User:Rhythmsancat

Names
River, Michael, Raine, Alexei, Mira, Rhys, Maxxie, Cadence, Nicholai, San, Chito, Simp, Pheasant, Pistachio, Mi, and Aliki

Do not call me: Mike/Mickey, Candace, or any other variety of nickname stemmed from these names.

However I am demi-pannominal so if there's a name you want to call me don't be shy to ask. I used to tell people to call me whatever name they wanted to which eventually resulted in the names Maxxie, Chito, and River, but I stopped due to most people throwing out random suggestions such as Bookshelf, Basket, and Tree, or common girls names such as Olivia or Jessica (which you absolutely cannot call me).

Gender/Sexuality
~ Demifluid+

~ Mutasexual

~ Polyflexible

~ Erosflux

~ Patchworkhoarder

Secondary Gender/Sexuality
~ Animogender

~ Genderplus

~ Genderseraph ~ "A xenogender that feels as though it is similar to how an otherwordly being would experience gender. It is both androgynous and genderless in nature. Although there's a connection to both femininity and masculinity, it is completely different that how humans are connected to both concepts."

~ Mana

~ Paradoxigender

~ Suiric

Tertiary Attraction Identities
~ Aliquamical

~ Aliquandrodoraric flux

~ Aliquandromnisocial

~ Aliquaomnifamilial

~ Aliquaomnisensual

~ Aliquaomniwechselnd

~ Aliquaparental

~ Anaestheticflux

~ Anexteramo

~ Androcedural flexible

~ Axenial

~ Omnialterous

~ Omninebulous

~ Omninoetic

~ Omniplatonic

~ Omniplayful

~ Omnipotential

~ Omnipresential

~ Omniqueerplatonic

~ Omnispiritual flux

~ Omnitutelary

Terminology:
~ Fraypronominal

~ Locuspronominal

~ Namepronominal

~ Webpronounswap

Primary Pronouns:
~ It/It/Its/Its/Itself

~ Xe/Xem/Xyr/Xyrs/Xyrself

~ Ve/Vem/Vyr/Vyrs/Vyrself

~ Hy/Hym/Hys/Hys/Hymself

~ He/Him/His/His/Himself

Secondary Pronouns:
~ Fae/Faer/Faer/Faers/Faerself

~ Vae/Vaer/Vaer/Vaers/Vaerself

~ Gae/Gaer/Gaer/Gaers/Gaerself

~ Nya/Nya/Nyas/Nyas/Nyaself

~ God/God/Gods/Gods/Godself

~ Ti/Ta/Tis/Tas/Taself

Nameself Pronouns:
River: Riv/Ver/Rivs/Vers/Verself

Raine: Raine/Raine/Raines/Raines/Raineself

Alexei: Al/Xei/Xeis/Xeis/Xeiself

Mira: Mir/Ra/Mir/Ras/Mirself

Maxxie: Max/Xie/Xies/Xies/Xieself

Nicholai: Nich/Chol/Chols/Lais/Nichself

San: San/San/Sans/Sans/Sanself

Chito: Chi/To/Chis/Tos/Toself

Simp: Simp/Simp/Simps/Simps/Simpself

Pheasant: Phea/Sant/Pheas/Sants/Pheaself

Pistachio: Pi/Stach/Chis/Chis/Oself

Mi: Mi/Mi/Mis/Mis/Miself

Aliki: Al/Li/Lis/Kis/Kiself

Gender Collection
~ Absgender - Partly due to my being Abinary, but also because I am absolutely cisn't, I also do not relate to the trans experience, especially in terms of gender dysphoria which I have never experienced on any scale at all significant. Worst has been offhanded disappointment that I can't ever bind because my chest is too big

~ Affectugender - There's not inherently any specific gender assigned to certain emotions, but my emotions and mental state are one of the many things that affect my gender in some way, shape, or form

~ Alexigender - This is mostly due to being Atrinary and unsure of how to define my genders alignment at any given time

~ Aliencatgender - I'm not 100% sure what I am but I'm most certainly not human, or at least wasn't supposed to be. I don't like the term 'alien' for me but I do feel otherworldly, and I have a strange yet strong connection to cats and being a cat, specifically a neko, though I'm not entirely catkin, nor do I think I was supposed to be a cat.

~ Amorgender - This is due to my feelings and emotions affecting my gender, as well as my sexuality affecting my gender just as much as my gender affecting my sexuality, which is explained through Mutasexual

~ Amplusian - Because of how complex my gender is, as well as how easily it can change based on outside factors

~ Anesigender - I'm actually Demiflux but for whatever reason I'm only comfortable with Demifluid

~ Ani - I'm not 100% sure how my neurodivergency specifically affects my gender, but I do have some ideas and I know it definitely has at least a little influence over it

~ Apeirongender

~ Aquariangender - 1.) Astrology usually does a good job at explaining me, and studying Aquarius helps ground me and remind me who I am in the lower moments when I feel rather harshed on by the rest of the world. As my gender is influenced by my emotions, this confidence boost related to Aquarius affects my gender too. In addition 2.) A part of my gender is strongly related to Aquarius and studying Aquarius as a noungender

~ Aquarigender - Since my gender is complex and uniquely fluid and unaligned

~ Arigender

~ Arkhaigender - As I'm always searching for more terms to better understand my gender. This also ties in with Patchworkhoarder in wanting to cover all aspects of my identity

~ Atrinary - I usually don't feel connected to masculinity or femininity in any way, and I'm also Abinary and Absgender, but I also don't feel comfortable to as neutral or simply nonbinary.

