Potensexual

Potensexual is an orientation where someone is only feels sexual attraction to those who could potentially be attracted back to them by the definition of their orientation. For example; a potensexual pansexual woman is only attracted to another woman when she knows that the other woman is attracted to women (sapphic). The romantic equivalent is potenromantic.

Etymology
The prefix Poten- is from the word Potential, which describes the core aspect of potensexuality.