Bihet (bi-hetero) or bistraight (bi straight) is a term describing an individual who is both bi and straight (hetero). This can include:
- Bi individuals who reclaim the term;
- Those who experience hetero attraction while attracted to more than one gender;
- Those who are attracted to multiple genders that are different from their own, such as penultisexual or differosexual;
- Varioriented and variangled individuals, such as biromantic heterosexuals, heteroromantic bisexuals, heteroplatonic bisensuals, biaesthetic heterosensuals, and other tertiary/eriattractions;
- Someone with a hetero-leaning bisexuality, such as heteroflexible;
- Bicurious or homocurious straights;
- Bi darcians (romeric bihets), bi bennetians (julietian bihets), and bi jaustenians (juleric bihets);
- Anyone else who feel comfortable using the term.
History
It was initially used as a derogatory slang among radfems directed at bisexual women in duaric relationships, who experience predominant heterosexual attraction, or prefer duaric relationships, implying they are less queer/LGBT+. The term is reclaimed by some, and also used as a specific descriptor of certain experiences of orientation and sexuality. However, the term should only be used if the person consents being identified as such.
Flags
A bihet flag was designed by Tumblr user femmebis on February 15, 2020.[1]
Tumblr user arco-pluris published three versions of bihet flag on March 30, 2019.[2]
Tumblr user asepride-archive posted a reclaimed bihet flag on January 1, 2021.[3]
On July 29, 2020, forestcoric-mogai-fox posted a bi straight flag, along with other mspec straight flags.[4]
Reddit user LoafuNoHomo posted on QueerVexillology on January 7, 2022 a flag for individuals who reclaim bihet.[5]
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Bi straight flag by forestcoric-mogai-fox
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Bihet flag by arco-pluris
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Bihet flag by ryky55
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Bihet flag by asepride-archive
References
- ↑ https://femmebis.tumblr.com/post/190847414747/introducing-the-bihet-flag-bihet-is-a-word
- ↑ https://arco-pluris.tumblr.com/post/183811971257/bihet-pride-flags-i-just-mixed-the-bi-flag-with
- ↑ https://asepride-archive.tumblr.com/post/639096923750612992/bihet-pride-context-this-is-not-for-biromantic
- ↑ https://www.tumblr.com/forestcoric-mogai-fox/624986738250629120/i-have-done-flags-for-m-spec-straights-because
- ↑ https://www.reddit.com/r/QueerVexillology/comments/ryky55/bihet_flags_i_wasnt_a_big_fan_of_the_other_ones/