They want their own term. They aren't saying you are invalid (well the creator is, but they aren't the main focus of this page), they are just giving themselves a title. You can be lesbian, they can be Vixenamoric. They aren't saying you can't be you, they are just being themselves, whi,e letting you be yourself. I mean think about it. If these people don't think that people like you are a part of the community they are apart of, it is probably better they are distancing themselves from you because then there isn't hate inside the lesbian community from other lesbians. They aren't bothering you for being enby because they have their own title. Technically, it is a win win situation, as long as you don't take it the wrong way: enby lesbians get these people out of their hair, while these people get their own community. We can keep talking about this if you'd like, and if you do, I will make sure I am rational, but if you don't, then that's fine too.