UserWiki:Meganium39

Hi there, fellow LGBTA Wiki user! We are a median system collectively known as The Midtones, or by our username Meganium39. We are at secondary school in the UK.

Overall Identity/Blanket Self
Pronouns: He/they, crosspronominal

Race: White, with a mixed English and Irish background

Gender: Genderfloretten

Sexuality: Twainsexual

Sex: Müllerian, afabris, Sine-V2, IWHV

Gender presentation: Neutral-androgynous

Amoury: Monoflexible

Triggers (TW and CW for individuals reading)
Our triggers aren’t as “extreme” as some other individuals’ triggers, but they are still an issue. An asterisk next to the trigger means it is also triggering to witness this happening to someone else, regardless of if it triggers them. Here are my triggers.

- Being shushed (including putting fingers to one’s lips)*

- Loud arguments*

- The sound of farting (especially when impersonated)

- Being shouted at (shouting from a distance so that I can hear is okay)*

- Puzzle pieces being used to represent autism (in some contexts)

- Slamming of doors

- Climate change

- Animals struggling/bleeding/choking

- Being trapped in a room (metaphorically or literally)*

- Allistic individuals dehumanising/talking down to autistic individuals*

- Punishing individuals who stim or fidget (in the context of school)*

- Inferring hidden meanings in texts (in the context of school)

- Drowning*

- Being forced to do things against my will*

Don’t Interact If
Please don’t interact with us if you…

- Are against any good faith queer identities, including xenogenders, fluid genders and neurogenders.

- Are a transmedicalist.

- Believe paraphilias should be counted as LGBT+ and/or MOGAI

- Are against certain neurodivergent and disabled individuals being exempt from wearing face coverings.

- Are dedicatedly and extremely affiliated with republicanism or any other far-right political ideology.

- Are an extremist of any religion (I support religious folk in general, but not those who try and force me into becoming religious as well).

- Believe autism is a disorder and needs a cure.

- Believe autism is caused by vaccines, or anything other than genetics.

- Fake neurodivergency or disability for attention or money.

- Think trans women should not compete in women’s sports, use women’s spaces, etc.

- Think trans men should not compete in men’s sports, use men’s spaces, etc.

- Think non-binary individuals should not use any gendered bathrooms, sports, etc. if they so desire; or try and force non-binary individuals to “pick a side” of the gender binary.

- Hold harmful or incorrect stereotypes about queer people (e.g. all gay men are feminine, transgender women are just cis males trying to attack cis women).

- Reclaim slurs you have no right to reclaim, or are against others reclaiming slurs rightfully.

- Deliberately misgender individuals whose preferred pronouns, title, etc. you know.

- Deliberately deadname individuals whose preferred name you know.

- Discriminate against systems. This includes but is not limited to: seeing plurality as a disorder and nothing else; pressuring systems into pretending to be singlets; and believing that plurality needs a ‘cure’.

- Believe that all individuals with neurodivergence are faking it for attention, or believing that one needs their neurodivergence officially diagnosed to be valid.

- Blame people with swear words/other offensive gestures as tics for having those tics, or assuming that offensive things said by an individual with tics are an accurate reflection of their ideology/true opinions.

- Reject certain orientations (such as fraysexual) on the grounds that they are ‘just normal’; or that they are ‘unnatural’, ‘unhealthy’, or ‘not real’ (such as objectum).

Neurodivergence
I have...

- Diagnosed autism

- Diagnosed PTSD

- Suspected ADHD

Labels
We use a few labels to describe ourself, not counting ones that merely describe what we are (for example, ace-spec wouldn’t be here). An asterisk next to a label means only some of our alters use it, or that we’m not sure whether we want to use it or not. This is our list of labels.

- Alter (we like to have our facets/headmates referred to as alters)

- Ace

- Aroace

- Autist

- Cisn’t

- Demihuman

- Enban

- Enby

- Guy*

- Person

- Queer

- Rabies Pride*

- Trans

- Voidpunk*

Attraction
Note: This section will not include attraction types we do not experience, with a few/if any exceptions.

Sexual orientation
I am demisexual and omnisexual, but mostly uranic. I am mostly sexually attracted to autistic individuals because I would find them more relatable, as well as due to my trauma.

