Favourites
Movies | Spider-Man: No Way Home, The Talented Mr Ripley, Thor: Ragnarok, Spider-Man: Into the Spider-Verse, The Hitman's Bodyguard |
Shows | Andi Mack, X-Men: Evolution, Bad Buddy, The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, Shadowhunters |
Books | Percy Jackson and the Olympians, Heroes of Olympus, The Mortal Instruments |
Games | Fire Emblem series, Persona series, X-Men: Destiny, The Wolf Among Us, Astral Chain |
Artists | WILLOW, half•alive, Tech N9ne, Demi Lovato, Matt Watson, SuperMega, Queen |
Songs | Dancing in the Moonlight (King Harvest), Dancing with the Devil (Demi Lovato), Everything (SCRUBB) |
Characters | Quicksilver, Kiryu, Wuxian, Chiaki, Gundham, Kyoko, Connor, Zuko, Nico |
Main Pronouns
ae/aem
he/she/them
he/them
she/him
she/them
Terms I've Coined
Aeoligender
Alexmogender
Alexmoromantic
Alexmosexual
Avengergender
Binaflux
Cinelabgender
Demikidgender
Desigender
Devraigender
Devraitogender
Devsougender
Dorigender
Entomophobian
Eterngender
Fesgender
Fivedisgender
Fivestrigender
Fordangender
Fuchsiagender
Innosingender
Insomniagender
Ionigender
Labelhoarder
Locrigender
Lydigender
Marvelgender
Megamigender
Mixolydigender
Modefluid
Modegender
Mono-spec
Pefivegender
Peforgender
Perenagender
Pethregender
Phrygigender
Portgender
Puppykitgender
Quickgender
Regrenomifluid
Regrepronounfluid
Regressfluid
Regrexpressionfluid
Revelgender
Solquegender
Spintellic Attraction
Swapattractional
Tenapogender
Tenimagender
Tenoctgender
Tenseigender
Tensivgender
Tenstragender
Tenveegender
Thredimgender
Xmengender
Terminology
- System: We prefer to be called headmates, but system members is okay as well
- Honourifics: I don't like any honourifics, but "sir" can be used jokingly
- General: I'm okay with being called a person, but I also like being called a mutant and dislike "people"
- Masculine: I like being referred to as a guy or boy, but I don't want to be called a man
- Feminine: I'm fine with being called a girl or lady, but I don't want to be called a woman
- Neutral: I dislike most neutral terms aside from "friend" and "partner"
- Slang: I like being called "bro" and "dude" (along with any masculine terms, including "man" as slang)
- Compliments: I prefer feminine or neutral language to be used
- Off-limits: I do not want to be called the following words under any circumstance: bestie, sis, queen, king
Triggers and Discomforts
[CW: Potentially triggering content]
Triggers
- Ableism towards personality disorders (especially NPD, AsPD, or BPD)
- Animal abuse (especially towards canines)
- Being ignored, interrupted, rushed, or spoken over
- Bugs (especially photos/illustrations/videos/emojis)
- Dismissive phrases (eg. "You do you," "Whatever," "I guess," etc.)
- Hair and/or teeth falling out (especially videos)
- Mockery/mimicry of stutters (including t-typing like... like this)
- Posts being archived or screenshotted (or anything that reminds me of my stalker)
- Promotion of ABA therapy or speech-language therapy
- Racial fetishism (including weeaboos, koreaboos, japanophiles, non-Japanese otaku, etc.)
- Rotten teeth or gum infections (especially images)
- Specific words (r-slur, demented, fat, annoying, manipulative)
- Surgery (descriptions, images, or videos)
Discomforts
- Autism Speaks and puzzle pieces
- Being called a k*nnie, or "kin" being used as a verb
- Being called "mixed" instead of biracial
- Coins (only applies to photos/videos)
- Concepts based on eugenics (including IQ, mental age, giftedness, etc.)
- Erasure of Chinese culture (eg. donghua being called anime)
- Fetishization of gay men (including non-Japanese fujoshi, or MLM 'genres' in the media)
- Force-feeding (especially videos)
- Functioning labels, autism levels, Asperger's, and PFL
- Generalisations, regardless of intent (eg. "All [group] are [trait]")
- Individuals without fluency disorders saying they stutter
- Insults against Christianity or religion in general
- Theistic/atheistic views being forced on others
- The medical model of disability