Nesgender

Nesgender is a gender identity where one feels an overall disconnect from gender, but still uses gender labels that feel fit the best

flag
The grey gradient is to represent the overall disconnect from gender, with the two small “gender” lines in between to show that while one uses this gender label, they don’t actually connect with it

etymology
Nes- from the russian word nesmotrya, meaning despite. Can be used as nesboy, nesgirl, nesfem, or just paired with your other label, example "nesgender genderflux"