Valengender

Valengender is a aesthetigender in which ones gender is tied to Valentines day, romance, romantic activity, romantic aesthetics, valentines day aesthetics, and/or any valentines day aesthetics that differ from the typical romantic or love expectation. Anyone could use this term, whether or not they experience romantic attraction, so long as they feel a deep gendered connection to romance, love, and/or Valentines day. This term has multiple definitions.

The first definition is a mutogender that only is felt during Valentines day, marriage/dating anniversaries, while watching romantic or love TV, while reading romantic/love stories, or when in a romantic/love aesthetic, or anything non-romantic relating to Valentines Day. It may be attracted to all of these romantic or non-romantic aesthetics/days/situations, only a few of them, or only one of them, depending on the individual.

The second definition is a gender that 'turns on' and 'turns off' when one is around romantic/love settings. For example, a valenby may find romantic/love anime to be their 'trigger,' and they may remain feeling non-binary until they watch a romantic/love anime once again.

The third definition is a gender that fluctuates or changes when in a romantic/loving setting.

The fourth and final definition is a xenogender that feels romantic, loving, passionate, flirtatious, or adoring. It may feel this way all the time, or it may only feel this way during Valentines day or other romantic/love situations, or non-romantic situations relating to Valentines day.

Valengender does not have to be in a romantic context or have any love context if one feels as it has nothing to do with those things, as Valentines Day is not just a romantic day or solely for romantic or love things.

History
Valengender was coined on February 14th of 2021 by Cryptocrew in order to describe their headmate Ruthie's experience.

Flag
The valengender flag was coined on February 14th of 2021 by Cryptocrew. The shades of purple represent kindness and respect, the white represents beauty and purity, the pink represents love, and the shades of red represents romance.