Potenromantic

Potenromantic is an orientation where someone only feels romantic attraction to those who could potentially be attracted back to them by the definition of their orientation. For example; a potenromantic homoromantic woman is only attracted to another woman when she knows that she is WLW. The sexual equivalent is potensexual.

Etymology
The prefix Poten- is from the word potential, which describes the core aspect of potenromanticism.