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 One is allo-ish when alone, and can fantasize/watch/read about sex in first-person and enjoy/want it. The more physically present/tangible the external partner becomes, the more ace-like one gets. Sexual attraction is naturally suppressed by the presence of individuals in real life, even those one fantasizes about. It is not suppressed by the presence of self, unlike in [[Aegosexual|aegosexuality]].
-Actual sex can be very difficult and feel like a job, and even if it is somewhat enjoyable, it doesn't compare to the expectation. One can desire sex with someone if they have an idea of it at a distance, but in front of that individual, that desire is gone. It doesn't depend on reciprocity of others, only on the presence of others. One is capable of gaining some sexual attraction even during sex if dissociating strongly (blindfolded+deafened+etc.) or experiencing kinks and trying to ignore the individual next to oneself.
+Actual sex can be very difficult and feel like a job, and even if it is somewhat enjoyable, it doesn't compare to the expectation. One can desire sex with someone if they have an idea of it at a distance, but in front of that individual, that desire is gone. It doesn't depend on reciprocity of others, only on the presence of others. One is capable of gaining some sexual attraction even during sex if dissociating strongly (eg. blindfolded and deafened) or experiencing kinks and trying to ignore the individual next to oneself.
 Random short sexual attraction, sexual desire or libido spikes next to another individual are possible but extremely fleeting. Indirect sexual acts like masturbation also get much harder in the presence of anyone.