Nonrecipestosexual

Nonrecipestosexual is an ace-spec identity where one's attraction to someone disappears after finding out they do not reciprocate those feelings, but over time the attraction fades back, even if one knows the individual still does not feel the same way about them.

For example, A is attracted to B. B makes it clear to A that they do not like them back. Therefore, A's attraction to B disappears. Over time, even though A knows B is still not attracted to them, A's attraction to B fades back, and A is now attracted to B again. This attraction may or may not disappear again.

The romantic version is nonrecipestoromantic.

History
This term was coined by FANDOM user ThatAnnoyingDemigirl on the 24th of July 2021. This page is the source of the coining.

Etymology
Nonrecip- comes from French "non réciproque", meaning "not reciprocated". -esto comes from French "estomper", meaning "to fade away".