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Welcome

Hello. Welcome to my profile page.

I'm helping to run and organise the Black Stripe Asexuality related stuff and some a-spec micro-labels.

Feel free to say hi, ask questions, or hang out with us on AVEN here --> https://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/216614-black-stripe-asexuals-hangout-thread/?tab=comments#comment-1064330301

Info About Me

My name is Andy, so that's what I go by on here and in real life.

Pronouns: none or sun/suns/sunself (it/itself can also be used but is the least preferred of these options)

Note: any pronouns you might use outside of these (which represent my base gender) may activate my sentiogender (which is activated by others' perception of my gender). I don't mind when people activate it but this is just to let you know.

Coming Out Info

I'm out as asexual and aromantic irl. I have told my close friends about my pronouns and one friend about my gender.

Appearance

I'm very self-conscious and don't super like how I look. I'm around 5"4, short brown hair and brown eyes.

Gender

Essentially, I am librafeminine (mostly agender) when I am on my own/unperceived. With other people, I can be any gender, depending on how my gender is perceived by them, but it mostly presents as female/girl/binarian.

Terms:

librafeminine / neutrois / faesari (my base/static gender)

condigender (condilibrafeminine)

genderfluid

demifluid

centrgender

Sexuality

I'm asexual and ID as aromantic most of the time. My relationship with romantic attraction and relationships is complicated, so I'm not a Green Stripe Aromantic.

Terms:

Alternate personalities (not a system)

So sometimes when my depres. ion gets really bad or I just want a break from being me I put on different personalities. It is a bit strange but it is one of my coping mechanisms and helps me with motivation/doing actions. They shouldn't come onto the wiki, but in case they do, these are the main ones:

Magnus:

Pronouns: he/him

Sexuality: gay

Gender: male

Anna:

Pronouns: she/her

Sexuality: sapphic

Gender: female

Trigger List

Please don't mention these topics to me at all, since they can cause my mind to spiral:

suicide (specific or unspecific)
self-harm (specific or unspecific)
eating disorders/disordered behaviours/body-shaming/comments on people's bodies
people being "selfish", people being "callous", venting about people who ghost or who self-isolate
imposter syndrome
people faking mental illnesses, people faking genders/sexualities
aroace exclusion, trans exclusion, neopronouns being "silly" or "harmful"

If you're going to mention this to me, give me some warning:

friends losing touch/relationships falling apart
far-right political stuff
nihilism/anhedonia/existential dread
people being too young/too naive to decide something about their own life
injuries, pain, brushing off pain, brushing off not eating
kink-shaming

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+== '''Alternate personalities (not a system)''' ==
-So sometimes when my depression gets really bad or I just want a break from being me I put on different personalities. It is a bit strange but it is one of my coping mechanisms and helps me with motivation/doing actions. They shouldn't come onto the wiki, but in case they do, these are the main ones:
+So sometimes when my depres. ion gets really bad or I just want a break from being me I put on different personalities. It is a bit strange but it is one of my coping mechanisms and helps me with motivation/doing actions. They shouldn't come onto the wiki, but in case they do, these are the main ones:
 Magnus:
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 Gender: female
+== '''Trigger List''' ==
+Please don't mention these topics to me at all, since they can cause my mind to spiral:
+* suicide (specific or unspecific)
+* self-harm (specific or unspecific)
+* eating disorders/disordered behaviours/body-shaming/comments on people's bodies
+* people being "selfish", people being "callous", venting about people who ghost or who self-isolate
+* imposter syndrome
+* people faking mental illnesses, people faking genders/sexualities
+* aroace exclusion, trans exclusion, neopronouns being "silly" or "harmful"
+If you're going to mention this to me, give me some warning:
+* friends losing touch/relationships falling apart
+* far-right political stuff
+* nihilism/anhedonia/existential dread
+* people being too young/too naive to decide something about their own life
+* injuries, pain, brushing off pain, brushing off not eating
+* kink-shaming