Vennijgender is a gender relating to the feeling of being queer/queerness, but being unable to find a correct label for oneself, because everytime one fits, one's gender suddenly changes. This can be because of dysphoria, anxiety/OCD, or just having a fluid gender. One does not pick their gender, but their opinions can have some influence on what their gender becomes next. The gender is always changing.
History
The term was coined by Local.Tea.Cat on October 4, 2021.
Flag
The alternate flag was made by Tumblr user felix-makes-flags on December 21st, 2021.[1]