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 [[File:Adexsexual.png|alt=Inner crimson - internal sexuality. Outer purple - outer asexuality. Background dark rose - phantom sexuality.|thumb|The adexsexual flag.]]
-'''Adexsexual''' is an [[Asexual Spectrum|ace-spec]] [[greysexual]] [[microlabel]] in which someone is internally [[allosexual]] but externally [[asexual]]. Adexsexuals find some individuals sexually attractive and arousing in the fantasy/idea of having sex with them oneself. It fades when actually focusing on them in real life, next to them. Focusing on the idea again or going away restores it.
+'''Adexsexual''' is an [[Asexual Spectrum|ace-spec]] [[greysexual]] [[microlabel]] in which one has [[asexual]] experience when around others and can feel [[allosexual]] when alone. Adexsexuals find some individuals sexually attractive and arousing in the fantasy/idea of having sex with them oneself. It fades when actually focusing on them in real life, next to them. Focusing on the idea again or going away restores it.
 One is allo-ish when alone, and can fantasize/watch/read about sex in first-person and enjoy/want it. The more physically present/tangible the external partner becomes, the more ace-ish one gets. Allosexuality is naturally suppressed by the presence of individuals in real life, even those one fantasizes about. It is not suppressed by the presence of self, unlike in [[Aegosexual|aegosexuality]].
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 Random short sexual attraction, sexual desire or libido spikes next to another person are possible but extremely fleeting. Indirect sexual acts like masturbation also get much harder in the presence of any person.
+Adexsexuality is not a result of trauma primarily, but of such brain wiring, that the presence of other people activates the neural circuits that suppress the neural circuits of sexual attraction. The loss of attraction does not feel disruptive/traumatic (primarity), but instead smooth and quick.
 The [[Romantic Attraction|romantic]]/[[Aesthetic Attraction|aesthetic]]/[[Sensual Attraction|sensual]]/[[Platonic Attraction|platonic]] equvalents are adexromantic/adexaesthetic/adexsensual/adexplatonic.