User:Deadrummer

Usually goes by

 * Cis/female, she/her (not fully out yet)
 * Bi-Aro

Gender

 * afab
 * nonbinary
 * questioning/gendercollector or jackdawhoarder
 * genderfluid - genderflux ?
 * agender
 * female
 * male
 * trigender
 * libragender
 * librafluid
 * libra-non-binary
 * libra-bigender(fluid/flux/fluix)
 * librafeminine-mascflux (seems to be the closest I got for now)
 * cisn't

Pronouns

 * any
 * preferred:
 * she/her
 * he/him
 * they/them
 * it/its

I'm pronoun indifferent and like using "it" and having "it" used on me because it takes the focus away from gender.

I don't identify myself as transgender, because I'm mostly without feeling a gender and when I do it is not tied to any gender roles or social expectations; ie my whatever my gender is at any given time doesn't impact the way I appear outwardly whether that be behaviour, clothing, speech(patterns). I'm just me.

I know I'm not cis. However, I feel calling myself cis/female/woman is close enough for most everyday settings and is the easiest way to refer to me when specifics don't matter and I'm not asked about it. For transgender I don't feel my experience of being non-cisgender is relevant enough especially since I hardly ever experience gender dysphoria, and when I do it's mostly when it comes to sexism.

Just be respectful as you should always be anyway. :)

Sex

 * afab
 * Altersex - Transsex
 * Salmacian

It always felt right to imagine/pretend to have a penis as far back as I can remember. When I started puberty I found myself wishing to "grow" a penis and got upset, and even straight up hated, and resentful towards my body for obviously not doing so.

Apparently though I dissociated this feeling so well for years that I didn't even remember it or for example the fact I pretended to have a penis when I was around 6yo. It seems obvious now, but that was a time when one was either male or female and being binary trans was the most that was accepted. Until a couple months ago, when some memories resurfaced and prompted me to look into it. Finally I found the term salmacian (maybe AFAB-P) to finally not think I'm a freak for feeling like my body is somehow wrong but not traditionally binary.

Sexual

 * Bisexual
 * Pansexual
 * Binsexual

Sensual

 * Pansensual

Romantic

 * Aromantic
 * Apothiromantic
 * romance-averse/repulsed

I don't fall in love and don't want anything to do with romance. I can usually deal with other peoples romancing though.

Platonic

 * Questioning
 * Quoiplatonic
 * Panplatonic
 * Greyplatonic
 * Aplatonic

Relationships

 * currently in a (onesided-romantic) relationship


 * ENM
 * Polyaffectionate
 * open to a closed Polycule/Polyfidelity
 * open to Hierachical Poly
 * open to Solo-Poly

See also Polyamorous

System
I'm/We are a system, but I'm the main fronter and wish to leave it at that.