User:DistinctiveSoy

 Distinctive

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My Genders and Pronouns

Genderfluid

Genderfluid means my gender changes, so here are a few of my gender identities that I'm fluid between;

Female

My primary/most common identity is female or at least feminine. When I feel female I use she/her and they/them pronouns. I dress mostly feminine but present myself as more androgynous.

Non-binary

My second most common identify is non-binary. As an enby I use they/them and (v)ae/(v)aer pronouns. I dress and present myself androgynous although sometimes I try to appear more masculine.

Demi-Boy

Sometimes, but rarely, I identify as a masculine gender. I'm not quite sure how exactly it feels and the specifics of this gender so I just label it as demi-boy. I use they/them pronouns and I dress masculine but present myself as androgynous.

Genderanxious

Genderanxious (aka Anxiegender) is a neurogender where one's gender is affected by anxiety. For me, I feel completely agender or gendervoid when in stressful or anxiety-inducing situations. When this happens I feel small as if my gender left my body and I shrank when it happened. No matter what gender I was before I try to come across completely androgynous.

Fantomaticflux

Disclaimer: Im still not entirely sure if I fully identify as this but I threw it in anyway.

Fantomaticflux is a xenogender where "your gender is sometimes solid, and sometimes ghost-like. It’s on a spectrum of its own with any gender at one end (ex. non-binary, female, male, or any other gender), and at the other side of the spectrum, your gender being almost nonexistent, or ghost-like.". I identify with the first part, but I dont with the other. I present the same way I do when Im fanto as when Im enby.

My Sexuality

Disclaimer: I am HEAVILY questioning my sexual and romantic orientations and this almost definitely will change.

Asexual

Im not sexually attracted to anybody. Im not interested in a sexual relationship and the thought of such relationships and sexual interactions disgust me.

Aromantic

Im not romantically attracted to anybody but I am aesthetically attracted and platonically attracted to people. I'm not interested in romantic relationships but I am fine with queer platonic relationships.

Lesbian

I'm attracted to females and feminine-presenting people.

Panspikesexual

Honestly I cant explain it better than the wiki page. "Panspikesexual is a subset of Pansexual and Abrosexual used for people who are not usually attracted to all genders, but occasionally experience a short-lived attraction to all genders. This short-lived attraction can be described as a spike or jump, resulting in the name panspikesexual,".

My Names

Violet

My given name, also my favourite. I use this name the most and I'm most comfortable with it.

Val (Valentine)

Val is actually a character of mine, but over time I have begun to envy her and honestly I would give anything to be her. I recently adopted her name as my own and will respond to Val or Valentine although Im not used to it yet and nobody really uses it.

Vincent

Ok this sounds kinda sad but Vincent is my imaginary friend.

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Yeah. They're non-binary and kinda just hang out with me. I like to talk to them and like Val I have adopted their name and will respond to it. I only call myself Vincent in my head and nobody calls me Vincent but I am considering it as my new preferred name.