Romantic orientation
I'm still questioning, but leaning towards complete aromanticism, possibly also apothiromanticism.

Platonic orientation
Panplatonic. Gender does not play a role in this one at all. I am mostly platonically attracted to autistic individuals because I would find them more relatable, as well as due to my trauma.

Queerplatonic orientation
I'm still questioning, but am experimenting with terms like aqpspike, aqpflux, and aqp-jump. I also think I'm trixenqueerplatonic. I am mostly queerplatonically attracted to autistic individuals because I would find them more relatable, as well as due to my trauma.

Aesthetic orientation
Panaesthetic. Gender does not play a role in this one at all.

Plurality
We are a neurotraumagenic median system who previously used the label (and sometimes describes themself as) a plural singlet. We’ll sometimes refer to ourselves as ‘I’ but always acknowledge our plurality. We prefer to have members of our group described as ‘alters’ (even though it’s usually a medical term for dissociated headmates in DID/OSDD-1, that’s what we feel comfortable with).

Some important facts about our median system are…

- Our system name is The Midtones. Our blanket self/overall identity has a name, the one we use in real life, but we have withheld it to protect our privacy.

- We are neurotraumagenic and stressgenic.

- We only experience emotional amnesia. We have never experienced an alter coming to in our body with no memory of what came before.

- While we do dissociate, this doesn’t happen every time we switch. Dissociation for us usually results in a switch, but most of the time a switch won’t cause dissociation.

- Nobody that knows us in real life knows we are plural; we’re okay with being seen as a singlet. We see our ‘singletsona’ as the identity we all share as belonging to our body.

- Indigo, Autumn and Ash are much less differentiated from each other than the rest of the system.

Luka
Pronouns: He/him, ze/zem, xe/xem, they/them

Race: White

Gender: Maverique

Sex: Unknown (may be neisex)

Gender presentation: Masculine-neutral

System Role: Fixkeeper

Age:  Around 17

Artudette
Artudette shares her name with the orientation but they do not identify with the orientation or its flag. She merely took faer name from it.

Pronouns: They/them, she/her, fae/faer; he/him (auxiliary pronouns)

Race: White

Gender: Transfeminine, neofeminine neogirlflux

Sex: Wolffian, innsex, IWHV

Gender presentation: Feminine

Age: Around 19

Green
Green protects us by switching in to ‘absorb’ strong emotions, but can be violent toward other individuals.

Pronouns: He/him; they/them (auxiliary pronouns)

Race: BIPOC

Gender: Libramasculine

Sex: Wolffian, IWHP

Gender presentation: Masculine-androgynous

System Role: Janusian, avenger

Age: Around 15

Indigo
Pronouns: They/them

Race: White

Gender: Eclipsian

Sex: Unknown (IWHV)

Gender presentation: Neutral

Age: Around 15

Autumn
Autumn is the only otherkin alter, identifying as around half cat.

Pronouns: Any (but they/them is preferred)

Race: White

Gender: Greygender

Sex: Unknown (IWHV)

Gender presentation: Feminine-Neutral

Age: Around 13

Ash
Ash handles a lot of everyday living such as school.

Pronouns: They/them, it/its, he/him

Race: White

Gender: Questioning

Sex: Unknown

Gender presentation: Androgynous

Age: Around 16

Hallie
Hallie is a new/newly discovered alter, and we don’t know much about them yet.

Pronouns: They/them, she/her; he/him (auxiliary pronouns)

Race: White-American

Gender: Neutremme I think?

Age: Under 16

(name withheld for personal reasons)
This alter is/represents our pre-plural self from around the age we first split. She has little memory of what happened to us after our initial trauma (which is what we think caused us to become plural). Pronouns: They/them, she/her; he/him (auxiliary pronouns)

Race: White

Gender: Caedofeminine

Sex: Mullerian, IWHV (prepubescent)

Gender presentation: Feminine

System Role: Original, trauma holder

Age: Ageless (little)

Interests
- Pokémon

- Super Mario (particularly the Mario Kart, Yoshi’s Island and Super Mario Galaxy games)

- Animal Crossing (including the games before New Horizons)

- Houseplants and indoor gardening

Terms we coined
Irritugender and irrituflux

Neutragynx

Neutrandrox