UserWiki:Meganium39

Triggers (TW and CW for individuals reading)
Our triggers aren’t as “extreme” as some other individuals’ triggers and they don’t always trigger us all the time. An asterisk next to the trigger means it is also triggering to witness this happening to someone else, regardless of if it triggers them. Here are our triggers.

- Being shushed (including putting fingers to one’s lips)*

- Loud arguments*

- The sound of farting (especially when impersonated)

- Discipline in the military, armies in general

- Being shouted at (shouting from a distance so that I can hear is okay)*

- Puzzle pieces being used to represent autism (in some contexts)

- Slamming of doors

- Climate change

- Animals struggling/bleeding/choking

- Being trapped in a room (metaphorically or literally)*

- Allistic individuals dehumanising/talking down to autistic individuals*

- Punishing individuals who stim or fidget (in the context of school)*

- Inferring hidden meanings in texts (in the context of school)

- Drowning*

- Being forced to do things against my will*

Don’t Interact If
Please don’t interact with us if you…

- Are against any good faith queer identities, including xenogenders, fluid genders and neurogenders.

- Are a transmedicalist.

- Believe paraphilias should be counted as LGBT+ and/or MOGAI.

- Are against certain neurodivergent and disabled individuals being exempt from wearing face coverings.

- Are dedicatedly and extremely affiliated with republicanism or any other far-right political ideology.

- Are an extremist of any religion (I support religious folk in general, but not those who try and force me into becoming religious as well).

- Believe autism is a disorder and needs a cure.

- Believe autism is caused by vaccines, or anything other than genetics.

- Fake neurodivergency or disability for attention or money.

- Think trans women should not compete in women’s sports, use women’s spaces, etc.

- Think trans men should not compete in men’s sports, use men’s spaces, etc.

- Think non-binary individuals should not use any gendered bathrooms, sports, etc. if they so desire; or try and force non-binary individuals to “pick a side” of the gender binary.

- Hold harmful or incorrect stereotypes about queer people (e.g. all gay men are feminine, transgender women are just cis males trying to attack cis women).

- Reclaim slurs you have no right to reclaim, or are against others reclaiming slurs rightfully.

- Deliberately misgender individuals whose preferred pronouns, title, etc. you know.

- Deliberately deadname individuals whose preferred name you know.

- Discriminate against systems. This includes but is not limited to: seeing plurality as a disorder and nothing else; only recognising adaptive/ DID systems; pressuring systems into pretending to be singlets; and believing that plurality needs a ‘cure’.

- Believe that all individuals with neurodivergence are faking it for attention, or believing that one needs their neurodivergence officially diagnosed to be valid.

- Blame people with swear words/other offensive gestures as tics for having those tics, or assuming that offensive things said by an individual with tics are an accurate reflection of their ideology/true opinions.

- Reject certain orientations (such as fraysexual) on the grounds that they are ‘just normal’; or that they are ‘unnatural’, ‘unhealthy’, or ‘not real’ (such as objectum).

Neurodivergence
We have...

- Diagnosed autism

- Diagnosed PTSD

- Suspected ADHD

Plurality
We are a neurotraumagenic median system who previously used the label (and sometimes describes themself as) a plural singlet. We’ll sometimes refer to ourselves as ‘I’ but always acknowledge our plurality. We prefer to have members of our group described as ‘alters’ (even though it’s usually a medical term for dissociated headmates in DID/OSDD-1, that’s what we feel comfortable with).

Some important facts about our median system are…

- Our system name is The Midtones. Our blanket self has a name, the one we use in real life, but we have withheld it to protect our privacy.

- We are demi-plural: our headmates will blend and then re-split several times every day.

- We don’t really have an innerworld or way of communicating directly with each other.

- We are neurotraumagenic and stressgenic.

- We only experience emotional amnesia. We have never experienced an alter coming to in our body with no memory of what came before.

