Honeygender is a neurogender that is defined as "a gender that feels warm and soft, like a blanket, your favorite jacket, or your childhood home, and is childlike in nature. This gender feels comfort in the safety of trusting others and having the innocence of a little kid, with vague hints of masculinity/femininity/androgyny.
There is another coining of the term which defines it as "a gender that feels slow and warm, but steady and sweet at the same time. It is also protective and sheltering.”
History
Honeygender was coined on July 19, 2019 by tumblr user venturgender. The flag was created at the same time.
It is unclear when the second definition was created, or by whom, but it was before August 14, 2019. The second flag was likely created at the same time