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[[File:Nocismasexual Alt Flag 2.png|thumb|Alternate flag by akoimiz on Tumblr.]] |
[[File:Nocismasexual Alt Flag 2.png|thumb|Alternate flag by akoimiz on Tumblr.]] |
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[[File:Nocisma.png|thumb|Nocismasexual flag by Rainbowcoric on Tumblr.]] |
[[File:Nocisma.png|thumb|Nocismasexual flag by Rainbowcoric on Tumblr.]] |
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'''Nocismasexual''' is the attraction to all genders, except, either: A) One's attraction to men fades once it is known someone is a [[cisgender]] man. B) One does not feel attraction to men until it is known that the man in question is not cisgender, or C) One chooses not to date cisgender men/chooses not to date men unless they know the man in question is not cis. |
'''Nocismasexual''' also called '''Nesoic''' is the attraction to all genders, except, either: A) One's attraction to men fades once it is known someone is a [[cisgender]] man. B) One does not feel attraction to men until it is known that the man in question is not cisgender, or C) One chooses not to date cisgender men/chooses not to date men unless they know the man in question is not cis. |
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The term is used by [[transgender]], [[Non-Binary|non-binary]], or otherwise [[Cisn't|non-cis]] people who are not attracted to cis men or are unwilling to date cis men. The unwillingness to date cis men is ''not'' because there’s any inherent difference between cis and trans men, rather it stems from issues of safety, trauma, oppression, or other personal reasons. One may not want to be vulnerable to misconceptions, misgendering, or oppression from their partner. One may also prefer a trans partner because one would relate to them more. |
The term is used by [[transgender]], [[Non-Binary|non-binary]], or otherwise [[Cisn't|non-cis]] people who are not attracted to cis men or are unwilling to date cis men. The unwillingness to date cis men is ''not'' because there’s any inherent difference between cis and trans men, rather it stems from issues of safety, trauma, oppression, or other personal reasons. One may not want to be vulnerable to misconceptions, misgendering, or oppression from their partner. One may also prefer a trans partner because one would relate to them more. |
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== History == |
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It's unknown when the term was coin or by whom, but it existed at least before November 2016.<ref name=":0">https://beyond-mogai-pride-flags.tumblr.com/post/152787908310/nocismasexual-pride-flag</ref> |
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The alternate name, nesoic, was coined on February 8, 2018 by Tumblr user identity-workshop.<ref>http://archive.is/N31m9#selection-93.0-93.6</ref> It was named after a moon of Neptune, as it is considered a subtype of [[neptunic]]. |
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== Flag == |
== Flag == |
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The first nocismasexual flag was create on or before |
The first nocismasexual flag was create on or before November 5, 2016 by Mod Raleigh from pride-flags-for-us.<ref name=":0" /> No meaning was given for the flag.<ref>https://beyond-mogai-pride-flags.tumblr.com/post/153195885555/nocisma-pride-flags</ref> |
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The second, and most commonly seen nocismasexual flag was created by Mod Hermy from pride-color-schemes on June 7, 2017.<ref>https://www.deviantart.com/pride-flags/art/Nocisma-683412031?comment=1%3A683412031%3A4763735662&ga_changes=1&ga_submit_new=10%3A1497586384&ga_type=edit</ref> The blue being at the bottom represents discomfort/unwillingness to have a relationship with a cis man. The rest of the colors being represents how the person can be comfortable and fine with other genders/people. |
The second, and most commonly seen nocismasexual flag was created by Mod Hermy from pride-color-schemes on June 7, 2017.<ref>https://www.deviantart.com/pride-flags/art/Nocisma-683412031?comment=1%3A683412031%3A4763735662&ga_changes=1&ga_submit_new=10%3A1497586384&ga_type=edit</ref> The blue being at the bottom represents discomfort/unwillingness to have a relationship with a cis man. The rest of the colors being represents how the person can be comfortable and fine with other genders/people. |
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