Reminder that he/him lesbians are not actually males. They are lesbians (more commonly butch lesbians) who are still woman-alligned but prefer to use he/him pronouns when feeling a disconnection from womanhood or even to protect themselves or their partner. He/him lesbians are not trans either. Pronouns do not equal gender, you can use whatever pronouns you feel suits you. I myself am a butch lesbian and use they/she, but he/him lesbians reading this, remember you are loved and are just as valid as the rest of us.