anime/[[Animatesexual|animatesexual]]''' who is genuinely ace-spec and attracted to anime characters, etc.) Similarly, calling them homophobic, racist, sexist, intersexist, etc. when there is no proof
-* Purposefully misgendering or d//dnaming someone, even when they are problematic or make you upset (it's so childish and disappointing /vneg)
-* Fetishizing folks based off of their race, ethnicity, being transgender, or sex characteristics
-* Fatophobia/fat shaming, or other types of body shaming
-* Donald That fucking bastard and/or his ideologies
-* Shane Dawson, Snowy Joe, Keemstar, Sia, or anyone similar (the “a part of” doesn’t count here because you can still enjoy their stuff while not supporting them /g)
-* Anti-feminism, sexism, cissexism, catcalling, anti-abortion, slut-shaming, touching without their permission, etc.
-* Tradwives who believes that every woman(-aligned) should also be one and submit to their partners
-* “Feminism" while getting angry/mock/disliking women(-aligned) who like doing things deemed as feminine
-* Extreme anti-shippers or extreme pro-shippers
-* Believing that ''all'' representation doesn’t matter at all in fiction
-* Racism, xenophobia towards any race, using racial slurs, comparing a race to the virus, etc.
-* “All Lives Matter” and/or "Blue Lives Matter" instead of “Black Lives Matter”
-* Ableism towards any mental illnesses/disorders/disabilities (paraphilic disorders also count because they can’t control how they feel)
-* Shaming picky eaters, eating disorders, etc.
-* Autism being seen as a disorder, disability, or disease
-* Believing that s//c/de, or getting help is selfish, or that s//c/dal folks are just attention-seeking (stay the f**k away if this is you /vsrs)
-* Hating on ''all'' white folks, cishets, singlets, abled, and/or neurotypicals (please stop /vsrs /vu)
-* “Cringe culture”, watch "cringe" compilations for fun, or use the word “cringe” to describe others a lot
-* Extreme music-purists (hating on those who use autotune, accusing many singers for lip-singing, etc)
-* Domestic ab//e, animal ab//e, hitting animals (stay the f**k away and find help /vsrs)
-* Giving d//th threats, s//c/de-baiting, or otherwise cyberbullying towards anyone, even to those who are problematic or may seem “problematic” but really aren't (Seriously. '''Stop.''' /vsrs /vneg)
-* Kinkshaming or telling those that it's "cancer" because of their kinks/fetishes/coping mechanisms
-* Participating in MAP, pedophilic, zoophilic, "pedosexual", etc. behaviors on ''real'' children (please stop and ''seek help'' /vsrs). Having paraphilic disorders and using other coping strategies doesn't count
-* Making anything saying if an identity is valid or about deleting a term in the beware section (it’s there for a reason /lu)
-* Not giving anyone who ''accidentally'' came off as problematic and genuinely didn’t mean to a chance (instantly DNIing them, refusing to forgive them, etc.)
-* Arguing over trivial things ''too'' seriously (ex: saying to a cat lover “dogs are so much better, get a dog, you’re a loser if you don’t like dogs”. And yes, taking pineapple on pizza ''too'' seriously also counts)
-* Grammar policing, sentence policing, things that nobody asked for (paragraphs don’t count. Editing pages also doesn’t count)
-* Accusing every single company or celebrity you run into for pink capitalism, especially on those who are actually really supportive (please stop, it's really annoying and unfair /vsrs /neg)
-* Shaming others for not going by “person” and instead “individual”, “folk”, etc.
-* Shaming others for not liking horror or for looking scary, such as on Halloween
-* Honestly if you’re just mean, ignorant, or snobby in general
-* '''And lastly, excusing or supporting anything on this list. And yes, calling me the "L slur” behind my back or making anti-liberal sh*t-posts, including how long this DNI list is, counts.'''
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