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[[File:Adexsexual.png|alt=Inner crimson - internal sexuality. Outer purple - outer asexuality. Background dark rose - phantom sexuality.|thumb|The adexsexual flag.]] |
[[File:Adexsexual.png|alt=Inner crimson - internal sexuality. Outer purple - outer asexuality. Background dark rose - phantom sexuality.|thumb|The adexsexual flag.]] |
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'''Adexsexual''' is an [[Asexual Spectrum|ace-spec]] [[greysexual]] [[microlabel]] in which one has [[asexual]] experience when around others and can feel [[allosexual]] when alone. Adexsexuals find some individuals sexually attractive and arousing in the fantasy/idea of having sex with them oneself. It fades when actually focusing on them in real life, next to them. Focusing on the idea again or going away restores it. |
'''Adexsexual''' is an [[Asexual Spectrum|ace-spec]] [[greysexual]] [[microlabel]] in which one has [[asexual|asexual-like]] experience when around others and can feel [[allosexual]]-like when alone. Adexsexuals find some individuals sexually attractive and arousing in the fantasy/idea of having sex with them oneself. It fades when actually focusing on them in real life, next to them. Focusing on the idea again or going away restores it. |
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One is allo-ish when alone, and can fantasize/watch/read about sex in first-person and enjoy/want it. The more physically present/tangible the external partner becomes, the more ace- |
One is allo-ish when alone, and can fantasize/watch/read about sex in first-person and enjoy/want it. The more physically present/tangible the external partner becomes, the more ace-like one gets. Sexual attraction is naturally suppressed by the presence of individuals in real life, even those one fantasizes about. It is not suppressed by the presence of self, unlike in [[Aegosexual|aegosexuality]]. |
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Actual sex can be very difficult and feel like a job, and even if it is somewhat enjoyable, it doesn't compare to the expectation. One can desire sex with someone if they have an idea of it at a distance, but in front of that individual, that desire is gone. It doesn't depend on reciprocity of others, only on the presence of others. One is capable of being a bit allo-ish even during sex if dissociating strongly or experiencing kinks and trying to ignore the individual next to oneself. |
Actual sex can be very difficult and feel like a job, and even if it is somewhat enjoyable, it doesn't compare to the expectation. One can desire sex with someone if they have an idea of it at a distance, but in front of that individual, that desire is gone. It doesn't depend on reciprocity of others, only on the presence of others. One is capable of being a bit allo-ish even during sex if dissociating strongly or experiencing kinks and trying to ignore the individual next to oneself. |
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