UserWiki:Meganium39

Hi there, fellow LGBTA Wiki user! I'm Meganium39, a genderfloretten high school student from the UK, and my goal is to help make LGBTA Wiki the best site it can be. I’m a mesosian-parasian median system who prefers to be seen as one entity made up of multiple individuals, with three named medianmates and at least two more unnamed ones.

Overall Identity/Blanket Self
Pronouns: He/they, crosspronominal

Race: White, with a mixed English and Irish background

Gender: Genderfloretten

Sexuality: Twainsexual

Sex: Müllerian, afabris, Sine-V2, IWHV

Gender presentation: Neutral-androgynous

Amoury: Monoflexible

Triggers (TW and CW for individuals reading)
My triggers aren’t as “extreme” as some other individuals’ triggers, but they are still an issue. An asterisk next to the trigger means it is also triggering to witness this happening to someone else, regardless of if it triggers them. Here are my triggers.

- Being shushed (including putting fingers to one’s lips)*

- Loud arguments*

- The sound of farting (especially when impersonated)

- Being shouted at (shouting from a distance so that I can hear is okay)*

- Puzzle pieces being used to represent autism (in some contexts)

- Slamming of doors

- Climate change

- Animals struggling/bleeding/choking

- Being trapped in a room (metaphorically or literally)*

- Allistic individuals dehumanising/talking down to autistic individuals*

- Punishing individuals who stim or fidget (in the context of school)*

- Inferring hidden meanings in texts (in the context of school)

- Drowning*

- Most jumpscares

- Being forced to do things against my will*

Don’t Interact If
Please don’t interact with me if you…

- Are against any good faith queer identities, including xenogenders, fluid genders and neurogenders.

- Are a transmedicalist.

- Believe paraphilias should be counted as LGBT+ and/or MOGAI

- Are against certain neurodivergent and disabled individuals being exempt from wearing face coverings.

- Are kin/fictive to any character from The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time, as misuse of the book has caused me a lot of issues recently.

- Are dedicatedly and extremely affiliated with republicanism or any other far-right political ideology.

- Are an extremist of any religion (I support religious folk in general, but not those who try and force me into becoming religious as well).

- Believe autism is a disorder and needs a cure.

- Believe autism is caused by vaccines, or anything other than genetics.

- Fake neurodivergency or disability for attention or money.

- Think trans women should not compete in women’s sports, use women’s spaces, etc.

- Think trans men should not compete in men’s sports, use men’s spaces, etc.

- Think non-binary individuals should not use any gendered bathrooms, sports, etc. if they so desire; or try and force non-binary individuals to “pick a side” of the gender binary.

- Hold harmful or incorrect stereotypes about queer people (e.g. all gay men are feminine, transgender women are just cis males trying to attack cis women).

- Reclaim slurs you have no right to reclaim, or are against others reclaiming slurs rightfully.

- Deliberately misgender individuals whose preferred pronouns, title, etc. you know.

- Deliberately deadname individuals whose preferred name you know.

- Discriminate against systems. This includes but is not limited to: seeing plurality as a disorder and nothing else; pressuring systems into pretending to be singlets; and believing that plurality needs a ‘cure’.

- Believe that all individuals with neurodivergence are faking it for attention, or believing that one needs their neurodivergence officially diagnosed to be valid.

- Blame people with swear words/other offensive gestures as tics for having those tics, or assuming that offensive things said by an individual with tics are an accurate reflection of their ideology/true opinions.

- Reject certain orientations (such as fraysexual) on the grounds that they are ‘just normal’; or that they are ‘unnatural’, ‘unhealthy’, or ‘not real’ (such as objectum).

Neurodivergence
I have...

- Diagnosed autism

- Diagnosed PTSD

- Suspected ADHD

- Suspected tic disorder

- Possible dyspraxia

- Possible OSDD-1b

Gender
The main label I use is genderfloretten, but I don’t feel capable of experiencing any non-binary gender. For example, I have only experienced anthrogenders. Here are the genders I tend to experience most often.

- Demigirl

- Maverique

- Genderless

- Libramasculine

- An androgynous gender, possibly irrituandrogynous, blankandrogyne or maybe even (demi)pangender.

My gender usually changes daily, but often it shifts more frequently and sometimes it’s stagnant for several days. My pronouns are always they/them/theirs and he/him/his; but my preference shifts depending on my current identity (he when I am libramasculine or genderless, they when I am a demigirl, and no preference when I am maverique or androgynous.) I suspect this is linked to my partial systemhood.

