User:Deadrummer

Usually goes by

 * Cis
 * Bi(-Aro)

Gender

 * afab
 * casslibrafeminine
 * transn't
 * cisn't

Pronouns:

 * any
 * preferred:
 * she/her
 * he/him
 * they/them
 * it/its

Being cassgender I'm also pronoun indifferent and I even like using "it" and having "it" used on me because it emphasizes the person regardless of any gender.

I don't identify myself as transgender, because I'm mostly without feeling a gender, and the gender I do feel is my agab. Similarily I don't identify as non-binary.

I know I do fall under the non-binary and trans* umbrellas and am not exactly cis. However, I feel calling myself cis is close enough for most everyday settings and is the easiest way to refer to me when specifics don't matter and I'm not asked about it. For transgender I don't feel my experience of being non-cisgender is relevant enough especially since I hardly ever experience gender dysphoria or euphoria. The times when I do are mostly when it comes to sexism.

Therefore, for all intents and purposes and with all due respect, I don't care what you think my gender is, should be or what pronouns you think I shoud use. Just be respectful as you should always be anyway. :)

Sex

 * afab
 * Altersex - Transsex
 * Salmacian - AFAB-P

It always felt right to imagen/pretend to have a penis as far back as I can remember. When I started puberty I found myself wishing to "grow" a penis and grew sad, upset and even straight up hate- and resentful towards my body for obviously not doing so.

Apparently though I dissociated this feeling so well for years that I didn't even remember it or for example the fact I pretended to have a penis when I was around 6yo. It seems obvious now, but that was a time when one was either male or female and being binary trans was the most that was accepted. Until a couple months ago, when some memories resurfaced and prompted me to look into it. Finally I found the term salmacian (maybe AFAB-P) to finally not think I'm a freak for feeling like my body is somehow wrong but not traditionally binary.

Sexual :

 * Bigensexual:
 * Bisexual
 * Gensexual

Other labels


 * Pansexual (regardless of gender)
 * Binsexual (only attracted to either male or female)

Attracted to male and female bodies/physical-/sex traits regardless of the persons gender- or sexidentity.

Sensual :

 * Pansensual

Romantic :

 * Aromantic
 * Apothiromantic
 * romance-averse/repulsed

I don't fall in love and don't want anything to do with romance. I can usually deal with other peoples romancing.

Platonic :

 * Questioning
 * Quoiplatonic
 * Panplatonic
 * Greyplatonic
 * Aplatonic

Relationships

 * currently in a monogamous (onesided-romantic) relationship


 * ENM
 * Polyaffectionate
 * open to a closed Polycule/Polyfidelity
 * open to Hierachical Poly
 * open to Solo-Poly

See also Polyamorous