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Actual sex can be very difficult and feel like a job, and even if it is somewhat enjoyable, it doesn't compare to the expectation. One can desire sex with someone if they have an idea of it at a distance, but in front of that individual, that desire is gone. It doesn't depend on reciprocity of others, only on the presence of others. One is capable of gaining some sexual attraction even during sex if dissociating strongly (blindfolded+deafened+etc.) or experiencing kinks and trying to ignore the individual next to oneself. |
Actual sex can be very difficult and feel like a job, and even if it is somewhat enjoyable, it doesn't compare to the expectation. One can desire sex with someone if they have an idea of it at a distance, but in front of that individual, that desire is gone. It doesn't depend on reciprocity of others, only on the presence of others. One is capable of gaining some sexual attraction even during sex if dissociating strongly (blindfolded+deafened+etc.) or experiencing kinks and trying to ignore the individual next to oneself. |
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Random short sexual attraction, sexual desire or libido spikes next to another |
Random short sexual attraction, sexual desire or libido spikes next to another individual are possible but extremely fleeting. Indirect sexual acts like masturbation also get much harder in the presence of anyone. |
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Adexsexuality is not a result of trauma (primarily), but of such inborn brain wiring, that |
Adexsexuality is not a result of trauma (primarily), but of such inborn brain wiring, that the presence of others activates the neural circuits that suppress the neural circuits of sexual attraction. The loss of attraction does not feel disruptive/traumatic (primarily), but instead smooth and quick. |
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The [[Romantic Attraction|romantic]]/[[Aesthetic Attraction|aesthetic]]/[[Sensual Attraction|sensual]]/[[Platonic Attraction|platonic]] equvalents are adexromantic/adexaesthetic/adexsensual/adexplatonic. |
The [[Romantic Attraction|romantic]]/[[Aesthetic Attraction|aesthetic]]/[[Sensual Attraction|sensual]]/[[Platonic Attraction|platonic]] equvalents are adexromantic/adexaesthetic/adexsensual/adexplatonic. |