Proxyromantic

Proxyromantic is a form of romantic attraction in which a person has a connection with a romantic identity, or with the concept of romantic identities, but either does not have the will or the ability to figure that romantic identity out for themselves.

Proxyromantic could also be considered a microlabel under the term Quoiromantic, the main difference being that one does feel as if they have a romantic identity and understand the concept of romantic attraction, though they don't have the will or ability to find it out.

The counterpart to Proxyromantic for sexual orientations is Proxysexual.

Creation and Flag
The term Proxyromantic was coined on June 8th, 2021 by discord user Luwuna#3632, and it's flag was made by an anonymous discord user. The pink, blue, and purple stripes on the flag represent romantic attraction to male, female, and non-binary genders, the grey represents the uncertainty in those attractions, and the green stripes represent possible aromanticism. The stripes on the flag fade slightly to represent varying levels of attraction to those genders.