- While we do dissociate, this doesn’t happen every time we switch. Dissociation for us usually results in a switch, but most of the time a switch won’t cause dissociation.

- Nobody that knows us in real life knows we are plural; we’re okay with being seen as a singlet. We see our ‘singletsona’ as the identity we all share as belonging to our body.

- Indigo, Autumn and Ash are much less differentiated from each other than the rest of the system.

- In this list of alters, their pronouns are listed in order of preference, from most to least favourable (we are all comfortable with any listed pronouns though).

- Artudette, Green and Indigo might be co-hosts but we’re unsure.

- All of us experience gender in a hazy, unclear, and unstable way and fall under the greygender umbrella. The terms listed here are the experiences each alter feels closest to.

Luka
Pronouns: They/them, he/him, ze/zem, xe/xem

Race: White

Gender: Maverique

Sex: Unknown (may be teresex)

Gender presentation: Masculine-neutral

System Role: Fixkeeper

Age:  Around 17

Artudette
Artudette shares her name with the orientation but they do not identify with the orientation or its flag. She merely took faer name from it.

Pronouns: They/them, she/her, fae/faer; he/him (auxiliary pronouns)

Race: Asian-British

Gender: Transfeminine, neofeminine neogirlflux

Sex: Wolffian, innsex, IWHV

Gender presentation: Feminine

Age: Around 19

Green
Green protects us by switching in to ‘absorb’ strong emotions, but can be violent toward other individuals. He may be a partial factive of an abuser we used to know.

Pronouns: He/him; they/them (auxiliary pronouns)

Race: BIPOC

Gender: Agenderflux, usually libramasculine

Sex: Wolffian, IWHP

Gender presentation: Masculine-androgynous

System Role: Janusian, avenger, malicitor (possibly?)

Age: Around 15

Indigo
Pronouns: They/them, he/him

Race: White

Gender: Eclipsian

Sex: Unknown (IWHV)

Gender presentation: Neutral

Age: Around 15

Autumn
Autumn is the only otherkin alter, identifying as around half cat.

Pronouns: Any (but they/them is preferred)

Race: White

Gender: Greygender, catgender, kittyboygender

Sex: Unknown (IWHV)

Gender presentation: Feminine-Neutral

Age: Around 13

Ash
Ash seems to be more social than other alters, and it may have formed to help us get through school.

Pronouns: It/its, they/them, he/him

Race: White

Gender: Questioning

Sex: Unknown

Gender presentation: Androgynous

Age: Around 16

Hallie
Hallie is a new/newly discovered alter, and we don’t know much about them yet.

Pronouns: They/them, she/her; he/him (auxiliary pronouns)

Race: White-American

Gender: Neutremme I think?

Age: Under 16

(name withheld for personal reasons)
This alter is/represents our pre-plural self from around the age we first split. She has little memory of what happened to us after our initial trauma (which is what we think caused us to become plural).

Pronouns: She/her, they/them; he/him (auxiliary pronouns)

Race: White

Gender: Caedfeminine

Sex: May be tómtsex (feels like she lost their sex to trauma)

Gender presentation: Feminine

System Role: Original, trauma holder

Age: Ageless (little)

January
January may be a partial fictive of, or takes part of their identity from, Charlie Spring from the TV show Heartstopper.

Pronouns: Apapronominal

Race: White

Gender: Quoigender

Sex: Possibly wolffian

Gender presentation: Virid

Age: Systeen

Interests
- Pokémon

- Super Mario (particularly the Mario Kart, Yoshi’s Island and Super Mario Galaxy games)

- Animal Crossing (including the games before New Horizons)

- Houseplants and indoor gardening

Terms we coined
Irritugender and irrituflux

Neutragynx

Neutrandrox

Terms we did not coin but made the pages for on LGBTA Wiki
Ante gender

Flags we designed
The first irritugender flag

The first neutragynx flag

The first neutrandrox flag