Chameleoromantic

Chameleoromantic is a romantic orientation sometimes used interchangeably with iamvanoromantic referring to when one prefers to receive or perform romantic acts based on the gender of their partner, for example desiring to perform romantic acts on women, but not receive them, and desiring to receive romantic acts from men, but not perform them.

The sexual counterpart to chameleoromantic is known as chameleosexual.

Resources

 * 1) https://www.deviantart.com/pride-flags/art/Chameleoromantic-2-754377954