Questioning is the process of exploring, learning, or experimenting with what one's gender, sexual orientation, romantic orientation, or another part of one's identity is. Questioning can happen at any age, and can take anywhere from days to years. Questioning is normal for anyone, whether they turn out to actually be LGBTQ+ or not. Questioning can describe both the process of exploring one's identity and the person who is in the process of questioning.
The opposite of questioning is disambiguan.
Questioning sexuality/romantic orientation
- Androcurious - questioning if one is attracted to men.
- Gynecurious - questioning if one is attracted to women.
- Bicurious - questioning if one is attracted to two or more genders.
- Omnicurious - questioning if one is omnisexual/omniromantic.
- Pancurious - questioning if one is pansexual/panromantic
- Homocurious - questioning if one is homosexual/homoromantic.
- Callisexual/Calliromantic - questioning if one is experiencing sexual attraction/romantic attraction or aesthetic attraction.
- Aceallo-unsure - questioning if one is asexual or allosexual.
- Aroallo-unsure - questioning if one is aromantic or alloromantic.
Flag
There are several questioning flags. The creator and meaning for the main question mark flag are unknown.
The magenta and teal flag was created by Tumblr user protego-et-servio on June 17, 2016.[1] Magenta represents sexuality, white represents all possibilities, teal was used because it is otherwise rarely used in sexual or romantic identity pride flags, and black represents both the possibility of aromantic or asexual identities and having pushed away one's feelings for a long time.
The pink and blue flag was created by DeviantArt user Enbygsrd on September 16, 2016,[2] and intended specifically for people questioning their gender. The color meanings of this flag are unknown.
The pastel flag with the white question mark over it represents questioning pride and was created by Swocks, the owner of a large LGBTQ+ Hangout community, on August 18, 2020.
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Swocks' questioning flag.
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protego-et-servio's questioning flag.
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An alternate questioning flag.
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Enbygsrd's gender questioning flag.
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An alternate questioning flag, exclusive to people who have been questioning for a long time.
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Another questioning flag.