Please help

So recently bigender didn't fit me well. Including my sexuality and romantic attraction (pomosexual and panromantic). I'll start talking about my gender identity or just gender I suppose. 1 month ago I found out I "was" bigender (both Nixera and demipangender), but it didn't fit me well. So I decided to search some genders in the feminine genders category but they don't fit me well. Then I decided to go in the androgynous genders category. Still I didn't found my gender, I found some xenogenders that kinda fits me well but I really really wanna find my gender. So here's info about me, I'm sam. I used to be a demigirl then demifluid and then Qenon-fluid (a gender that I created) and now bigender. Those genders didn't really fit me well. I feel genderless but I also feel all genders , a huge amount of femininity and a little bit of masculinity. I'm AFAB. I use they/them and sam/salself. That's all about my gender. Now my sexuality and romantic attraction. I used to be pansexual, then pomosexual and my romantic attraction was just panromantic. I care about personality and if I date someone I feel like I lose sexual attraction to that person that I'm dating especially if it's a boy but it won't if it's a girl, now for my romantic attraction. I feel romantic attraction to everyone especially girls and enbys. That's all. I hope I find my gender, sexuality or my romantic attraction.