Paingender is a xenogender in which someones gender causes physical and or mental pain. It can also mean when an individuals gender is affected and influenced by pain. An example of this second definition is when someones gender changes from female to gendervoid when experiencing pain, but changes back to female when no longer experiencing pain, or their gender stays the same until experiencing pain again.
One who identifies as paingender may refer to themselves as a "painboy," "paingirl," or "pain-nonbinary" depending on their gender identity.
History
Paingender was created by wiki user Trashwoof.