Welcome
Hello. Welcome to my profile page.
I'm helping to run and organise the Black Stripe Asexuality related stuff and some a-spec micro-labels.
Feel free to say hi, ask questions, or hang out with us on AVEN here --> https://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/216614-black-stripe-asexuals-hangout-thread/?tab=comments#comment-1064330301
Info About Me
My name is Andy, so that's what I go by on here and in real life.
I'm 18 years old <3
Pronouns: none or sun/suns/sunself (it/itself can also be used but is the least preferred of these options)
Note: any pronouns you might use outside of these (which represent my base gender) may activate my sentiogender (which is activated by others' perception of my gender). I don't mind when people activate it but this is just to let you know.
Coming Out Info
I'm out as asexual and aromantic irl. I have told my close friends about my pronouns and one friend about my gender.
Appearance
I'm very self-conscious and don't super like how I look. I'm around 5"4, short brown hair and brown eyes.
Gender
Essentially, I am librafeminine when I am on my own/unperceived or I might be a third gender/atrinary. With other people, I can be any gender, depending on how my gender is perceived by them, but it mostly presents as female/girl/binarian.
Terms:
librafeminine / neutrois / faesari / maverique / atrinary (my base/static gender)
condigender (condilibrafeminine)
Sexuality
I'm asexual and ID as aromantic most of the time. My relationship with romantic attraction and relationships is complicated, so I'm not a Green Stripe Aromantic.
Terms:
Alternate personalities (not a system)
So sometimes when my depression gets really bad or I just want a break from being me I put on different personalities. It is a bit strange but it is one of my coping mechanisms and helps me with motivation/doing actions. They shouldn't come onto the wiki, but in case they do, these are the main ones:
Magnus:
Pronouns: he/him
Sexuality: gay
Gender: male
Anna:
Pronouns: she/her
Sexuality: sapphic
Gender: female
Trigger List
Please don't mention these topics to me at all, since they can cause my mind to spiral:
- suicide (specific or unspecific)
- self-harm (specific or unspecific)
- eating disorders/disordered behaviours/body-shaming/comments on people's bodies
- people being "selfish", people being "callous", venting about people who ghost or who self-isolate
- imposter syndrome
- people faking mental illnesses, people faking genders/sexualities
- aroace exclusion, trans exclusion, neopronouns being "silly" or "harmful"
If you're going to mention this to me, give me some warning:
- friends losing touch/relationships falling apart
- far-right political stuff
- nihilism/anhedonia/existential dread
- people being too young/too naive to decide something about their own life
- injuries, pain, brushing off pain, brushing off not eating
- kink-shaming of non-harmful kinks
- the idea that some people are "good" and some people are "bad"
Do Not Interact
Feel free to add yourself to my DNI list, for whatever reason, and I won't interact with you <3
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