* '''General terms:''' person, human; folk/folklen; system, plural; queer, trans, non-binary/enby.

* '''System member terms:''' system member/member, headmate, sysmember; alter (if you're a singlet, we'd prefer that you don't call us this).

* '''Gendered language:''' neutral terms are preferred. Feminine-leaning terms are okay sometimes, though we prefer they were only used by those who know us well/that folk ask us before using them. We would prefer not to be referred to as a "girl".

* '''Tone indicators:''' preferred.

* '''Compliments:''' yes.

*'''Flirting:''' no.