For sometime now I've been so confused about what I am. the only way I take pleasure from sex is if I'm pleasing the other person. I used to think that maybe things would be different if I was a guy, but I realized that is not the case. I'm attracted to all genders and I've had intercourse with them; the feel never changed though (don't get me wrong I like have sex). I've always known that I fell somewhere under the ace spectrum, but I'm just so happy that I've finally found something that I identify as!