User:LIme2342

Queer Q&A
Gender-Related

━ Gender ━

Why do you identify with these identities?


 * Male ━ I prefer saying I’m male, or a man, since it’s my gender.
 * Transgender (preferably trans) ━ I’m not my assigned gender at birth (AGAB), which was female. Also, I prefer “trans” over “transgender” because, while I know “gender” is there because it’s related to gender, it makes me uncomfortable to think of it as my gender. Plus, “trans” just sounds better.
 * Transmasculine (preferably transmasc) ━ I’m a man who’s trans and identify with masculinity (and perhaps masculine genders). Also, I prefer “transmasc” because it sounds better.

━ Pronouns ━

What are your pronouns and why do you use them?


 * He/Him ━ It’s typically a masculine pronoun and it fits me
 * They/Them ━ I like how it’s gender-neutral and it just feels right
 * Cloud/Clouds ━ It just feels like it clicks with me
 * Fur/Furs and Fluff/Fluffs━ I felt like it fit (and maybe it’s because I’m a furry)

Why do you identify with the identities above?


 * Pronoun Non-Conforming ━ Since I have pronouns that may not be “the norm” for a male to use, I feel like it’s PNC. The fact I use neopronouns at all feels PNC enough.
 * Neopronouns ━ I don’t personally identify with this, but I like to have the flag around to say I use neopronouns.

━ Gender Expression ━

Why do you identify with these identities?

Gender Non-Conforming ━ I don’t have the typical fashion taste, interests, (maybe even behaviors or mannerisms), that a male would have, so I feel like GNC fits me well.

I also identify with Femboy and Androgynous.

What type of style do you have (gender-wise)?

I combine femboy with a bit of masculinity to look a bit more androgynous.

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Sexuality and Relationships

━ Sexuality and Attraction ━

Why do you identify with this identity?

Panromantic (preferably pan) ━ I’m attracted to all genders (female, male, enby, etc). Somedays, I feel like I prefer one gender over the other, or I might have a higher attraction to one gender most of the time.

Some people may say that makes me omni or abro, but I prefer pan and at the end of the day, I’m still attracted to everybody. Also, I prefer “pan” over “panromantic” or “pansexual” because I feel like neither fits well and “pan” sounds better.

Do you experience romantic attraction to all genders? Absolutely.

Do you experience sexual attraction to all genders? Believe so.

━ Aromantic Spectrum ━

Why do you identify with this identity?


 * Demiromantic ━ I only experience romantic attraction once a close connection is formed (romantic, highly; alterous, very likely)
 * Romantically Non-Conforming ━ Since I’m demiromantic, I feel like that’s RNC (seeing as I’m in the aromantic spectrum and “not the norm”)

Are you romance-repulsed? Nope.

Do you watch or read stuff in the romance genre? Yep.

Do you desire a romantic relationship or romantic interactions?

Yes, but it’s difficult to form a close connection that turns into romantic attraction or otherwise.

━ Asexual Spectrum ━

Why do you identify with these identities?


 * Demisexual ━ I only experience sexual attraction once a close connection is formed (romantic, highly; alterous, very likely)
 * Merosexual ━ I’m repulsed by intercourse and certain sexual acts; I also say I'm sex-repulsed
 * Agensexual ━ I’m repulsed by genitals (the only times I’m okay with them is if the person is clothed)
 * Sexually Non-Conforming ━ Due to my identities listed here and what’s explained below, I feel like I’m very SXNC

Are you repulsed by anything else?

Yes; I’m also repulsed by anus’ (never non-repulsed) and by nudity to an extent (usually when I and another person is nude).

Do you experience arousal? Yes.

Do you watch porn or read erotica?

Yes to both, but I mainly read porn (which is usually kinks/fetishes or focused on a body part).

Do you have sexual fantasies in your head?

Yes, but it’s usually fetishes with just myself. If it’s with others, it’s someone I have a close connection with (and it’s usually kinks or sexual acts I’m okay with).

Do you desire a sexual relationship or sexual interactions?

I want sexual interactions once a close connection is formed in a relationship. The relationship may include sexual interactions, but it’s more than just sexual.

I don’t think I particularly desire it, not until I have a close connection with someone anyways. I know that when a close connection is formed, I will likely desire sexual interactions with the person.

━ Relationships ━

Why do you identify with these identities?


 * Polymonoflux ━ I fluctuate between polyam and mono. Somedays, I want a polyam relationship but then other days I don’t. Sometimes, I may even want both at the same time, or am fluctuating between the two all day long.
 * Synamorous ━ I feel like this specifies how I’m not comfortable with a polyam relationship if we aren’t all involved in a relationship with everybody. (Maybe this is only sometimes?)

How does a relationship work out when you’re polymonoflux?

I’m not too sure yet, but I’d find people who are okay with either a polyam or mono relationship first. I think some days, I’ll be like, “I wanna be mono today with [this lover].”

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Misc


 * GSRM ━ I prefer to say I’m GSRM, rather than LGBTQIA+ most of the time. I feel like GSRM is a more inclusive, simple term.
 * Queer ━ Most of the time, I just say I’m queer instead of most of my identities said above. I really like the word.

Do you have any main identities (you tell people) besides “queer”?

Yes. My main identities are usually (in this order): trans/transmasc, non-conforming, pan, demiromantic, demisexual/merosexual

And when it comes to telling people my identities, it can depend on what they ask or the situation. I usually go for telling them fewer identities depending on what they want to know.