Alternate breace flag and new bottoace flag! [160 words]
(created by Chaoticcylinder on 2023 Feb 10 Fri 20:04:21 GMT)
An alternate breace flag Danni (he/they/it+) - I've made an alternate breace flag! I thought that since I am breace, it could be a bit more inclusive than the one that's already proposed. Black/dark gray symbolizes asexuals, gray represents all ace-spec individuals, white represents allosexuals, and the red circle with the x over it represents the rejection of sexual interaction with their breasts and/or their partner(s)'s breasts. The bottoace flag A new Bottoace pride flag! Black/dark gray symbolizes asexuals, gray represents all ace-spec individuals, white represents allosexuals, and the red circle with the sideway x over it represents the rejection of sexual interaction with their buttocks and/or their partner(s)'s buttocks. The x is sideways so that it would be less confused with the alternate breace flag, and that breasts and buttocks are two different things.
xual Relationships [101 words]
(created by Chaoticcylinder on 2021 Dec 10 Fri 21:34:29 GMT)
TW for mentions of s/x (e) and BDSM Would it be considered a sexual relationship if there's sexual tension but without any s/x? For example, if aspects of BDSM were into play and the goal was to get them to... that point (but not through s/x whatsoever - also I am so sorry), would that be a sexual relaltionship? Or is there a better term? So sorry if this seemed personal or tmi, but I'm just really confused at this point. I'm thinking of coining something like fetiship / kinkship / or something simlilar if there isn't anything and if it's appropriate. - Danni (he/they+ neos)
Coining Pangenderscale [67 words]
(created by Chaoticcylinder on 2021 Nov 30 Tue 6:40:46 GMT)
Coining Pangenderscale (also can be named panspectrugender) as a term for those who experience all genders but more on a scale or a spectrum from the most prominent to the least prominent genders, or vice versa. Genders that are less prominent can feel more contradicting, faded, blurry, or invisible, but none of these examples are required. Coined on November 30th, 2021. The Pangenderscale flag -Danni (he/they+ neos)
Triggers & Discomforts [314 words]
(created by Chaoticcylinder on 2021 Oct 25 Mon 10:31:00 GMT)
Important: Do not read if you’re going to be a jerk about it and use it against us! That will not be tolerated! /vsrs Other members of Systeroamia can also add on to the lists if they wish. // General TW // Triggers Any creepy smiles or characters with creepy smiles, such as the Lemon Demon and other creepypastas Any words related to c/v/d (o, i) Bl//d (oo) Sharp objects D//th (ea) School trauma, unfair teachers, especially anything about PE Angry yelling or being yelled at S//c/de (ui, i) or sh Gatekeeping, invalidation, bullying, especially from those who are LGBTQIA+ themselves. Hate crimes are by far the worst triggers for us Ableism Fatophobia, body shaming Reverse music Being called rude, disrespectful, or having an attitude when I (Danni) or anyone else genuinely wasn’t trying to be. Seriously, it’s bad “Cringe culture” Discomforts Being asked suggestive/sexual questions (especially if I don’t know you that well) Very pro-communist or any pro-capitalist posts. It can become a trigger if proposed multiple times. Horror movies. It can become a trigger if proposed multiple times. Being told to “calm down”, “relax”, or “chill”. I don’t know about you, but telling me such won’t make me calm down, even if you had good intentions. Mentions of TrevorSpace. We used to be on there, but we left due to the amount of drama, exclusionism, and ignorance, especially towards others’ triggers (ex: getting angry at someone because of respecting someone else’s trigger as autism). It can become a trigger if proposed many times or if being asked to join. The words “cringe/cringey”, especially when it’s describing someone else or what someone is doing. We just don’t like it. Accusing a company for pink capitalism, especially when that company actually isn't and is actually supportive. It's really annoying actually Chic-fil-a. Their company is trash
Our DNI List [659 words]
(created by Chaoticcylinder on 2021 Oct 7 Thu 23:33:46 GMT)
(TW For mentions of queerphobia, transphobia, Trump, fetshiziation, paraphillia, ableism, racism, “cringe”, animals, d//th threats (ea), s//c/de (ui, i), problematic figures) Generally-Wise Do not interact if: You are queerphobic (homophobic, biphobic, panphobic, aphobic, transphobia, or anything else similar) You mock or dislike any transgender, intersex, nonbinary/genderqueer folks, or lesboys You mock or dislike polyamorous, ambiamorous, or other non-monogamous relationships, or mock or dislike queerplatonic/alterous relationships You mock or dislike micro labels or the use of multiple labels You mock or dislike xenogenders and neopronouns You are apart of any exclusionist groups - TERFS, SWERFS, transmedicalists, "battle axe bi", "longsword lesbian", etc. You mock or dislike those into anime, kpop, jpop, etc. You fetishize folks based off of their race, ethnicity, being transgender, or sex characteristics You kinkshame or tell people to “die” or that it's "cancer" because of their kinks/fetishes You think that kink pride (not to be confused with sex and nudity) or all cops should be out of pride You think that certain non-harmful LGBTQ+ terms are "weird", "an excuse", or "looking for attention" (ex: believing that autosexual/autoromantic is just narcissism) You don’t believe or like non-harmful users of harmful originated terms (such as queer as a reclaimed term, an anime/animatesexual who genuinely is ace-spec and attracted to anime characters) You are fatophobic/fat shame You support Donald Trump and/or his ideologies You support Shane Dawson, Snowy Joe, Keemstar, Sia, or anyone similar You are anti-feminist, agree with misogyny or misandry, catcalling, touching without their permission (aka sexual assault) You are one of those "feminists" who get angry/mock/dislike women/femmes who like doing things deemed as feminine You are a tradwife who believes that every woman should also be one and submit to their partners You are an anti-vaccinator/don’t believe in vaccines or masks You are racist towards any race You don’t support Black Lives Matter, or instead support “All Lives Matter” and/or "Blue Lives Matter" You are ableist towards any mental illnesses/disorders/disabilities (and yes, believing that certain websites should be left exclusive towards those with disabilities (such as with security and log ins) counts) You genuinely hate all cishets, singlets, abled, and/or neurotypicals You believe autism is a disorder You discriminate against religious folks, agnostic folks, or atheists You mock or dislike age regressors and/or species regressors, littlespace You mock or dislike alterhumans/otherkin/etc. You mock or dislike systems/plurals/medians, or endogenic systems, or treat members/headmates/alters in systems like they are not real individuals You mock or dislike certain triggers or putting down trigger warnings, or lacking them overall You participate in “cringe culture”, watch "cringe" compilations for fun, or use the word “cringe” to describe folks a lot You are okay with giving death threats or suicide-baiting towards anyone, even to those who are problematic or may seem “problematic” but really aren't You are participating in MAP, pedophilic, zoophilic, "pedosexual", etc. behaviors (please stop and seek help /srs). Having paraphilic disorders doesn't count, one can't control how they feel and are distressing to them You’ve made anything saying if an identity is valid, or made polls about deleting a term in the beware section (it’s there for a reason, please don’t) You’re one of those folks who seriously argue over trivial things (such as saying to a cat lover “dogs are so much better, get a dog, you’re a loser if you don’t like dogs”) You're one of those folks who seriously accuse every single company you run into for pink capitalism, especially on those who are actually really supportive (please stop, it's really annoying and unfair /srs /neg) You’re one of those folks who shame others for not liking horror or for looking scary, such as on Halloween Honestly if you’re just mean and ignorant in general An apologist or making jokes supporting anything on this list