Bordergender, alternatively known as borderfluid, is a fluctuating gender experienced exclusive to individuals with BPD. A gender identity lacking a firm grasp on one’s identity, while still experiencing gender, to varying degrees, but having trouble pinning it down to just one label or identity. Having the sense of grasping at labels as much as possible to describe a gender one keeps questioning because one keeps second guessing one’s sense of self and, consequentially, one’s sense of gender.
This gender can also be combined with the relevant genders (such as bordergirl, bordernonbinary, ect).
The original coiner of bordergender is unknown, however, it must have been coined before July 24th of 2016, as that is when the proposed flag redesign was made by tumblr user pride-color-schemes.