~ Bellusgender - As anything I like and connect to affects my gender, as well as my emotions, which in turn affect my gender

~ Cabledagender

~ Colaine

~ Constellisian - My gender is very complex, and it all connects and intertwines together in a complex web or map, but whether broken down or put together, it is a beautiful abstract concept and aspect of my identity that I hold very important to me

~ Cro

~ Demisylphen - I mostly take this to be a mix of Demifluid and Abinary

~ Dengender

~ Epicene

~ Feragender

~ "Florianflux

~ Foggender - This is a large part of my occasional experience of genderlessness

~ ForestNymphGender - For me this is more of an aesthetigender than a kingender. I love the forest/woods and nature and wildlife and strongly connect to the aesthetic of being a forest nymph, but I do not necessarily feel like I am or want to be a forest nymph

~ Genderblanket - Because of the comfort my gender provides me, as well as how vast it is. This also ties in with Patchworkhoarder as it is inspired by working on a patchwork blanket

~ Genderfloren

~ Genderfluffy - This is largely due to Alexei, as while it is most of my maturity and wisdom, it is also my childhood happiness

~ Gendersaros - This is due in part to androgynous alignment, though I am still Abinary and Atrinary, however it is mostly due to an androgynous presentation validating my gender, which with its effect on my emotions, then in turn affects my gender

~ Genderwarmth - This has a lot of different meanings to me. 1.) An aesthetigender and/or texturagender related to warmth, specifically the warmth you feel within your clothes or a building on cold days, or the warm air blowing in your face on a hot day before it soaks into your skin. It also relates to freshly dried laundry or a heated blanket, which link to nostalgic memories for me. 2.) <These may also be seen as scenegenders. In addition it is like curled up in blankets and pajamas with comfort food, especially hot chocolate, and a significant other in front of an indoor fireplace, silently feeling the waves of heat wash on your face and listening to the crackling of the fire. 3.) It also related to warmth as an abstract concept or emotion, given that my emotions affect my gender due to Affectugender, but also Amorgender as this warmth is usually linked to happy feelings towards someone one loves, likes, admires, or appreciates

~ Hoodiegender - Every aspect of myself and my identity is extremely important to me due to all of the bs that I've been through and continue to experience. As such my gender, being an aspect of my identity, is comforting to me, and like a shelter and a safe place. However it may also be hiding something. As far as gender goes I suspect this may be my suppressed femininity and attraction to girls, mostly due to trauma related to being a girl and being around other girls and women.

~ Imperigender - Since so many things affect my gender such as clothing, emotions, activities, weather, food, etc. I can manipulate my gender a bit, usually by controlling my thoughts and emotions and/or sending myself into the character and mindset of Michael, Raine, or Alexei. When mixed with aspects of my gender such as Arkhaigender, this ability to control the patterns of fluctuations within my gender will strengthen as I learn more about my gender and each aspect of it and what triggers it to change and how.

~ Kinphoriagender - Since species euphoria is an emotion, and especially a usually strong one

~ Koba

~ Laven - I'm AFAB and while masculine nouns and pronouns validate me, I'm fine with presenting feminine and do not wish to undergo hormone therapy or gender reassignment surgery to look more masculine. I may get a breast reduction both so I can bind, as well as for reasons unrelated to gender expression, but aside from that all of my gender expression will be in the clothes I wear. Androgynous style most validates me and my gender, but I also still enjoy more feminine attire. As for masculine attire, I'm not against it and may be more in between Laven and Indig, however it would appear my concept of traditionally masculine attire is...lacking.

~ Libidogender - Since my gender is closely tied to my sexuality in any context

~ Mathgender - As a distinct gender. This is related to Arkhaigender as it involves exploring my gender and its intricacies.

~ Meergender

~ Pagender

~ Panagender

~ Paxgender - As meditation and feelings of zen and peacefulness are emotions and/or heavily influence one's emotions. This is somewhat connected to Alexei as it seems to live in peace with the world around it.

~ Proxangi

~ Quarzian - I feel this is a better and possibly more accurate alternative to the terms Pagender and Panagender, and any other related terms.

~ Refutiogender

~ Salmacian - I experience euphoria from the idea of being a hermaphrodite, rather than dysphoria from being solely AFAB.

