Arretaroace is the combination of arretaromantic and arretasexual. An arretaroace individual feels sexual and romantic attraction, or stronger sexual and romantic attraction, to a individual who gives them attention. If another individual gives this individual new attention or more attention, the individuals attraction to the previous individual may fade or dull, and they will become more attracted to the new individual. If nobody is giving said individual consistent/constant attention, their attraction will fade completely, or may weakly remain until a individual gives them attention again. This identity could have been caused by trauma such as neglect, but it is not exclusive to these groups.
Arretaroace was coined along with arretaromantic and arretasexual by FANDOM user MentallyUnstableQueer on January 27th, 2020. Both the main and alternate arretaroace flags were designed by FANDOM user Reign of the breadsticcs on April 3, 2021.