The way I see it there is nothing inherently gendered about a set of words. Trans people might also get dysphoric about wearing certain clothes, but that doesn't mean that clothes are inherently gendered. There are many different facets of gender and gender expression. But no one aspect can definatively prove that someone is some gender or not. For some people their gender expression related to their gender, for others their gender expression is "disconnected" from their gender, but that's how they're most comfortable.