Awolgender is a xenogender where one has a gender but it feels lost and distant, as if one is unable to find it. Awolgender can also explain an individual's experience with gender being too complex that it might feel empty and cause confusion about what is their identity while still feeling like they’re not fully out of the idea of having a gender. This might feel like so called gender with out a gender, like it's out of the gender idea but the person still might feel like its a form of gender to them.
The individual can also feel genderless but be connected to the idea of gender identity. Awolgender can be also used as a label describing one's experience with gender or as a modifier like example, demiboy who feels like the gender is still lost. This identity can be similar to gendervoid, agender, other agender-spectrum identites so as abinary identities and out of the idea of “gender” while still feeling one has a gender.
Flag
The flag coiner is currently unknown, but the flags colors meanings, from top to bottom, are emptiness, feeling lost, confusion, satisfaction, complexity, feeling content and ”idfk”
History
Term coiner is tiktok user @bonbutril, no resources have been found as of now
Etymology
Awol means absent without leave, meaning someone or something is absent without official leave, but without the intent to desert.