Potensexual

Potensexual is an orientation where someone is only feels sexual attraction to those who could potentially be attracted back by definition of their orientation. Such as; a pansexual woman only being attracted to another woman when she knows that the other woman is WLW. Potenromantic is when someone only feels romantic attraction to those who could potentially be attracted back by definition of their romantic orientation.

Etymology
The prefix Poten- is from the word Potential, which describes the core aspect of Potensexuality.