User:Cindergeist

Cindergeist is a FANDOM user who primarily lurks on the lgbta wiki. Other names that xe will answer to are Cinge, Cinder, and Geist. Cindergeist uses the xe/xem/xyr pronoun set and identifies as queer, aroace, non-binary, nan0flux. Currently exploring the possibility of experiencing and unspecified xenogender. Xe is an adult and likely older than the majority of users of the wiki.

About
Cindergeist began exploring xyr gender and sexuality after leaving home for university. Xe is a writer of prose and poetry, often blending the two genres into a singular new style. Xe has also briefly studied playing the violin, flute, bassoon, and french horn and plans to return to studying the violin in the recent future. As a hobby, xe likes to make digital art and continues seeking new techniques to improve xyr craft.

Xe is alterhuman and considers xemself as a member of the otherkin and fictionkin communities. While not prominent in the communities overall, Cindergeist has kept track of resources and information and is willing to provide assistance or answer questions regarding the experience.

History
Cindergeist was raised in an environment that could be described as conservatively liberal. One could express oneself to a degree, yet was expected to conform to the standards of overarching cisheteronormative society. As a result, xe was unable to explore xyr identity in a meaningful way until leaving the homestead and attending university where freedom of expression was encouraged.

Xe has previously identified as cisgender, agender, genderfluid, magigender, pansexual, and demisexual. However, with each previous exploration, xe found the terms lacking in the personal truth xe longed for. It took years for xem came to terms with xyr asexuality and aromanticism to feel confident engaging with the community. Cindergeist proudly owns a black ring. Another few years passed while still figuring out xyr gender, a friend of Cindergeist found and provided the term nan0gender, specifically nan0flux based on the the conversations the two held.

Cindergeist previously used she/her, they/them, and he/him pronouns.