~ Schrodigender - Mostly the second definition in the sense that my gender is complex as well as tying in to Animogender, however the first definition also applies in the sense that my gender is contradictory, relating to terms such as Refutiogender and Paradoxigender

~ Scorpigender

~ Songgender - Somewhat related to Alexei with its happiness and carefree attitude towards life

~ Tangender

~ Teddygender

~ Vampiregender - I identify with both the aesthetigender and neurogender definitions

~ Yarngender - 1.) My gender does feel like it's wrapped up like a ball of yarn, especially if the yarn has a bunch of knots in it. Each knot is another aspect of my gender but in the end it's all the same thread. This is in a very similar sense as Constellisian. 2.) However it is also a noungender for me as yarn, for whatever reason be it my connection to cats, or the fact that I crochet, makes me extremely happy. Take me yarn shopping and I will literally jump with joy due to overstimulation in the aisle. I cannot explain why it makes me so happy, especially since my shelves of yarn at home do not have nearly the same effect, but it is a thing that occurs and I couldn't change it if I wanted to.

~ Zengender - As with Paxgender, this is somewhat connected to Alexei

Sexuality Collection
~ Acoplatonic

~ Aliquaromantic

~ Aliquasexual

~ Anaestheticflux

~ Autoamorous

~ Autoflux

~ Cupioromantic

~ Delloromantic

~ Dellosexual

~ Demiflexible

~ Demi-Zeloromantic

~ Idemromantic

~ Loquiromantic

~ Myrromantic

~ Noetiromantic

~ Omnomi

~ Panamorous

~ Plurian

~ Potenromantic

~ Potensexual

~ Recipromantic

~ Relationship Hoarder

~ Semisexual

~ Sigurcorpo

~ Sporadic-Ace

Raine:
Raine is my 'female' side. Xe's in denial about xyr gender and sexuality, convinced xe's lesbian and not knowing about xyr gender despite even having come out to xyr mom as nonbinary to prove a point. Xe represents my past self and my lowest points in life. As such, xe has anger issues and serious depression, along with mood swings and a generally negative mood and outlook on life and the people and things around xem. Xe's an undeveloped perspective of when I was most immature after losing my childhood innocence and happiness. The slightest mishap or misunderstanding sets xem off. Because of the radical negativity associated with xem, xe's rather suppressed on a regular basis.

Xe's unaware of the genders and sexualities I've collected for xem

Pronouns: Xe/Xem/Xyr/Xyrs/Xyrself

 Gender Collection: 

~ Azurgirl

~ Contramas

~ Forgetigender

~ Mascgirlflux

~ Nosasapphic

~ Proxvir

 Sexuality Collection: 

~ Messromantic

~ Idyllic - As xe's in denial about xyr sexuality, xe says xe wishes xe were attracted to guys in any context but xe can't actually find it in xyrself to be. A part of xem is grateful for this due to internalized sexism and heterophobia (that has since fully dissipated) but it does not stop xem from trying to be bisexual on a regular basis but always reverting back to lesbian.

~ Femkalosmin

Michael:
Michael is my 'male' side. He's primarily attracted to men, but hy's not averse to enbies. He's been with girls in the past but there's a significant disconnect. He's mostly indifferent to hys gender. Michael represents my present, as well as the near-future. He's a rather chill suse, and always ready to go on and on about his interests. He's romance oriented and loves love. Even the most unattainable crush gives hym a unique rush mixed with the pain it comes with. For the most part, hy's kicked back and lost in hys thoughts. He's not immune to anger and depression, but he's good at not lashing out or letting hymself fall too deep into depressive symptoms. Hy usually has good advice and understanding.

He's aware of the gender and sexualities I've collected for hym, but he may have used different terms for hymself.

Pronouns: He/Him or Hy/Hym preferred, but mostly indifferent to pronouns.

 Gender Collection: 

~ Contrafe

~ Femboyflux

~ Juxera

~ Nosavincian

~ Rosboy

 Sexuality Collection: 

~ Uranic

Alexei:
Alexei is my enby side. It represents my future goals and a large part of who I wish to become. It's always a walking ray of sunshine, smiling and treating every day like its last. It's full of wisdom, but also childlike happiness. It's neutral in almost every way, offering love, peace, understanding, and forgiveness to almost everyone who crosses its path. It mostly sits and observes the world around it and always takes the best from every situation to learn and grow.

It's ace-spec and mostly sex-neutral. It loves unconditionally and is mostly indifferent to its gender and the genders of those it loves and befriends.

It's somewhat aware of it's identity in that it knows it's cisn't and m-spec, but it doesn't care much about how it's labeled, only explaining to other's that it loves all genders and has a neutral gender identity.

Pronouns: It/Its or Ve/Vem/Vyr/Vyrs/Vyrself

 Gender Collection: 

~ Cutegender

~ Deibonic

~ Genderfree

~ Sodagender

~ Svitaton

 Sexuality Collection: 

~ Idesexual

~ Innocentsexual

The genders and sexualities linked in their collections are the ones that describe only them, but a few terms in my collection are more targeted toward my connection to one of them