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[[File:Tutelary.png|thumb|220x220px|The tutelary attraction flag.]]
'''Tutelary Attraction''', also known as '''Protective''' '''Attraction''' or '''Dominant''' '''Attraction''', is a form of [[Tertiary Attraction|tertiary attraction]] that revolves around a strong desire to take care, protect, and support a certain person. It is the counterpart and opposite of [[Cedural Attraction|cedural attraction]]. With tutelary [[attraction]] when one sees someone in a sad or defenseless situation one feels not just sympathy but also a sense of attraction that gets them involved with that person and their needs. It is also based on a feeling of feeling needed or necessary. This is the attraction one might feel towards a child, younger sibling, a pet, or a vulnerable person one is favorably disposed toward.<ref>https://herway.net/love/10-types-of-attraction-and-their-meanings-explained/</ref><ref>https://www.healthline.com/health/types-of-attraction</ref><ref>https://www.regain.us/advice/attraction/what-are-the-different-types-of-attraction-and-what-do-they-mean/</ref><ref>https://trendtoreview.com/10-different-types-of-attraction/</ref><ref>https://psych2go.net/6-types-of-attraction-which-one-are-you/</ref>
A relationship between protective and protected person can be labeled as guardianship, wardship, or tutelage. A person in that relationship who takes on the protective role could be called a comate, cherish, ward, or grace. A tutelary crush could be possibly be called a mush.
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This relationship should not be associated with DPD (dependent personality), protectors in systems (DID), or with BDSM and kink related power play sometimes seen in sexual/romantic relationships.
The [[system]] version is [[templatonic]].
== History ==
The concept of tutelary attraction was coined on December 23, 2014 on the Spanish language version of AVEN by the user Arya<ref>
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