Labels
I use a few labels to describe myself, not counting ones that merely describe what I am (for example, genderfloretten wouldn’t be here). An asterisk next to a label means only some of my personalities use it, or that I’m not sure whether I want to use it or not. This is my list of labels.

- Ace

- Aroace

- Autist

- Cisn’t

- Demihuman

- Enban

- Enby

- Guy*

- Person

- Queer

- Rabies Pride*

- Trans

- Voidpunk*

Attraction
Note: This section will not include attraction types I do not experience, with a few/if any exceptions.

Sexual orientation
I am demisexual and omnisexual, but mostly uranic. I am mostly sexually attracted to autistic individuals because I would find them more relatable, as well as due to my trauma.

Romantic orientation
I'm still questioning, but leaning towards complete aromanticism, possibly also apothiromanticism.

Platonic orientation
Panplatonic. Gender does not play a role in this one at all. I am mostly platonically attracted to autistic individuals because I would find them more relatable, as well as due to my trauma.

Queerplatonic orientation
I'm still questioning, but am experimenting with terms like aqpspike, aqpflux, and aqp-jump. I also think I'm trixenqueerplatonic. I am mostly queerplatonically attracted to autistic individuals because I would find them more relatable, as well as due to my trauma.

Aesthetic orientation
Panaesthetic. Gender does not play a role in this one at all.

Plurality
Note: ''I refer to myself as both I/me/mine and we/us/ours. This page mainly uses I, but this section sometimes uses us for grammatical clarity when referring to the body as containing multiple individuals.''

I identify as a traumagenic plural-singlet (PS) and median system, with the possibility of becoming a full system. I have often noticeable personality switches around one to five times an hour and occasional instances of mild dissociative amnesia where I lose track of what I was doing and need to be reminded.

I have a set group of 5+ medianmates. So far I’ve been able to identify several of them based on their personality alone (some are very introverted and others ambiverts). They don’t really have their own bodies, more their own vision of our shared body, and largely shared memories. Four of them have names (Artudette, Luka, Indigo and Green) but there are several more that do not have names yet.

Luka
Luka is one of three named medianmates. They tend to be more chipper than the others.

Pronouns: He/him, ze/zem, xe/xem, they/them

Race: White

Gender: Maverique

Sexuality: Unknown, possibly greysexual, fraysexual, and/or uranic

Sex: Unknown, does not have breasts (may be neisex)

Gender presentation: Masculine-neutral

System Role: Possibly the host

Amoury: Monoflexible

Age: Around 17

Artudette
Artudette shares her name with the orientation but they do not identify with the orientation or its flag. She merely took faer name from it.

Pronouns: They/them, she/her, fae/faer; he/him (auxiliary pronouns)

Race: White

Gender: Girlflux, rarely a binary woman

Sexuality: Unknown

Sex: Müllerian, IWHV

Gender presentation: Feminine

System Role: Possibly a gatekeeper

Amoury: Monoflexible

Age: Unknown

Green
Green is the third medianmate who has a name.

Pronouns: He/him; they/them (auxiliary pronouns)

Race: BIPOC

Gender: Libramasculine

Sexuality: Unknown, possibly Apothisexual

Sex: Wolffian, IWHP

Gender presentation: Masculine-androgynous

System Role: Avenger, trauma holder

Amoury: Either Monoflexible or nonamorous

Age: 15

Indigo/FJ
Indigo is the core/host/shell of the group, but they don’t front on their own that often. They are more introverted than most other medianmates.

Pronouns: They/them

Race: White

Gender: Agender

Sexuality: Omnisexual

Sex: Unknown (IWHV)

Gender presentation: Neutral

System Role: Shell, core, possibly the host

Amoury: Monoflexible

Age: 13

Autumn
Pronouns: Any (but they/them is preferred)

Race: White

Gender: Eclipsian

Sexuality: Unknown but likely Graysexual

Sex: Unknown (IWHV)

Gender presentation: Feminine-Neutral

System Role: Unknown

Amoury: Monoflexible

Age: 13-14

Kintype
I am an otherhearted demihuman. I feel around 1/4 cat. I still use labels such as “person”, but only refer to myself as “human” in the context of my body.

Interests
- Pokémon

- Super Mario (particularly the Mario Kart, Yoshi’s Island and Super Mario Galaxy games)

- Animal Crossing (including the games before New Horizons)

- Houseplants and indoor gardening

Terms I coined
Irritugender and irrituflux

Neutragynx

Neutrandrox

Notes/misc
/uil (applies to whole page)