i'm really trying to understand this. i cant get past what's been considerded the 'norm' for me which is pronouns being gendered. isn't this why trans people feel dysphoric when people use the wrong pronouns? in my eyes, if you identify as a he/him, you are considerded a male to me weather you are cis or not. i respect pronouns completly, but i feel as if you identify as male with your pronouns and are attracted to women youre just straight in my eyes. can someone help me understand?