Gayhet or straightgay describes someone who experience both gay and straight attraction(s) towards specific individual(s) or certain gender(s). It may be used to encompass both straightbian and straightdian experiences, along with straightlian.
Explanation
The term gayhet may be used to describe being both gay and straight for women, for example. This could be because the individual experiencing gayhet attraction is liaspec/lingender/androgyne, ambinary/ambigender, bigender/multigender, mesogender/mesobinary, genderfluid/aurorian, centrigender/centriversian, multiversian (such as eclipsian), etc.
Another way to describe gayhet is being a man with straight attraction to women and gay attraction to men, for example. This experience is common among binary equaric duaric pluralians (mspec people), but the individual isn't necessarily bisexual/biromantic, pansexual/panromantic, omnisexual/omniromantic, or ambisexual/ambiromantic.
It's similar to how queerhet is used, however it's specifically gay instead of queer. Queerhet may include transhet individuals.
Someone can also use gayhet to mean they are heteroromantic homosexual or homoromantic heterosexual.
Gai-strayt can be a form of being gayhet. Symmaic or simulsexual bennetian or darcian individuals are also included in gayhet identity.
History and Flag
The term gayhet and its flag were coined by Tumblr blog beyond-mogai-pride-flags on June 13, 2021.[1] Although it was also used in the tags for the gay hetero- flag on June 14, 2018 by the same blog.[2]
The straightgay flag was designed by Tumblr user neopronouns on May 28, 2022.[3]